BNB's

I haven't found any BNB's at half the usual rate myself, at least not yet. I'll just have to live vicariously through Herb until I do. [nyuk nyuk nyuk]

I haven't posted in awhile but thought I'd offer my input.

I've met 5 or 6 women off of SA and except for one, were all in this category. All of them were very attractive, in their late 20's, 30's or 40's and of difference races.

My guess they were probably pros or UTR pros looking for reliable regulars. But I had a good time, they all followed-up but probably just needed money to pay bills etc. I saw some a few times but it was pretty much the same. They didn't want dinner, didn't care about hotel accommodations or anything like that, they were friendly, and let it be known what they were there for...one would send me photos occasionally.

Nothing long term ever came of any of those meet ups as they disappeared after a couple of months or so.

That's impressive, herbcat! I don't have the time, energy or funds to pursue that much pussy. I have one amazing SB and the sex is about as good as ever so I'm not pursuing others at the moment. She doesn't travel with me so when I'm away I look for reasonably priced pros since it seems daunting to do the kind of vetting you need for SBs on the road.

It's not my preference, it just has worked out that way currently.  I'm seeing 3 lovely young latinas, all of whom fit Herb's definition of BNB sugar babies.  Or as I like to say, they all are interested in only 2 things:  sex and money.  Or perhaps, getting laid and getting paid.  In the past I've had much more well rounded arrangements with girls who enjoyed going out to lunch, long conversations, motorcycle rides, and other fun activities beyond the bedroom.  I've had arrangements that were close to bf/gf lovers.  And I miss that aspect of sugaring, which is why I continue to seek one of those rare gems who wants a meaningful connection on all levels: mental, emotional and sexual as well.

That’s really all I want.  Yes I talk with my SB’s and we discuss what’s going on in our life outside of our relationship.  They host our time together, we get to it and always have passionate fun. After we have a convo for 20-30 mins and then I’m gone.  I never thought of them as a BNB but since you mentioned it, I guess that’s what they are.  Works for us.  

Herb has such class and dignity. I refer to them as fuck 'n ducks. Actually, not my preference but as of late that is seemingly what it has become.