Here’s how I got into the hobby.  

My bitch ex-wife just walked out on my one January a number of years back (after 18 years).  I got through it and finally treated myself to the trip of a lifetime.  Went to SE Asia for 2 weeks.  Spent 5 days seeing the temples in Cambodia and 8 days seeing the girls in Bangkok!  I had a blast!  One girl in the afternoon, 1 girl for “short-time” in the evening, and another girl for “long-time” to sleep with me all night.  Bangkok was only my 2nd experience with pay for play.  Then throw in a few nuru massages with happy endings and I went home a happy man!

I got home and missed the companionship (and the sex!).  I lost my virginity at 16 to my girlfriend and later first wife.  It seemed like it came 4 years too late!  We did it almost every day - sometimes just repeatedly until we were both raw.  Now, 46 years later, I still need it all the time.

I started finding girls on the internet after I got back from Bangkok.  First girl was unbelievable, BBBJ, every position and CIM to finish off.  She is still a friend.  I kept it up.  I’ve been with many, many, many girls and women.  Ages from 18-57, Asian, white, black, Latina, mixed, tall, petite, in-between, thin, fat, athletic, big tits, big asses, small tits, tight asses, quickies and all-nighters.  Counted girls from 15-20 countries once, two honest-to-fucking-goodness porn stars (and I have watched the videos!), and SYT to a few hags.  

I have enjoyed everything from plain covered fucking in mish to full bare-back events, LFK, DFK, HJ, CBJ, BBBJ, BBBJTC, NQNS, DATY, DATO, FIV, FIA, GSM, COB, facials, Greek (even unprotected Greek once – kind of stupid, but she just stuck it in there!), gangbangs, even put together one of my own GB parties (!), DP (at one of the GBs), a number of FMFs, some swinger events, incall, outcall, on trips, on my birthday, on Christmas day, sensual massages, and just recently I was with a girl who is just a super-soaker with rubber sheets to match!  I have also enjoyed just about every position I have ever known about, read about or seen – mish, CG, RCG, doggie, lazy doggie, standing doggie (my fave!), Greek, Russian, 69 (top and bottom), ATM, PTM, light bondage, scissors moves, pile-driver (she was fucking hot!), face-sitting, all kinds of fun!

I figure I have spent maybe $20K, not including the trips (yes, trips!) to Bangkok (the bar girls are hot, flexible, young, willing to please and sooooo cheap!).  Except for maybe 3% of my encounters, every red American cent (and baht, pound, peso, hryvnia, and euro) has been worth it.  I have even made some good friends in my provider network.
I am kinda glad that bitch walked out on me.  She opened a whole new world.  My sexual knowledge is amazing.  I can make any woman cum dozens of ways.  Even now, at almost 61, I am a sexual stud!! I plan to keep going until my dick falls off or I have a heart attack with some hot little big-tit thing humping my cock!  I still like the little Asian girls the best.  I hope one of them is on top of me when I go!

Stud6

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but  I am sure it wasn't $20,000 total.

...and divorced around 40.  He couldn't have spent only 20K on P4P (not including travel expenses) in 20 years.  Maybe he meant 200K.  Or he's making it all up - isn't that the purpose of this board?  

Of course, he could be a 'cum loud' graduate of the JackDunphy School of Negotiating.