Had two old SBs reach out to meet up again. Apparently the SD scene in LA is pretty bad. One left because her career was taking off and she wanted to focus there. The other wanted a larger allowance. Both of them were great when we were together. But I'm only willing to pay so much. $500 usually unless we spend a lot of time together.
The one with the career said she genuinely missed spending time with me and wanted to save the allowance to buy something special. The one who wants the higher allowance couldn't find anyone consistent who wasn't demanding she be on call for him when he wants it. Had lunch with both this week. Feels like the allowance demands are coming back to $400-500 per date again.That's very reasonable. It's about the same here in the DC area, a bit higher even unless you are willing to go out to the outer suburbs or Baltimore and its vicinity. If you enjoyed spending time with them before and can fit them into your budget, why not?
I agree that it's reasonable. When we were doing weekend trips I would give more obviously. But when I'm buying dinner, concert tickets, etc and $500 it does come down to value. I like both of them. We have a great time. The sex is fantastic. But the recent trend of girls wanting $1000 for a first date and not willing to discuss intimacy, I was pretty turned off.
So I'm glad I'm getting back with two that I know already. They know what I like. We know we click.
I spent a wonderful 4 hours today with a wonderfully wild and crazy girl I dated regularly back in 2018. She's back in town for a while and wanted to see me, perfect! We had great sex, a great motorcycle ride out to a great little lunch spot, and great conversations getting reacquainted. Since her early days on SA she's become much more savvy about sugaring and escorting which she also does. And she gets big bucks, especially from her Tryst clients. But she likes me and grandfathers me in at our old rate. So yes, returning playmates can be wonderful!
Sugaring and escorting are 2 different things? Maybe. But not by much.