...how often do clients/providers become REAL lovers...when having sex/fucking becomes making love...it becomes intimate...has it happened to you?...is that what we all looking for?...or do we really just love coming...

I've had moments where I just wanted to fuck like animals on steroids! That slow cute making love stuff is just for television. Doing it so hard and going at it so bad that he sweats all over you and some gets in your mouth and you swallow it and keep going is hot! Or me climbing on top, holding down his arms and rough talking while crashing into his pelvis happens, oh yes it does. I love to cum too. :

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I ended up being in a relationship for 5 years.

although now it's pretty much for SB/SD/SA.

In any case, it appears to happen a lot.  It happened to me and I ended up marrying a gal.   Even then, I keep falling in love with various gals.

I look at it as an occupational hazard.

35 minutes into the hour.  

Seriously, I have had too providers fall in love with me, both Asian girls.  You know its real when at some point they say, "You're my boyfriend now, so you don't have to give a donation anymore."  Anything other than that, its still just a fantasy, so don't kid yourself.

I've had a few hooker GF's where I started as a client but at some point she started to refuse my money. I've had several more that "claimed" I was their BF, but still wanted to get paid, those women don't count as there is NOTHING real about paid sex except that it's fun.

Oh, in all fairness I have also had a couple of hookers "claim" they no longer wanted my money, but constantly asked for "help" with bills, shopping, car repairs etc that in a couple of cases exceeded what they charged by the hour as a hooker, Those "relationships" also fall in the fake category and were very short lived.

... I've had one provider (and some dancers) become FWB but it's pretty rare.

I have had women, yes even hookers who didn't want ANY of my money as they had plenty of their own.  Now if I were some kind of dead beat looking for THEM to support me, that would be a different story, but I have most definitely had relationships with women where they insisted on paying their own way, and yes I have even had those kind of relationships with a couple of hookers in my life.

Who knew that SweetMelissa was even more jaded than GaGambler? go figure. lol

I will concede that "looking" for these "Hookers with a heart of gold" is a fools errand MUCH more likely to end up with disappointment and heartbreak, but it does happen some times.

Amen Gambler, amen

Gambler is right as he is 99% of the time IMHO

S.M., not all of us men are "dead weight!

GFE with a provider in love with Benjamins!

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but it does happen on occasion.  It can't be forced, though, so never go in with high expectations.  I don't look for love in this world, but I'm certainly open to it if it happens.

Perhaps it's because I don't want to work at a relationship anymore, I've had my fill of working on a relationship.

I find it much more fun and rewarding getting the sure thing, all fun, no work and I don't mind paying for it.

Man, sometimes it's real strong and you two get along in the bedroom and outside of it. I keep in contact with both mine and both do careers that I also do in my civilian life! So yes I talk to both about their careers and I look at them as I am their apprentice. They give me advice and I ask their opinions which is another thing that keeps us close and then you have the good sex, the good sensations and the chill bumps that covers your body when he does things that makes you shake and quiver and get your nipples standing up and makes you see stars. To me it's all good. I have only done it with two guys, not all of the guys in those instances, yes it was ok. (Did I mention that cuming feels good?)

Isn't that the truth.     Easy to fall in love with one you meet multiple times.

I ended up dating the guy for a couple months. it gets messy is all I'll say. But it also gives you access to some of the best sex ever

we both really liked each other, and the sex went to another level becoming very passionate and hot.  But I still don't call that "making love."  I think it's more analogous to a good, friends with benefits type of thing.  However, those type of situations did get me off my butt to look for a girlfriend, as I realized I wanted/needed that kind of passion and more, that I was missing out on things in life.

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I'm only right 97% of the time.

Finally an honest woman!!👍👍 In civie dating World once I got past a certain age there wasn't one woman who wasn't looking to "improve their situation"..most of them should wear a sign that says "please help save me from my poor life decisions". Kids, divorces, having kids with losers, poor money skills, poor decision making skills. I'm not Captain Saveahoe🎖🎖

Hookers and johns..the most honest relationships I've had. I want a conquest of a beauty I would never meet in real life, you want a few hundred. Fair trade. . Real talk...