Had a pot SB want to meet for lunch and a beach walk. She asked me what my per meet was and I said 400. She said she normally gets 750. I then texted her a screenshot where we had agreed on 400. I then asked if she expected to get 400 for lunch. When she said yes I said I don't pay someone to have lunch with me. She responded...we can go to your place after. I didn't respond. Then she said she can just come over. I declined. Just a money grab.
Totally get why you passed. When your motivations for sugaring are equally balanced between sex and non-BCD time, agreeing to pay for only "half" of what you want does not make sense. Of course, those POT's who just want to BNB (Bang-N-Bail) see it exactly backwards - getting to the sex quickly then leaving with the cash is their preferred way to go.
Sounds ironic, doesn't it? Many older guys learn to appreciate the companionship and affection of a beautiful young women in and out of the bedroom. While many younger women may think (due to their experiences with guys their age) that men just want to fuck and grab a beer with their homeys. So when she says she just wants to "come over," she may think she is upping her appeal to you as a POT SB.
Now I will admit (again) that I've had (and still have!) my share on BNB SB's along the way. But the 4-8 hours I spend with my #1 SB and my #1 Porn Star SB are all part of the magic I love so much.
If you think you made the right decision, then you did.
Life is good
The Cat
You need to be clear what you want with girls and what your range is. Just look for what you want only. Just keep in mind, they will bail once a guy paying more shows up with consistency. And at those rates they are not going to be exclusive to you