I mentioned before that I get a lot of messages on SB, in some cases more than on SA. Possibly there are fewer guys on SB.
Recently though I got a couple of messages on Secret Benefits from the same girls I saw and messaged on SA. I don't have a paid account so not seeing those messages. These gals did not respond to my messages on SA and my profile if more or less the same on both. But I'm wondering if these are cloned accounts, since a lot of people talk about bots on there. Presumably you could steal the pictures and copy the text and create a fake account for whatever scam.. just wondering.
My last experience was similar, though I never actually connected with a POT beyond 1st messages.
To add to my apprehension about SB, I see far too many pop-up ads for it when using escort ad sites or other hobby blogs.
If you ever crack the code on sifting through the bots and fakes to find reliable POT's, please share.
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Because I can linger on SB for months and months and only use up credits when I see someone I want to contact. With Seeking, unless you are willing to keep a monthly subscription going, you have to blast everyone to make it worthwhile.
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SB seems to have real chicks and I've met several off that site. I'd say Seeking has a much larger pool and probably easier to find someone because of the ability to broadcast -- but I just don't like the time constraint. I'm not going to go for a long term subscription.
I've been on SA for many years. I started with a profile I never used, and then several years in, decided to spring for a paid membership so I could message the SBs. My success amazed me. So I have maintained a paid membership ever since. I enjoy browsing the profiles on a daily basis, and I'm always seeking to increase or upgrade my rotation. It does cost money, about $1000 per year. But I just figure it's the cost of being in the Bowl.
Yes, it makes sense if you have the bankroll and are always recruiting.
And one more factor for me is the very small number of SBs in my area of Pussy Siberia. I can't afford to forego any worthy opportunities, even the unlikeliest ones. One thing that happens sometimes is that a SB I started a conversation with, but who's been mia from the site, will return after a long absence. I want her to see I'm still active so we can reconnect and pick up the thread again. This is a rare occurrence to be sure, but it has actually resulted in some amazing long term arrangements. So I maintain my presence continuously.