During cuddle time I asked my SB how many guys she been with and she responded less than 10. And then she asked me and I said at least 162 (number of ter reviews I have). She started laughing and said you're such a bad liar.  
Man what's the point of honesty

Just kidding. Lol.

I never ask that question because I don't want to know the answer!  I am quite sure she would not like my number. We know each of us is more than one, that's good enough for me!

If I knew, then it wouldn't be enough.

How many guys have I been with? ZERO. lol

I almost had a similar situation come up recently. An SB I was seeing was commenting how good I was at DATY, she then mentioned it was probably because I had done it "thousands of times" so I better be good at it by now, and then she was quick to add "Thousand of times, but I am sure NOT thousands of women, right?" I simply smiled and went back to work, she quickly forgot the question. lol

Agree. It's not a discussion I want to have...  

How many I've had? In over 30 years of an active sex life including a few GF's, mongering, strip club VIP's with extras, and in the last 6 years Sugaring, it has to be at least 200+. That is NOT a number I want an SB to contemplate.  

How many has she had? Given that my total sugar will not (will never) be more than 10-20% of her total income, I always assume that she has at least 1 other SD (or BF or ??). I don't want to go down that path either by asking. Too easy to get me thinking about how I compare, too much risk of getting her to try to get us to out bid each other for time/sugar.  

I do have one part-time Unicorn that I've been on and off with for years. I asked her once if she had ever been with a woman and she confided that she has a female SMommy. In fact the reason why I was on and off again was because she was flipping between the two of us, usually 3 or 4 months at a time.  Anyway, she's a 27 yr old Filipino, great body, new perky boobs and totally unreserved in sex play. All for a small p4p present.

to know how many men they've been with and how many others they are seeing at present.  And I don't mind them knowing my score if they ask.

I mean if you are in your sixties and admit/boast of having had "hundreds: of previous sexual partners, that's one thing. but I still haven't found a tactful way of telling a woman that she is number 4,325 on my ever growing list. Truthfully, I don't even have a clue as to how many women I have slept with in the 43 years that I have been sexually active, but I do know that even "high volume" hookers sometimes have an issue with my "number"  

Personally, I subscribe to the "don't ask, don't tell" philosophy. Honesty can be overrated.