I have a couple of girls that drop by for a quickie a few times a week for around a hundred bucks. There is no wining, no dining, it's all BCD time and the "dates" rarely last more than an hour, often even less. I have other ladies where we almost always spend the entire night together and those dates range from $300-500 per meet. I also have a mix of meets with other SB's that range somewhere in between

I'm in tip of So. Cal and here is what I offer:

- 500 per meet 2 or 3 times a month which ideally for me would be 2 overnights, preferably on Sat eve but Fridays would also do. The third one depends on my discretionary expenditure allowance for that particular month. I do prefer to schedule for a full date night preceded by a nice dinner before retiring to my place or a hotel room (special treat). I would like to reward my SB with some extra caring thoughts such as gifts (mostly athletic wear or yoga clothing from a well known brand), spa massages, mani/pedi sessions in the 100-200 range max. I get more generous with gifts if and when she becomes more giving with her time and her sensuality/sexuality. I can get the 300 PPM SBs in my locale but I have found those sorts to be the types who raise some red flags with me. I will have to be very comfortable about a stranger before I bring her back to me casa!

If the SB and I stick together for say 6 months or so and if I know within a very high degree of certainty that she's being exclusive with me on the SD/SB front, I will offer to take her on a vacation but I will not offer any extra allowance for the extra time together because I tend to avoid the transnational aspect of sugar such as directly commensurating her for time spent and/or number of "pops" allowed. Those traits are too hookerish for my tastes which I have had abandoned since 2014.

500? 3 to 4.

I don't do SB/SD per se, but several of the UTR gals I see are roughly the same experience as what is recounted on here, so I don't see much difference.

In any case, I average about $1,200/month with two or three sessions.  (It used to be twice or three times that when I could afford it, which I hope will be again one day soon.)

I provide dinner at a nice sit down type of place, and on special occasions go whole hog.  Sometimes I prepare a meal if I'm hosting at home.  about 1/3 of the time I get a hotel room, and the rest is usually at her place.

On birthdays and Christmas, I often bring a gift depending on what they like.  Sometimes a gift card, and sometimes jewelry, and sometimes a bottle of Champagne

I routinely paid $200 per date with a wide variety of truly hot young women.  But this is a poor state. Even so, most seem to want more these days and I'll gladly go $250, but $300 is kinda my limit except for special circumstances (meaning super hot, or I'm letting the small brain do the thinking). The venue is either my home, my RV, a hotel, or her place.  So often there's little extra cost.  I've given them gifts of trinkets, a new backpack, restaurant meals,  groceries, $ for firewood, even a new computer once. I've received multi hour dates which is my preference, a few that just tried to make me cum asap and leave, several delightful overnights, so, quite a variety.

Where I live in LA, I stlck to 400 for a 2-4 hours "pillow fight" at my hotel. The room will run about 120 per day plus some snacks, about another 30. Did this about twice a month. But now,I'm just a bystander in LA scene, regulated to seeing a few hookers now and then. Doing outcall to my hotel was a pain in the ass and took the fun out of it.
Now when I traveled to Vegas, about once a month, it's was a different game. I did some pretty heavy navigation where I found a few that were actually very happy with, dinner (200),alittle  
gambling (gave her 100-200) then BCD fun for 500 per date. And I don't recall anyone leaving before 5am. But it was a process to find someone who actually wanted a night out and not feel like a hooker.
And I don't really do the "gift" thing, what I'll do is buy them some lingerie for them to prance around in. They seem to enjoy it so...

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I pretty much allow them to say nice things about me as I buy them a meal.  It's no holds barred compliments and praise as far as I am concerned.  

As to the money part, in LA I have pretty much held to a $400 budget now (but I have been trying to do more of a monthly when it is the right girl).  I know there are girls asking for more and I learned pretty quickly that more price does not equate to better value

I'm fairly new at this, but:

The one arrangement I've concluded so far is $300 per meet. Not clear how long that could be, as it's usually my time limit that's the problem.

The one arrangement that I've (so far) passed on is $150 per, but the lady is late 30's and not the body type I most prefer, so have passed on this one so far.

I live in a target sparse environment , BUT it's also not a great economic area, so I think patience is called for. Some of the old hands in this game have given me great advice, and I'm not trying to bid up the few SBs around here, but rather exercising patience. I'm old, they're young, I think I can win most of the time.

Don't include a meal or gas in estimates.     Had one talk me into help and screwed me over.    I don't help a new girl out with advances.    Too many are crooks if you let them.

In the Chicago area I have found that the "city girls" typically ask for $500 per meet, and will take $350-400.  In the suburbs, they, too ask for $500, but readily accept $300.  Every young lady that has asked me to "go first", in terms of naming a number, has been ok with $200-300.  Thus, contrary to typically negotiating strategy, I have done better when asked to name my price

.. 600 max. There is one exception though and I am fine with it. She is well worth the extra 100.

I've only been back in this game for a short time and my limit in Atlanta, which I think is a pretty SB rich environment is 200 to 300 for a date and 400 to 500 for an over night. I of course buy for meals and fuel if needed, plus small gifts(wine, gift cards, etc).  

I have a SB recently ho says she moved from NYC say she gets 1k per meet and 1.5 per over night. I low balled at 200 per and 300 over night and she responded with 500 per and 800 over night. I countered with my original offer and she lowered again to 400 and 700. She is damn near a 10. But I can't do it, I have yet to exceed my own personal budget and not gonna break my budget on her. I'd rather see the performances I know