When I session, and the cover makes an apperence, he goes into lockdown! I don't have a problem O'ing with a BJ....but I want to get to home base!

How do I overcome this problem?

Put the condom on with their mouth.  Easy progression from their to home base!

Dear asking,
We've processed this issue before. You might want to take a look at previous threads. Here's one for you below.

No need to run,
the Love Goddess

I'm thinking of switching over to actually asking for CBJ from BBBJ, so that when I'm ready to play, I get to hit it! It's less in my case  about sensation I believe then pyschlogical. The fumbling around, sight of the square package, just don't know....but it puts me back to square one.

HOw do you search for prvious threads by topic?

Let her do the looking at the suare package and the fumbling while you look at the (presumably) pleasing round stuff she is endowed with. - Help the (mental) hang-up with being physically judicious.

Click on the "search messages" tab and type in your subject or author. Someone else asked this on the National Discussion board and got the reply below. Click on that link and you'll see.

the Love Goddess

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There is no doubt that a condom will reduce the stimulation that you feel - that's the physical side.

Work on the mental side. Imagine that you're not wearing a condom.