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The Erotic Highway

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herbtcat 6 Reviews 1167 reads
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As we approach Valentine's Day on February 14, as well as "Mistress Day" on February 13, I think this is proper time for all SD's to recognize and give thanks for all the wonderful experiences and benefits we reap from our SB(s).  

 
Now I'm not really talking about sweet honey (hiney? :P we get from these marvelous young hotties who are sharing so much with us, though all that is truly worthy of thanks! No! I am talking about a rarely mentioned part of the Sugar Bowl. In fact, this single gift to us is generally the most significant reason why an SB stays in an arrangement with us.  

 
At this time of year, let us all give silent thanks for those boyfriends who don't (know how to) eat pussy.  

 
Our cash and charm (but mostly our cash) may bring her to an initial BCD. But it's the experienced service delivery down there that ensures her return, over and over again.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

tozer83 reads

I remember being in a theesome going down n this lovely Brit as the other woman said, "How great does that feel? The young men in Scotland don't do that, do they?" LOL

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chardonay77 reads

A few years ago I met two friends in seeking that were looking to be sugar babies as a duo. During our first intimate date, they had many rules including no oral. I noticed that one of them was very into me and at one moment I started to eat her and she was screaming with pleasure. Her friend asked her, do you like it? And she said I love it And you should try it. Long story short I ate them both many times and many threesomes later lol

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herbtcat68 reads

But I can see how when being offered a duo with hot, paired SB's I would at least entertain one BCD.  Three-ways are already ticked off my bucket list, many times. But I've never had a Sugar three-way.  

 
Kudos to you for "reading the room," the moist, warm, inviting room, and taking the initiative to deliver.  

 
Life is good

The Cat

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BuckNaked0069 reads

No oral is definitely a dealbreaker.  Just met one . Completely unexpected.  Only second time.

Her extraordinary cute 22 College Junior.  Russian (natural D’d) and BLS was the cure.

Told her later too bad oral was off, otherwise Perfect SB for longer term.  She said next time OK.

Kinda inexperienced.  We shall see.  

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Rockfordfile72 reads

Last month. She, late 20s Asian petite. Me, going down on her. She, when I stopped after her third orgasm, "You are my new record!" (English is not her first language.) Me, "What do you mean new record?" She, "The record I play in my head when I masturbate!"

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sweetman71 reads

Both of my current SBs tell me my oral skills are amazing, and they both have Os when I'm down there!  I love it so much!

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hardknocks688 reads

Oral skill is a VERY big deal in the sugar world, but it's what makes them EXCITED to come back...with very few exceptions, it's the money that keeps them coming back.

My experience is that the women who love what I can do in bed (and like me, of course) are engaged, excited for our visits, super fun to spend time with and just generally make the effort to make the time special.  But if I skip the benjies, may sense is it would be the last date...

So great observation, Cat, and a very important part of each journey, but only part of the story....

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herbtcat59 reads

And it's important to stay grounded that the cash is the foundation of all arrangements for an SB.  I have had conversations with guys who claim that their SB likes HIS particular dick so much she no longer cares about the allowance.  When I hear this, I challenge them to tell their SB they want to stop the allowance but keep going BCD. No takers on that challenge so far. LOL

 
(Note: I have actually suggested to some that this is actually a low-drama way to end an arrangement. Those who are not comfortable with a more confrontational process can simply tell her he's no longer able to afford to pay her (as much).  Then she can make the "difficult" decision to end the arrangement and she can feel like she is in control.)  

 
But your point is spot on:  Those arrangements where she is getting plenty of O's tend to last longer, much longer.  

 
Those where you just pump and dump (hey that's still fun!) make it easier for the SB to rationalize looking for a replacement or additional SD's. And we all know that over time, an SB can always find an SD who will offer more allowance for less time/effort.  Everyone in an arrangement can be replaced, and ultimately will be replaced.  

 
I'll wrap up this topic by restating my central theme about the Sugar Dating: It is DATING, not hooking.  Treat your SB like your (pat-time) GF/Mistress and she will act like your (part time) GF/Mistress. Treat her like a hooker and she will act like a hooker.  (Not that there is anything wrong with hiring a hooker! It's just a different experience. I still schedule both SB's and Pro's regularly.)  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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sweetman62 reads

I agree that both oral skills, (and by extension your overall ability to please your SB in bed,) plus the $$ugar you provide,  are both super important to keeping an arrangement going.  One small nuance I'd add is that SBs know when they've got a good thing going.  It's true that all arrangements end eventually.  But if you are really making her happy, with your tongue and with your wallet, she might be reluctant to accept a better offer from a new unknown SD, even if he's offering more $$.  Sometimes one in the hand is worth two in the bush.  Or two in her bush?  Yikes, my metaphors are out of control this morning!

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