Check out 50-60 year old POTs on SA. Especially on the east coast.  They all post gift requirements in the substantial bracket. What's with that??  Most of these ladies look, well, not so good.  What prompts a person that old to seek so much??

"Just say no"

Or better yet, don't even respond. I have no idea what the old broads in my area are asking, unless they plan on paying me and paying me a LOT, I have no interest in so much as talking to them unless they are offering to hook me up with their college aged daughter. lol

GaGa,  

Pretty sure you meant college aged grand daughter.  :p

I actually meant to say "daughter/granddaughter" but got lazy and simply typed "daughter" so nice catch. A fifty year old is quite likely to have a daughter around 20, a sixty year old, not so much.

I do know my last "age appropriate" GF, back about 15 years ago or so, has a daughter MUCH too old for me.

True...  

I noticed about 5 years ago that virtually ALL of my SB's have parents younger than me.   Those parents I've met (and there are only a few) seemed to be cool with my age.  

Or maybe they were just good at hiding their shock, and displeasure, (and possibly jealousy from the fathers that secretly want to bang hot 20-somethings on the side, too!).

I have found that lots of girls just put high or substantial because they want as much money as possible. You still need to come in with your offer, at your number. If she takes it, great, if not, no worries and move on. But for the vast majority of profiles, the fact that they've listed a high expectation really doesn't tell you at all whether they'll take a lower offer. You have to make your offer and move on