Ok, I went premium again as my pot got exhausted. Met two girls so far, both have great rocking bodies, one Filipino doesn't have the best teeth so DFK may not be as exciting as I would like it to be and the other Persian has braces to fix her teeth which is also an issue with BBBJ and DFK I suppose. There is beautiful Russian but her availability conflicts with my schedule. And there are couple of latinas that require a longer drive. Anyways, I am busy right from the get go. So SA sure is legit and proper way of finding arrangements.
Question I have that my good buddies here can answer with suggestions and experience is that if I like a girl and she is a good bang for the buck, then should I bring her home if they do not have a place to host. How best to prepare to stay away from any traps or trouble due to poor judgements. Of course, there is risk, and we all like the adventure of it but any pointers will be helpful. As I am married but looking for fun, is it ok to host at my place when wife is out of town?
Never bring your SB home. If things go sour and she is BSC, she can come to your house and create a scene. Plus, you are married. Women have a sixth sense when it comes to sensing another woman invading her territory: different perfume smell, a strand of hair of different color in your bed, etc. Not to mention nosy neighbors can create problems too. Get a hotel room, the little money saved is not worth the potential hassles.
I know a few guys who have done it and survived, but the neighbors may see something, there may be a fragrance or hair left behind, or other problems may crop up. I recommend an inexpensive, but decent, hotel.
So what chains are inexpensive and decent?
I use hotels when I am out of town as using hotels in my own town makes it look fishy if someone sees you coming out of a hotel/motel place.
If the answer is no, then the answer to bringing SB's home should be HELL NO!!!
This of course is a matter of "do as I say, not as I do" because I have brought home numerous SB's without issue, but I am SINGLE, not married.
Here's a question for you, what are you going to do if you bring home a squirter? Do you really think you can hide that kind of evidence from your wife. I have a couple of SBs that ALWAYS destroy my bed when we have sex, do you honestly think you can remove all signs that there was another women in your wife's bed?
Don't do it, married guys should do their fucking around OUTSIDE the home, as should married women. Fucking someone else in the marital bed is the ultimate in disrespect IMHO. Not to mention it raises your chances of getting caught by a factor of a thousand.
GaG, thanks for the input, man.
No, I do not bring hookers to home, never done it so far. The providers I see all host at their place, even a couple of SBs I had could host.
I will definitely use only the guest bedroom and not my wife's bed. I also have a basement that is big enough to rent out, with a room, a kitchen, a couch to sleep on and a full bathroom. My wife is going out for a couple of weeks so enough time to play and then clean up and sanitize the areas I will use. The younger SBs that are students don't have their own place to host but are cheaper than those who can host, if that explains my urge.
I am more paranoid about the chance that the SBs may try to visit me once my wife is back home, especially if they know the address, so I was planning to just pick them up and drop them back for our dates to avoid that
Ask yourself this, just how much do you have to lose by getting caught? If the answer is "a LOT" then don't do it.
I do a lot of things I tell others not to do, mainly because the worst thing some hooker or SB can do to me is steal the silverware when I am not looking. If I thought a hooker or SB could completely ruin my life if she went all "psycho broad" on me, I think spending a hundred bucks on a room would be cheap insurance.
I am also single, and I also bring SB's and pro's home. But even single, it's not risk free.
I recently had one of my "quickie" B&G pros come over and after spending a glorious 45 minutes of her begging me to push her head down harder "Fuck my face, dammit! Fuck my fucking mouth!" she found an earring stud and a pair of panties on the far side of my bed that obviously didn't belong to her.
She's a pro, so she thought it was merely amusing. But my problem is I don't know which of 3 SB's I'd seen over the previous 2 weeks they belonged to! Now I have the slightly awkward need to hold on to them in case one asks for them and I can't ask them first because they don't know about the other 2 (well, let's be honest, the other 4) SB's in my rotation.
Keep living the dream!
a divorce will run you including alimony.
good idea, I should look into that.
And bringing one home is nuts. I do it because Im single and dont care. But you are inviting a total stranger into your home. You know nothing about her. Dont do it. The percentage of these ladies that arent somehow damaged goods is very low imo.
I guess the only SBs I can see are the ones who can host. Or just stick with providers.
But I realize our relationship is unusual. I have brought hookers as well as SBs home. Usually when my wife is off with one of her lovers. We have an open, honest poly relationship. I do try to be discreet since we don't want to embarrass each other with prying questions from nosy neighbors, but it's not a huge problem.
I share your dislike of hotels. I also enjoy the ability to date early in the day, or midday, and most hotels have 3pm check in, 11am check out policies which sucks. And I agree that taking a SB to a hotel/motel for sex really bursts the bubble of pretended ignorance that this is not p4p.
I've mentioned several times (but notrecently) that I also use an RV as a great place for dates. You avoid having to bring a girl home, or go to a hotel. And the girls I've met seem to really like it.
You seriously believe that a SB is gonna feel less whorish when you fuck her in your trailer rather than a hotel lol?
Btw, I use hotels/motels all the time and the sex is not diminished or "transactional" due to that setting. In fact, a lot of girls are excited by the "illicit" nature of the encounter.
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You are lucky to have a poly relation with your wife. Though most men would like to have affairs but still won't allow their wives to have fun. But I do see many "married but looking" women on SA too
Really like the idea of the RV, especially with all the amenities of home. And the mobility, home delivery is available. Adventurous SB's probably like that idea. Agree with others, if you don't bring providers home because of the wife, SB's definitely not a good idea. Never know what BSC motives lie underneath. Hasn't been an issue for me with either since fortunately I'm not married. The part with SB's that's nice is we can stay in and have made dinner together and the sleepovers are nice. Still enjoy providers, hadn't seen one for several months and met up with one of my past faves the other evening after my first date with a milf sb went in the tank, and was reminded of how well they really can rock and roll.
If you use AirBNB, you usually can develop relationships with the people renting out their rooms/apartments, etc. and go direct to them (going around AirBNB). When you do that, you can get a cheap room/apartment of a day or two.
I travel and have developed a connection with a couple of corporate fully furnished apartment providers that fill vacancies through AirBNB during weak months. I can get a studio room for a night in downtown Philly for $80 plus taxes. And there are lots of other non-corporate deals out there.
I am married but do all my SD time when I'm out of town. LOL Keep the SB and the wife as far away as possible
I have a 40 foot Carver on Lake Mead. I take them there first. If they pass the BSC test then I will bring them to the house but like others I am single and really have nothing to lose.
Like Herbcat I found a pair of panties once also. I started to notice how much they really started to leave behind especially in the bathroom, it's like "pussy cats" marking their space. I clean up after now, put the stuff in zip locks and write their name on it. I put it back out when they come back out. lol.
Thanks Everyone, I guess almost unanimous suggestion is to keep SBs away from home. So I am going to try the hotel day rooms on between9and5 or bookadayroom web sites.