So I live in a major metropolitan area with several universities.... My SA experience just isn't lining up with what you guys are talking about... I mean a few girls are straight propositioning me like I'd expect... but a lot of them say stuff like "$300 just to have dinner" or "I understand if you wanna meet first but you have to pay me for that"... I mean I have met a few who are straight and are down to meet and if we hit it off be intimate for pay... but that's not what like 80% of the profiles are about.
My answer has been categorically, "I don't pay women to talk to me".... Am I doing this wrong?I have never paid for a meet and greet. Most girls who want that are just out for the whale. They are testing to see what they can get. I bet the price for playtime bcd would be very high. I just move on. Keep panning, you only need to hit once and you could have a girl for a year or more. Try to catch new girls early before they get spoiled by other stupid guys.
No, I think you are on the right track. But in addition to not paying for talk, I would remind them that they are getting dinner or lunch out of this for free, which is not nothing...
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Don't pay to meet. It's a waste of money and sends the wrong message. If they want money for nothing, imagine how much they want for an intimate encounter!
People I'm willing to pay to have dinner with me: Thomas Jefferson, Leonardo da Vinci, and Jesus Christ. The women on SA are not on my list.
Interesting that you posted about this topic because I was going to make a similar post. I live in the DMV/DC Metro area and my experience surely hasn't been like gambler or some of the other folks I've seen on here. Lucky them.
I'm doing a 90 day trial and will deactivate my account when it's over and take a little break until next Spring or so. I've met several POT SB in the reasonable range for first time bedroom salsa in the $200-$300 range . After the first time, and if we'd like to see each other again. Then I'm willing to move it up to $300-$500. But they don't last for reasons like unreliability or distance.
Finding reasonable SBs in this area has been challenging to say the least. Most the ones I meet are very entitled/uni-lateral/double standard individuals that demands things just because they think they're young and beautiful. I even had a few that tried to hustle me. Now don't get me wrong, I don't hate the players or the game. It's part of life. I do wonder though? For them to act the way they do, and demand what they're demanding. It must mean that they were successful in hustling someone else. It makes me wonder, how much do people in my area give and how rich are they? I make a good salary over+200k but I'm not stupid rich and I'd never pay for someone's "presence" much less if they're jerks.
It's funny, the ones that are demanding money $500+ for first time bedroom salsa i usually pass. I even tactfully tell them my logic. Which is there are a lot of hookers in the area and you know exactly what you're getting when meeting them thanks to TER or P411. With a SB you have no clue how well they will dance bedroom salsa with you the first time. I guess I am a lot more choosy then some because I'm not desperate for sex and have a life outside of chasing girls. So yea, I live in a very pretentious/entitled area. And yea I guess I'm well aware that a lot of my counterparts in the area have a lot more money or willing to shell out more than me just because.
Anyway, it's been a fun and interesting ride so far and I must say, that I do prefer it over pros. But the pro with pros is that you know exactly what you're getting and there are no surprises. Good luck, happy hunting, and keep your pimp hand strong. Don't let these ladies hustle you and treat them with respect while expecting the same in return from them. If it's a double standard then move on. The rich pushovers in the area makes it hard for normal guys like me.
Have they actually been successful in getting other dumb rich guys to pay them for a dinner date? One young cute asian girl actually went kinda crazy on me when I politely refused her insistence on $500 minimum just to show up for dinner!
I started in March last year. In my experiences, you can get a TER 7 for about 300, 8 for 400, and 9 for 500. The 10's usually ask from 800 to 1k. I was tempted a couple times, but decided to pass since it defeats the purpose of seeing SB's.
I just can't see myself going for a p4p over $500, no matter how hot. I live in the San Fernando Valley and there are literally 3 to 5 active porn stars in my area active on the site at any given time. I don't even offer THEM more than $500 and I've closed with 3 of them this year. Note that I have seen some of the same SB's on TLC or helpubookher doing escort for $1500+.
It's about projecting confidence, and keeping your authority to say no while still showing her respect and not being a dick. Trust me, it's not my looks that gets me BCD.
It depends on your game. If your rap is strong you can't go wrong.
I made that mistake on my first dip into the Sugar Bowl. Never, ever again. When asked I tell them I don't pay for conversation or a meal. Since then I've bedded about 10 and have a rotating group of 4 or 5 depending on new arrivals and ones who drop off. DO NOT PAY TO MEET!