perpetuated by ignorance, fear, jealousy and the porn and erotica industries?
read up on Tantric practices and practice, practice, practice.
during the money shot, as i feverishly pleasure myself, count?
Tantra sounds like a lot of work. And i'm going to have to scrounge up a civie partner if I really aim to "...make perfect." This might be beyond my painfully modest talents.
Wait, wait, just got a genius inspiration -- I'll hit the pause button during the instructional tantric sex DVDs while i feverishly pleasure myself, and that way...
Many thanx mrfisher!
It can happen.. but I think focusing on each others' orgasm individually can actually make for more intense climax.
Marea
"Why do women make love with their eyes closed?"
"Becase they can't stand to see their partners having a good time."
Yes, it's old and terrible. I offer it only for it's antiquarian value.
when it does happen for you as a natural thing without one person waiting for the other, you'll know it's Not Overrated
With the one I love, I don't need to cum every time. It is so much more enjoyable for both of us to focus on a natural-dance of give-and-take without keeping score.
Sometimes we make love.
Sometimes we have sex.
Sometimes it is just a job.
Sometimes giving.
Sometimes receiving.
Sometimes a quicky.
Sometimes a longy.