Just noticed that an astonishing number of SA cuties in my town list their occupation as bartender...
Usually are very good and quite astute observers and readers of body language and behavior.
Ive noticed lots of esthiticians and hairdressers.
Yep, and a fair number of nannies.
One could get political here and consider this a middle class problem. If a lady does not attend college, life will be tough. Lucky for us all on here, in general females outnumber males in college at ratios up to 60:40. Makes it hard to find a BF. The girls outside school are left to struggle in low end jobs. Luckily the internet helps put these ladies in touch with us! I think the trend will continue and even get more common. Can't wait to meet a hot bartender!
engage a bar tender, hair dresser, or gal of similar vocation, consider first your dismay should sex end up ruining your relationship with the gal this ending the former relationship.
Further, as for the bar tender, keep in mind that poison is a woman's weapon.
I have been tempted to make a pass at my hair stylist (didn't do it) and later at a bar maid with very high appeal (didn't do it). Damn. But if I had, and if the sex had gone sour, I could easily have started frequenting another bar and could readily have found another stylist. Small price to pay.
As for the poison you refer to, do you mean bourbon or cyanide? 
Enjoy your weekend,
-CG