I just ran a SA search for my city with no other restrictive parameters chosen and got all of 86 results. Damn, that's not many is it! One of them joined today but previously the most recent new POT SB put up her profile 11 days ago, before that, 19 days ago, 29 days ago, etc. And of the total, only 39 were active in the last month! Do you guys bother contacting any SBs who have not been active on the site for more than a month? What's your personal time limit before you write them off as most likely not active any more?
Years ago, before I discovered Sugar Dating I was quite active dating escorts. The local offerings were sparse at best. So I would hop on a plane and visit some of the more target rich environments for a weekend of pleasure from time to time, places like Phoenix, Dallas, Los Angeles. I'm retired now and have no business reason for traveling any more. But I do have the free time, and am actually considering getting back into that habit since there's so little going on here at home. I find myself browsing the SA profiles for those and other cities, thinking I might be able to meet a SB, but I'd also want to schedule a date or two with some well reviewed TER providers as insurance that the trip would be worthwhile.One of the girls joined just today, and there are less than a dozen who have joined in the last month.
I rarely contact any POT SB who hasn't logged in for over about a week.
My solution has been to expand my search to a one hundred mile radius which gives me a little over a thousand POT SB's to pick from. I also see hookers virtually every time I go to Dallas.
Yup, I'm with you on that. My search expands to a thousand when I add 100 miles. One thing I do though is cruise the SA site frequently so I can spot the local newcummers and say hi before they are swamped by the competition! I've been messaging one girl all day who just joined and we're already at the Let's-meet-for-coffee stage. Hope she says yes!
I'd try a 25- or 50-mile radius. You need to look outside the confines of the city, but 100 miles is probably too far.
In many small cities, once you leave town, there is NOTHING until you get to the next city which might be 50-100 miles away. In my city for example I just did a search and as of this moment I am getting 112 hits right in the city, expanding it by 10 miles gives me the exact same number, 25 miles gives me a whopping 117 hits and 50 miles almost doubles it to 217, but when I take it out to 100 miles it shoots all the way up to 1,044.
That's a big increase. If you are within 100 miles of a large city, then consider going that far, though driving 2 hours each way is not ideal. I get 3,906 results in DC and 8,995 within 25 miles of DC. My situation is obviously very different.
Now if I could take my search out 150 miles, I would get literally thousands of results as I am about 130 miles from Dallas. A 100 miles search gets me to the very outskirts of the Dallas suburbs.
It's not ideal, but it is what it is. I have no choice but to live where I am to be close to my field operations. Even with the limited options here, I still usually manage to keep a rotation of about 4-5 SBs at any one time. I do take pains to replace any that I lose to attrition which is simply a nature of the beast, these type of relationships are not designed to be permanent IMHO.
BTW when I lived in Dallas only a year ago, I never even bothered with the Sugar Bowl as I was seeing a different hooker almost every day. Living in a city of only 100,000 is a much different proposition.
But I found and hooked up with my SB who is nearly a 100 miles away. Go figure 😀