TER General Board
First, a little background. I am 33 years old and a paraplegic (both legs) since birth. Although the physical aspects of sex are, for a large part lost on me the desires are still there becuase my brain is quite normal. 
For the last several years lapdances have been a perfect outlet. Erotic, yet not entirely sexual, contact with attractive women. A recently passed law here (L.A.) will take away this outlet once it goes into effect in a short time. I have thought about turning to providers, and, after reading reviews on this board, found a couple well reviewed providers I would be willing to try, assuming I could get into their trick pad. My question is, have any of you had a physically challenged client like myself, what did you think about it, and what advice would you give?
I have seen a client for many, who like you is paraplegic. My advice is to be up fron with the provider and to get creative, you'd be surprised of what you can come up with 
By the way I am thinking about coming to LA next month...
I am a provider and have seen 2 different clients in wheelchairs. Tell her upfront how it is for you, what you can do and what you can't do. Tell her upfront what you would like from her. Also, the LAST thing she will want to do is hurt you, so make sure she knows that pressure here, or touching there is ok
Find yourself a caring provider and you will enjoy yourself very much! Even if what you are able to do is kiss and play with her and cuddle, that is a lot of fun!! That is how it is with one of my clients, and I really enjoy it....he plays with me and he watches me lay there and enjoy it and wiggle around on his fingers until I come. Doesn't sound too bad huh? *wink*
*smiles*
Jan
Kansas City