I was wondering what others have done in the same situation.

Do you repeat the process over again?

Do you seek out the parts of the bucket list you enjoyed the most?

Do you just move on from the hobby, as there is nothing else new that you want to really try?

Part of me wants to repeat the process, but I am slightly afraid to ruin the memory of my unique experiences in the hobby.

Any thoughts or flames?

Join a monastery? Take a vow of celibacy??  LOL!

Abbey

and dog ear your favorite pages? Or perhaps a muse to inspire your imagination and sexual appetite?  

 
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I'll try looking at a Kama Sutra again, to see if anything peaks my interest.

I have thought about doing a little erotica writing for self amusement.  I like the idea of a muse inspiring my imagination.  I can think of a tall, leggy, and surprisingly demure redhead at the local strip club that may be a good candidate for a start.  She moves sensually slow and methodical on the stage, which is completely different than all the other dancers there.

Thank you for your thoughtful response.

step away for a while unless you already have and come back fresh with a new perspective when you're ready. I would then seek out the parts of that bucket list you truly enjoyed the most and follow suit.  

Or you can keep it simple and just move on. Asking others probably won't give you the answer you want or need, only you can decipher that for yourself. Whatever you decide, lots of luck to you and other like-minded people.  

Change is good. It's vital

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Would you guys be receptive to a reverse ISO board where providers are looking for clients to help fulfill HER fantasy?  Well, it would have to be both people's fantasy of course.  But the rest of the rules of engagement are the same (ex: client pays)

...I can't help you. I can't envision ever reaching that point. My list is pretty long and constantly growing.

he wants 'more'.  

I would guess it's not just about the 'sex' any longer. But that's just my woman instinct kicking in.  

I think this world is the interim for many gentlemen to get from one place to another and when it's time to move on, it's time to move on. And for others it's going to be a part of their life until the end lol.  

You're a 'til the end' kinda guy Senator with a long, long road ahead of you

Taylor xxoo

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I read your post as saying there's little more to hold your interest once your bucket list is complete.  I think even as a drooling idiot in the Home For The Superannuated I'll still be checking out the hot nurses and thinking about how to get up their skirts.  

Mel Brooks tells a funny story about Alfred Hitchcock eating an enormous lunch and at the end telling the waiter "Again!".  If you had fun the first time no reason not to repeat it.  
 

I have never thought about this activity as something to check-off on a list.  Heck, while I may have my list of wishes, just plain good ol' fashion sex and companionship will do just fine for me until I can no longer do it, at least I hope so

Like others have said, only you can answer your own question but my own thought is that even if you are driven by certain specific needs and wants, it would probably be fun to do it again.  If you already have good memories, doing it again will not erase those memories, perhaps you will make even better memories.   Heck, even if the experiences are not as good the first time around, maybe the second go will make you appreciate that first experience that much more

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I have a few I'd love to explore with the right gentlemen

T xx

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I suppose if I did it would be mainly about mongering around the world.  Have done Costa Rica three times, and next year I hope to add Columbia and Panama to my list, followed by Europe and Asia.

It is funny how a number of posters including yourself always seem to say that someone is losing interest in pussy.

What I do in the hobby is surreal.  What I do in the civie world is real.  I am and would still be into women in the real world regardless of the outcome here in the hobby.  

Well, I did say that I welcomed flames as well, so thank you for the fire.

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The ISO board is the ISO board. It's not just for clients in search of providers. I've seen providers post there in search of incall locations, in search of doubles partners, people just in search of general info, etc.
You could also post on your regional boards.

You must have unlimited time and money, or an extremely small bucket list.

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2 clients for her first MMF, for example, she'd be accused of posting a threAD (which she is).  But if there was a female ISO client board, it would be acceptable like the ad or photos board.  There's fantasies girls want to try but maybe she doesn't attract that type of client or she feels uncomfortable bringing up her fantasies since it's supposed to be about the client.  But if guys knew she wanted to try it, and they want to try it, it's a win win.

Can't imagine personally that I might ever run out.... just as an example, I have never had a BJ outside on a blanket while watching the grand finale of a 4th of July fireworks show.... I expect that's a pretty common thing (and for me VERY vanilla) but the point is that the variety is literally endless.  Anything you have ever done with one woman - you can try again with two or three or .....

So - it may well be that sex as a sport has begun to pall... and it may well be time to move on.

Vaya con Dios!  Stay thirsty my friend..

The national board is sort of interesting BUT- because it's national and my jet is down for the 1,000 hour overhaul this month  -it isn't useful to me.  

The regional boards end up getting cluttered with various ISO requests - such as - staying downtown tonight - looking for nookie - which I would prefer to remove from the regional boards altogether....

That being said - a lot of the regional boards are not very active - though some - like the Atlanta board are very active and might support a specific ISO board.

My opinion is that a board oriented towards provider fantasies - is identical to an Ad board.

But why couldn't you just post it on the ad board. I just think with so many dead boards already we don't need a new board. I am pretty sure that would be a dead board, with very few posts per month.

I guess I've relied on P4P for sex so long that I equated the 2.  For years there was no sex at home and I didn't take a girlfriend when the (rare) opportunity arose.   So if all you meant is that you've gotten what you want out of P4P and feel the need for  new adventures then more power to you and buen suerte.  

or two or 3 then count me in right now.

bucket list.  My problem, if you can call it that, is that I like to see certain repeat ladies more so I seldom see new providers, even the 8+'s on my list.  Too many providers and not enough time and or cash.

Too bad.  I think guys would find that interesting and it would open more providers to talking about the kind of session/fantasy/role play they want to try out.

The ads are just copied off eachother and probably no one reads them, only look at the pics.

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A real treat.

zp

You would just create new ones and differently. And many only get better with time and  when they know you, they may open up more.

I would love that, it could be really exciting to partner up for some amazingly kinky adventure.  

I'd probably even be willing to travel for some really amazing experience

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