While it's possible that you could have gotten a "freebie" by not mentioning the money, it's equally as possible that she would have labeled you a cheapskate and would stop wanting to see you in the future.
You actually handled it rather well in my opinion, at least you didn't say "how much do I owe you?" Now THAT would have been stupid. lol It sounds like she is happy and you are happy, I don't see anything stupid when both of you got what you wanted. I will confess I often go months without ever having a talk about money, in many cases I just ask if they need anything, but without asking for a specific dollar amount, when they invariably say "yes I could use some money" I give them whatever I feel like giving them and ask if that will take care of their needs until I see them again. That approach has been working for me, but there is no "one right way" to do this. As long as both parties are happy, who is anyone else to criticize?
So, I recently agreed to meet my third SA date for a lunch meet and greet. She is a recently graduated Latina, quite cute/pretty, but not stunning (way I like them!). Morning of, she messaged me that she needed to stay at home as she busy with work, so could I come to her place instead of the restaurant? [She works from home]. Sounded like a great idea to me So, went there, and we chatted for 30 min or so. I got the feeling it was going well, and she was getting hot... When I stood next to her to discuss what to order to eat, she started feeling my crotch. We started making out while waiting for the delivery. After lunch, she grabbed me by my belt and dragged me to the bedroom! She was dripping wet, and things went very well indeed from then on. But here's my question. We never discussed money. When we were finished, and were dressed again I mentioned that we had not discussed assistance. She mentioned a number, and I agreed. Was I stupid to bring the topic up - should I have let her bring it up, if at all?
While it's possible that you could have gotten a "freebie" by not mentioning the money, it's equally as possible that she would have labeled you a cheapskate and would stop wanting to see you in the future.
You actually handled it rather well in my opinion, at least you didn't say "how much do I owe you?" Now THAT would have been stupid. lol It sounds like she is happy and you are happy, I don't see anything stupid when both of you got what you wanted.
I will confess I often go months without ever having a talk about money, in many cases I just ask if they need anything, but without asking for a specific dollar amount, when they invariably say "yes I could use some money" I give them whatever I feel like giving them and ask if that will take care of their needs until I see them again. That approach has been working for me, but there is no "one right way" to do this. As long as both parties are happy, who is anyone else to criticize?
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