I've been toying with it lately--lots of overlap between SA and WYP. Not a surprise given who runs both sites.
I have not met anyone yet--but, lots of interest in the $1-200 range, AND, not all of them are expecting to be SBs. I *loathe* the idea of paying to see someone eat or drink, but, hey, I'll deduct from my already re-donkulously low offer rates. Once they get to dinner, and have some wine, and have some nice chat, they start thinking, hmmm, why not? I'm already out.... Looking forward to hearing any experiences.I don't pay for "dates" with POT SB's, much less women who really expect to be paid for "no sex" dates. I have a rule that I don't pay for "time and companionship" I only give women money who have sex with me, or pour me drinks, cut my hair, etc etc. lol
I hear ya, bro.
BUT, you get to communicate ( and presumably negotiate) with the POT SBs there.
I'll just indicate I'm not sure I can meet with POT SB because I'm waiting to hear from a good friend I see privately.
You know, I'll think of something. Plus, I don't go over $100 anyway, and as I said, I'll deduct it from my already modest offer
That whole sham messaging system based on purchasing "tokens" is a sure way for a fool and his $$$ to be separated from each other! It is NOT like SA where for your monthly subscription fee one would get unlimited PM accessibility so that was ref flag numero uno!
Then, in my market of So. Cal it appeared that about $200 was about the "median" offer where a POT would be interested in "considering" to show up! Some even wanted this UPFRONT to supposedly do hair and nails prior to the meeting!!! LOL!
None of the above even if all honored by the sucker POT SD would guarantee against a No Show. That site attracts the more professional type of POT SBs who want to have that extra gravy and none of that would guarantee a successful result for the POT SD.
Major PASS!
I agree with Principium: major pass!
I know you are looking for more than a dinner date. If that were your primary interest, then sure, go ahead. If you want to play, stick with SA or TER.
On WYP, there are women who are in a sort of "SB light" category. They are content with less money for less activity. Some of them will not go BCD for any amount of money (unless you are George Clooney or Brad Pitt). Their are quite content with $200 for dinner. They don't need or want $500 and won't sleep with you for it.
Also, the amount you pay to meet someone should NOT be viewed as a downpayment on a BCD session. If someone on WYP is willing to play for $500, that's $500 plus the $100 or $200 to meet, not $500 total.
I'm sure there are some reasonable and affordable SBs on the site, but I think they are rather rare. The site's model feeds into the mindset of "I'm pretty and charming, so guys should give me money just because." There is no real quid pro quo
I know you are looking for more than a dinner date. If that were your primary interest, then sure, go ahead. If you want to play, stick with SA or TER.
On WYP, there are women who are in a sort of "SB light" category. They are content with less money for less activity. Some of them will not go BCD for any amount of money (unless you are George Clooney or Brad Pitt). Their are quite content with $200 for dinner. They don't need or want $500 and won't sleep with you for it.
Also, the amount you pay to meet someone should NOT be viewed as a downpayment on a BCD session. If someone on WYP is willing to play for $500, that's $500 plus the $100 or $200 to meet, not $500 total.
I'm sure there are some reasonable and affordable SBs on the site, but I think they are rather rare. The site's model feeds into the mindset of "I'm pretty and charming, so guys should give me money just because." There is no real quid pro quo.
I was on it but it was waste of time, I never contacted anyone myself because I really didn't see many I liked, but I did get tons of offers from women we complete opposites of what I was looking for.
In my area SA has best quality girls, Arrangement Finders OK, Whats your Price the worst.
Generally $100 gets you the first meeting, and although usually no sex, you each get chance to meet and chat and bring the subject around to intimate meetings; I have a regular that I met thru the site - we see each other 1-2 times a week, usuLly one intimate session (withgift at the end), and one dinner/meal just to talk - no gift other than paying for the meal. We trade text daily, and meetings are relaxed and unrushed - intimate sessions go 2-5 hours thoughh sometimes the last few hours are just hanging together and cuddling in bed and watching a movie on tv. Before we got going as a regular duo, there were another 4 I met and who were game, but I've opted to drop them and just focus one the one.