Idea:  

1. Text her to meet you at a crowded "locals" bar.  

2. Tell her you will be the guy drinking a Coors Light at the bar and she should walk up and ask you to buy her a shot of ouzo so you know who she is.  (And because it tastes like shit.)  

3. Don't go to the bar - ever.  

4. See if she contacts you the next day. Then tell her

Here's your answer:

Can we take it slow on the allowance matter

It's very important to dampen your dipstick regularly. You don't want that thing to dry out. So if you fuck the milf and she's got enough natural lubrication for the activity, you might want to pay her. But if you have to supply your own lube don't pay her. So the tactful way to go is simply to ask her, excuse me Miss, is your pussy naturally slippery?

to pay for a road trip before I paid for anything wearing granny panties.

Guess it all depends on how dry it's been out there for you. So far in my limited experience there have been three groupings...the 18-19 yo, 20-25 group, 25-30 yo. Seems the 18 yo are generally more naive (not all of them), somewhat surprised at being hit on by mongers of all makes and varieties and not entirely aware of what they are in for.  Of course, with me being the perfect gentleman, have heard a lot of their stories and its up to me to relieve their insecurities and close the deal. Despite the time and effort involved, the reward is helping these young women explore their sexual nature. The college age and older SBs seem to know more of what they want and we want from the arrangement and here is where I have seen some of them asking for ridiculous allowances. Even when we can't come to agreement, I see them continuously online still looking, and I believe free market forces hopefully come in to play. Or....they are among the number of pro/semi-pros that are on the site non-stop----which has become my real suspicion.

Having my first meet with an over 30 SB, of course stated age is just that, so I won't be surprised if there's some inaccuracies. What drew me to her other than playing mattress polo, is we have some really similar common interests and lifestyles, and I made it clear I'm not interested in a serious relationship. The nice thing is she spends quite a bit of time out of the country, a place where I wouldn't mind traveling to also. The bottom line, will find out if COD is in the cards or not????

-- Modified on 1/11/2017 12:03:51 PM

It's not Tinder or Bumble. She's on SA because she wants to get some money in return for having sex with you. You're on SA because you can't get any women to fuck you any other way.  
If you think she's worth fucking, then pay her.  If not, then don't do either.  But don't be a cheap dick.  
Lately this forum has become the place for bragging about or finding out about getting freebies from SBs. Smh.  

-- Modified on 1/11/2017 3:33:01 PM

Met one 57 (5 years older than me) on SA and has NO expectations except to be taken to dinner, movies, etc.  Never talked of a pay per visit or allowance and we hit it off when we met.  Body of a 40 year old and an absolute joy to hang out with.  Got her a $200 gift card to her favorite store for Christmas and let's just say it was "appreciated".  Now if she was asking $200 / visit I would still at this point because I really enjoy her company, but if that was expected we would have not met.  The sex it not amazing, but pretty good, readily available and I'm enjoying it way more than my hand.

There are two over 60 within 25 miles of me!  Maybe the 90 year old dudes are on SA now also?

Having a new and initially "online" great connection with one that is 42 and both seem excited about our dinner next Monday night.  Love to see where that goes!  Hot realtor, she may have to "show" me some homes for sale  Bottom line is it all over the map.  The ones you quickly connect via real names and real/hobby numbers seem to be the best sign.

I am finding major time wasters the younger they are.  I feel there are possibly a majority new "talent" that got Christmas bills to pay, think it's easy money and say I can do that. When the moment comes to meet many get cold feet.  

Met a 25 year old as my first SB about 6 month ago and our first connection was awful, never saw her again.  Terrible in bed (but amazing to look at) but I hardly ever saw her face because her phone was always covering it. It got obnoxious how addictive she was to it.  Actually heard it buzz and went to grab it when we were . . . ???

I am finding this a world of patience pays.  Seems the harder I look the less anything happens but when I give it a rest for a while good things happen.

I did find my unicorn recently  That's another post.

I just re-read that and damn I ramble.

-- Modified on 1/11/2017 12:52:12 PM

Personally, I don't just put someone in a class such as milf and then dismiss whether or not any sugar should be shared.  I've had some amazing times with older ladies and then there have been some not so great ones too.  The same can be said for the younger ladies and in fact some of them should get some tutoring from some of the older ladies.

Maybe that is the solution...sugar paid to the youngsters must be shared in some proportion with the higher quality milfs.  

Maybe not.  Kind of sounds like socialism, now that I think about.