Is that we generally don't judge about preference in regards to sexual acts. (ok I judge but mostly in my head).  

... a simple NO will work for me.

If someone asks for something you don't want to do, say, "I don't want to do that." Yuck ain't a bad punctuation. There aren't too many men who get off on you doing something you aren't going to "enjoy*" doing.

I agree, asking after screening/before meeting helps. Don't spring ish on me during the session though esp if it's THE thing that gets you off. Thanks for answering JCA.

I am so totally an ass man. I just am not much into ass penetration, her or me. My college GF, totally got off on greek. When I say totally got off, I mean she came from what seemed like her toes up. But as she was familiar with the Greek process she would always prepare for Greek sessions (enema and the swabs). I have done a DP with a fellow hobbyist and a provider, but just because it was on my bucket list, I'm glad I did it, but it wasn't my best hobby experience.

no where did she ask what russsbbj likes and dislikes.

Remember,  asking existed before expecting to know...  
It's only fair

Because you're not saying enema play is disgusting or wrong, just that you don't do it.  Everyone has an absolute right to avoid things they don't like.
All you need to say is, "Sorry, I don't enjoy that and it's not on my menu."  No further explanation is needed.

Do you think there is something wrong with a rape fantasy?

I find rape fantasies disturbing.
Because it's role-play, however, it is not rape, Captain Obvious.
BTW, there is nothing remotely cool about you.
Nice hat

no need to over complicate things.

about him in general.

It shows a certain lack of respect, and maybe a dangerous tendency like he knows what's good for you, etc.

In fact, an enema done improperly can be physically dangerous, but if a gal (or guy) is just not into some fetish, no matter what it is, that is all that the asker needs to know, and if he (or she) doesn't move on after that, it could be dicey.

Thanks Cap-n-not so obvious, to you.

I think you got fried instead, if you think you're not obvious

Funny how that thread shut down, not too long after your last posting to it.

Perhaps you got so butt-hurt you went sobbing to Mommy?  Happy now

Or maybe bandwidth limitations?

How did "three" people beat the shit out of one person?

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Or maybe bandwidth limitations?  
   
 I guess in the end that h+t and Tobi did indeed kick the shit out of jonycomeslately.  
   
 And I didn't have to pay for the drinks

Who pulled the thread. I didn't even know it was closed till I saw the on the S&P board.

And you are just about as cheesy as they come!
And, sure, if you say you didn't pull the thread I believe you! LMAO!

I think they read this board?  

I got cum all over your smiling face.

...just because you had to say no to a specific request.  If the guy was otherwise into you enough to ask for a repeat it means the requested service did not mean all that much to him

And he's the cunt for asking "why."

You are perhaps the most straight-forward "real" lady I've met.
Having a woman fully engaged and willing to clearly express her likes and dislikes is itself a big turn on to me (as long as there aren't toooo many "nos" lol).  When I've spent time with you, I've left thinking, "damn, now THAT'S what glorious confident smoldering womenhood is all about!"

"Sorry, I don't enjoy that and it's not on my menu."  No further explanation is needed.

Most of which have much more intellect than JohnyCumsQuickly.  He merely aspires to be one

I don't see the appeal either.

If no, could you explain why please?

Oh, never mind. I doubt that TER has enough band width for a proper answer. lol

As for the OP, I agree that he's the cunt for pushing the issue.

Why do you mention me in posts, and mention my name so often?

Sahweeet vagina!!! what a compliment… Thank you, I am forward and should be comfortable about that. I just feel like that MJ song…wanna be startin somethin…gotta be startin somethin… The why is an invitation for me to express my bitchy side…BUT I shall not take the bait. I have to remember that sexy men like you are watching/reading/breathing. purrr baby…purrrrr.