My usual parting words to a provider after a session is "would you like me to write a review of our glorious encounter?" I have yet to get a "no", but if someone did I wouldn't question it. I suspect that some ladies are very curious as to what I'll write, which is why some of them have giggled a bit when asked. And its not like they won't know it's me writing it, so I don't fuck around with someone not wanting our playdate captured for all posterity.

That's why a lot of us stopped writing reviews years ago. I tried it in a large regional group and found that if I called it the way I see it, I would be banished from mongering sooner or later if they ever found out who I was.  

Having said that, the only reason for subscribing to TER is to make sure the "juicy details" match the profile. Example: in her profile it says BBBJTC-CWS. If there are enough recent reviews that put that in the juicy details it's what you will get if you show up clean, well groomed and are polite.  The numbers ratings are pretty useless.

In my opinion is the hobbyist right to review or not review.  

If a provider just accepts reviews of sessions that went well, that is manipulation of reviews. If she asks not to be reviewed across the board , she can contact Ter and have her delisted and Ter wouldn't post reviews for that provider. In my opinion to cherry pick who can review you and who can't is deceit.  

I'd write a review if a rip-off was involved or other situation that I felt mangers need to know about.  I haven't had to do that yet.

Before my first tour to the US I never had reviews - I thought the whole thing was painfully tacky. Of course that meant that when I landed and was ready to take bookings the phone was silent )
I got to San Diego and a nice guy set up my profile on here and did my first review, even mentioning that I wasn't really a fan of the concept, but from that I got more bookings and a few more nice reviews and now I have another new one posted I've had more enquities about my April tour than I had before it went up - I think it seems to be expected here - at the very least as a verifying tool for guys to see you are who your website claims you are and not LE or an alien.
Just my two cents worth

...just don't see the need to have over 100 reviews saying the same thing. I would never want someone to think that I'm trying to slack off and asking not to be held accountable for it.. I admit in the beginning when I found out I was entertaining a well known reviewer..my performance was on steroids.. That's not to say that non reviewers got shitty service..  My feelings now have changed and with having somewhat consistent reviews I think that it's only necessary to recieve a review if the service was completely different from what was expected. Whether good or bad.

the only reason i can think of to not honor her request would be if the session was so horrible i had to warn others about it.

but i have honed my research skills now so i never have horrible sessions any more.

i was completely mystified when one of my atf's, a gorgeous woman with mad skillz who has incredible reviews, emailed me out of her mind because a guy gave her an '8' on appearance.

she described the situation, and apparently the whole session was very creepy, the guy incommunicative and rude, so his 8 rating really depressed her.

i managed to convince her that an 8 was a fine rating for appearance and that she was most probably reacting to the session itself and not the actual number.

i feel start to feel bad that you women are reliant on such arbitrary and subjective numbers for part of your self-image.

but then i remember you get paid handsomely and i pretty much decide it's on you to be mature about your reviews.

or you could always come see me i hand out 10's like they were candy.

No!
But then I usually actually like the provider I saw

At the very beginning of my hobby days, I was afraid to write reviews, and participate in the forums. I was a lurker. If you asked me not to write a review, no problema.  

Then I went through a phase where I wrote hundreds of reviews. I wrote so many reviews that one time there were four reviews in a row for this one lady from me. When she asked me not to write anymore, I understood, and stopped. Another time, a lady specifically asked me if I'd not review our first session. I wasn't sure what to think. Did she not like reviews, or was she trying to let me know who was in charge? This didn't sit too well with Mr. hundreds of reviews. I thought it an odd request given the fact that she had six reviews sitting in her queue. Six other guys got to write a review, but not me? She got her wish of no review because I cancelled the session.  

After that I started noticing something strange. After writing a new review, many of my regular ladies would send me nasty emails asking me why I saw so and so, and not them. In fact, jealousy was so rampant that one couldn't even flirt with a lady on the forums without some kind of repercussion. It was time to change handles, get a new set of atfs, and change personas again. My current persona is to not give anyone my handle. If a lady insists on my handle for screening, then we won't be meeting. I also will not write any reviews. So now if you ask me not to write one, no problemo. The opposite is also true. Now, if you ask me to write a review, I will not. Even if you give me a discount, or a free session, I won't do it. Well, maybe for five freebies. JK

Depends. If I wanted to see her again and she asked me not to write a review, then I would not write a review. If the session was really bad and I had absolutely no problem burning that bridge with her and never seeing her again, then I would write a review. In my short time here, I have never been asked not to write a review or had a really bad session.

not every session needs to be reviewed. My default setting is to NOT review unless I feel a review is needed for a particular reason or unless she ASKS for a review.

So... most likely I would NOT review if asked not to review.

I won't respect your privacy if your using it to rip other hobbyists off or take advantage of them. Otherwise, I have no problem not writing reviews if asked.

I will not write a review without your clearly expressed permission...

As others have indicated, I would usually respect a provider's wish to not be reviewed.  The exception to the rule?  See my review of TS Frida for a perfect example.

If she says no I respect that. If she says yes, I let her read it before posting.

And one lady who told me she prefers to not be reviewed, not one of which did I review.

I don't necessarily understand why a lady wouldn't want to be reviewed (free advertisement), but that's none of my business so I don't ask, just respect her decision and wishes

I feel the same. I once asked someone not to because his hygiene wasn't great. So I did him a favor by politely asking if he could please not review me.  I'd very much appreciate it. He went ahead and reviewed me despite my request not knowing about himself or why the experience wasn't great. I could altogether turned him down at the beginning but I didn't. I wish I didn't tolerate and speak up but that would make him feel so bad and I didn't want anyone to take the time to come see me being turned away or leaving feeling bad about themselves.  I now might be able to find a different approach to this. So that I don't have to turn them away but I don't have to tolerate either.  

Sometimes, I wondered how could they remember every little details. Are they working their brains the same time as their thingy while adrenaline rushing? Although I try to do my best, I realized I'm not for every one's cup of tea. I do my best within my permitted services. An unjustly given review like above  where you can't do anything about or even correct the incorrect info , even if asked nicely can really mess you up and hurt. Who wants to be graded? We are not in grade school This isn't college. haha But without the reviews, if you realize with or without the review , you'd still try to do your best and not grow complacent even for the lack of review. And update it once awhile just so your account can be up to date would be a good approach.

 I wish I don't have to kiss and tell either. It's so nice to keep it private between two people who share a special meaningful encounter that only they know. Everyone is different and to rewrite your past performance rather than recreate a new experience tailor to them specifically can be hard to achieve with them already having some kind of expectations walking through that door.  

If the request is made after the envelope has been delivered, especially if the provider advertises or posts here, expect a refusal.  After all, it is TEReview, not TE-noReview.  Don't expect to have it both ways.

I have been doing this for a good while and have had above average dates without relying on reviews and writing reviews, I use this site mostly for the Ads........ultimately YMMV rules, have had bad dates with highly reviewed ladies and good dates with ladies that have no review

If you are legit and as advertised, I would not review you unless asked to do so. Even then likely not. But if you wasn't as advertised yes I would. I believe in mutual discretion and feel it is bad form to review your lover paid or otherwise without her consent. Now if she is dangerous, or not as advertised I owe her nothing and owe my fellows a warning. Every lady I have reviewed anywhere gave consent to be reviewed. Even with consent I don't review anymore for personal reasons. And at this time I am still on a break from the game.