You know... with providers you basically keep hitting them up till you get a yes or no...
In dating there's like all these unwritten rules of not seeming to anxious or needy... In these arrangements, I figure they want something from me and I want something from them its business... but some of the girls are really cagey... or they don't want their time wasted, but feel free to waste mine. I just had a girl tell me to pick her up later, and when I asked a couple of times over 90 mins when... she replied that I was annoying her... uh yeah, excuse me for trying to plan my life. Is there an etiquette?She is asking you when by not responding.
Just tell her when you'll be by.
Don't try to be logical and analytical, it doesn't work
Well she lives 60 miles round trip away, and I don't have her address... so just announcing a time and heading out wasn't really an option.
Text your address to me and I'll be there at _____.
When a woman won't answer a question, that means don't ask it anymore
Simple rule: As soon as she starts the vague messages or no response, shut it down hard. Tell her not to contact you again until she gets her priorities straight and she can stick to a committed time.
If you really want to burn it in, tell her you have other options and she just got bumped off the list.
Then - and this is IMPORTANT! - do not contact her again. She will try to complain, cajole, apologize or rationalize, but don't reply. Even when she finally apologies and promises to treat you better, wait at least a week before you grudgingly agree to let her try again to get some of your time. Let the vision of you banging a younger, hotter SB for "her" cash burn into her brain
I took this approach with a POT recently and she basically told me to fuck off.
Not saying that it was the wrong approach or that I feel bad about it bc I do truly think she was ignoring me... Just saying that the pimp hand strong approach is not always going to work with all POTs.
On to the next one
It's true that no woman is going to respect a guy with no backbone, but I agree the "pimp hand strong approach" is usually going to be met with PERMANENT radio silence.
You aren't saying "it's the wrong approach" but I am. lol
If a woman starts acting like a cunt before we have even met, I have no desire to ever meet with her, OTOH women get a lot of jerks contacting them too. I am sure most POT SB's feel that if the guy starts "acting like a jerk" before they have met, they don't ever want to meet him either.
Hookers don't care to be "hit up" until they say yes or no either.
Maybe you should figure out how to deal with the rather clear cut way that providers work before venturing into the rather murky waters of the Sugar Bowl, and for God's sake, please don't approach any civvie women or you might be leaping off a tall building some day soon.
Yeah okay ... I didn't mean that the way it sounded... I contact and ask for an appt, they say yes or no... or not today, in which case I just try them again maybe the next day. I don't send continuous messages trying to elicit an appt. lo
Why would a hooker say no. Unless it's off the clock
You'd be amazed at just how many clueless johns can't even score with a hooker.
It's actually mind boggling how many guys can't even get a hooker to return their call/email.
I live "outside the city" so I need a rough target. I explained that & I wanted an area or nearby location I could look up... what hobbiests would call a "nearby call point". It took a couple of tries to get through to her but she sent me a street name nearby... I just made up a number & ran it through mapquest, got an approximate driving time. With that, I was able to book a time... there was a risk I realize. I have addresses for coffee shops in my GPS & my plan is to go to the nearest to wait until it's time.
Going forward, if they won't commit to a time & a rough location, I won't start the car.
I have tried just 'trying to be in the city' but it's too big an area... of course, I was on the opposite side of town. I did make it work but it was very stressful.