I joined ER to see provider reviews.  Those are still great, but I have also found the community to be very supportive and helpful.  I follow this board and the over 60.  I was the one who emailed Herbcat a couple of weeks ago about whether SA was worth the bother.  He gave a very thoughtful answer the he subsequently posted.  What I got from that was" forget about what others are doing.  Decide what you want and stick to it."

I decided to experiment and joined SA [for free}.  Of course, when the messages started coming in I joined so I could read them.  Almost all were the same, as you know.  However, one was from a married lady who lives very close to me.  I met her for coffee this morning and we leveled with each other.  She simply wanted to spice up her life.  I brought her back to my house and we fucked, cuddled, fucked again, and cuddled some more.  She was only here for a little over an hour.

She never mentioned money, but was appreciative when I gave her $200.  I'm looking forward to seeing her again.

I'm posting this to say thanks and offer encouragement to those who haven't been as lucky as I was.  The internet is a big place.  Stick to your guns and you will find what you are looking for.

I would have never done it without this community.