There's been a lot of negative commentary about how poorly Seeking (Arrangement) is working these days.  I've contributed my share for sure.  So I'm happy to have something positive to write about for a change.  Back in the "golden age", i.e. 2017, 2018,2019, it was fairly easy to start a new arrangement.  The typical success story went something like this:  say hello online and exchange some messages,  agree to meet irl for coffee/lunch/drinks and conversation, then agree to meet next time in a private venue for some BCD fun.  All goes as planned and that first wonderful encounter is the first of many.  What did NOT happen was her inisting that you send $ in advance before she would agree to meet you for lunch, begging for $ at the last minute cuz "her car broke down" or whatever the excuse du jour might be, her upselling you, asking for outrageous allowances, insisting you buy her pics and vids first, etc, etc.  You know all the scams by now.  Well I just had my first BCD with a new lovely 23yo latina this week, and am happy to report things went exactly according to plan, just like it used to!  I'm surprised that such an easy process is now the exception rather than the rule.  But the gems are still out there, you just have to dig through more dirt to find them!