I have heard this rumor a lot of times and I just need to ask... would you refuse to see a client if you know for a fact that he/she has been with a ts escort?  

Some guys will not see a woman who sees a guy who see TS providers. (A lot of "seeing" isn't it?)

Is it fair? Of course not. Is is true? Yes, undeniably.

It comes down to the usual, your fetish is "sick" while mine is "normal". I suppose it is actually rooted in the belief that TS providers are more at risk partly because they engage in for lack of a better term "gay sex" and many guys feel that guys that frequent TS providers are indeed gay and as such more at risk for HIV/AIDS.

I am not going to comment on the validity of these fears, except to point out that many women take just as many dicks up their pooper as any TS provider, but I am simply pointing of the rationale that is used.

Going to give an honest answer,  unless under an alias. I've heard from more than one provider that this is true but it's not a lot,  only a few.  

Also, you can catch hell on the boards if you've got TS's in your review history.  If they don't like you, some posters will check and start heckling you for being gay.
I will admit up front that years ago I was a heckler myself.  I'm not proud of it, though, and don't plan to do it again. My guess is there are a lot more guys who see TS's but don't review.

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Im inclined to believe its true. I dont understand why tho. We are just as careful and safe as ggs are. I take my health and safety very seriously and assume ggs do as well. I think its very derogatory and discriminatory of them to do such practices. I have had guys saying to me they would love to review me but their gg providers would not like it.  

And not just about Ts's.  It's amazing that people who engage in P4P have so many prejudices, but that's just the way it is and it's not likely to change any time soon.

In a way,  just by you being here and presenting your point of view helps people understand where you're coming from.  

I was going to argue the same thing. Those guys maybe shouldn't book with cis providers that offer Greek either. Buttsex is buttsex no matter who's butt it is. lol

that would be like putting a band-aid on a slit jugular.

Women can be homophobes too! There could also be some professional jealousy, i.e. the TS can do/offer some things that she can't.

I don't care who my clients see. Back Thailand TS is not a taboo and in India they respect TS and seek their blessing when a child is born.

Nor would I care if a guy saw a TS before me. As long as I take care of my safety as best I can it is no different than a hetero guy fucking his wife BB up her ass for the last 15 years.

Because they don't want the GGs and the other guys they know with their GG handle either because of backlash.

Steph

more participation from other providers but seems like guys here are more open minded and understanding than I thought.  
I think its clear whats their stance on the matter Thanks for the input boys.

I know of guys that use their main handle to review the "normal" escorts and their alias to review their "fetish/kinky" encounters.  I would suggest this route as it give you (or the client of the TS) less scrutiny and protects the "normal" escorts from being ostracized.

has been a persistent perspective here; voiced by men and providers many times.

The op is a provider. And my bet? A provider who takes as much interest in her business, is as attentive to safety, and cares as much about her clients as any other provider.  

Have been forced to attend The Scoed School of Proper Mangina-ism.
It has had a transformative effect.


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I put normal in quotes because I am not saying there is a norm.  I just couldn't think of how to classify the female provider that is not on the fringe of what most expect.  The TS, fetish, S&M providers are no less normal, that is why I put the quotes, but they are on the fringe, or the minority here.

I wrongly assumed in my earlier response the original post was from a client who visited TS not the beautiful TS Aleksandra.  Next time I'll pay better attention to whom I am responding.

was this another one of those "not knowing how to put it" kind of deals?

By ostracizing hobbyists that see TS once in a while, all you girls are doing is promoting secretiveness and discrimination against girls like me. The worst part is that guys will continue to see girls like me and by not knowing that your clients are seeing tgirls... does it in fact make you any safer while on the job? I highly doubt so. And most of us take our health (and the hobbyists too believe or not) very seriously. We are not any different than gg providers. GG I like to say that... GG

I had a different picture of what I imagined the P4P community to be.

It's a touchy subject even if it shouldn't be.



Steph

Does the term speciality offend you? You offer a special service I can not.  It's a beautiful thing sorry to offend you.  
And don't knock the fetish people, different strokes for different folk

MANY men in P4P won't see a lady who has see another man who reviewed a TS provider. It's BOTH sides!!!

And I'm glad you decided it stick around here...

Steph

It has always been a fantasy of mine to be with a TS and a few weeks ago I reached out on the TS board for a TS that enjoys females as much as men and I was lucky enough to connect with the beautiful TS Aleksandra. After chatting we were able to set up a date with a favorite reg of mine who had seen my post on the TS board and was interested in seeing us together. I cannot speak about any other TS other then Aleksandra but I can say that she is clean safe and amazingly sexy and talented, also one of the sweetest people I've had the opportunity to meet in this community.

Aw I think you nailed it . And by the way i never intended to generalize to all female providers.  

I agree. Some people avoid it. but if not here then where? church? LOL

And I asked her if she cared if her clients seen one and she laughed and said she would discount her rate if she was one. As for me the way I see it wouldn't be any more risky or taboo than seeing anyone else that enjoys anal sex. I don't get why anyone would care if someone else seen a TS or not.

Me? I love my TS sistahs and the clients we share!

Awww thanks. And also u made a fair point. Discrimination on both.