I ask, because I have 8 pages of reviews, and nearly everyone of those reviews states, which is also on my profile, that I do not do greek. I would think, that when a hobbyist is reading a provider's review, he is being very detailed in reading every single review and her TER profile.

Too many times, I get men who act like they have no clue, and try to proceed to stick something up the wrong end on me. When I tell them that I don't do the back end, they act like they are just finding out for the first time about my likes and don't likes. If it says on my TER profile, and in my reviews that I don't do any kind of sodomy, wouldn't that give him a clue that I just don't do it? Also, just because I don't like having it done to myself, does not mean, that I want to do it to him, either.

When I am looking into whether I am interested in pursuing a lady, I read all of her reviews.
It gives me an overall "feeling" about what she is about.
Not only the "details", but what is the "under laying feel" of the reviewers.
You can really tell alot about a lady by the non-explicit details.
Like, "she is very warm and friendly", "she makes you feel special", "cares about you", "not a clock watcher", etc.
These are more important to me than the other details.
And when these comments keep showing up in a long line of reviews, you can be pretty well assured that this is the way she feels and how she will react to you.

As far as the other question you posed;
any guy that has not done his homework and tries to do something you don't like or do, is a jerk.
There is no excuse for that.
However, unfortunately, there are men in this hobby who will try to push your limits and their own interests and not care what the lady chooses. They give the rest of us a bad name.
This is just another example of what you ladies have to put up with and why I have nothing but respect for you.
There are true gentlemen in this community who will be nice and treat you with the respect you deserve, I hope to count myself amoung them.

Just my opinion...
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If it states on your profile that you don't do greek...then there is no good reason for the guy thinking that you do. Clients can't go by just the reviews. I always look at the last 5-10 reviews to get an idea of what a provider is like. There have been a few instances where I noticed through the reviews that the provider had stopped doing certain things for whatever reason and that can stop guys from calling. I am sure that most guys put more credence into the provider profile than the reviews. But reading every single review? Only if a provider is relatively new to the business. Some providers have 20 pages of reviews, so that isn't practical....for me anyway.

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The profile holds the most weight in terms of do's and don"ts...I then check reviews if there is a diffrence between a review activity and the profile I will go with the profile or that the review is in correct or in  rare instance and exception was made however I do not assume that exception would be made for me...if I have doubts I will discretely check services available when booking

When I read reviews ... I first scan the detail page and see if you meet my standards or needs .. then I look for a hobbiest that I know and will read his review or back channel him ... if not then I will read one excellent review and one poor one .. so to answer your question no I'm not going to spend my time reading review, after review, after review ... in this case I would think that you not allowing greek would come up in your discussion with your men (in the do's and dont's) before the two of you ever meet if not you may want to start.

To get a good indication of the ladies progress in both performance and presentation I will go back many pages. not so much to read the blow by blow accounts but see if their appearance and performance scores have either improved over their career(experience gained), worsened(possible burn out) or gotten more consistant(indicating professionalism).
   Two factors may be involved in your clients apparent ignorance of offered service.
(1) Men are notorious for "skimming" through written instructions often missing important facts.
(2) So many men in this hobby are by profession salesmen, negotiators and "can-do" groundbreakers that the challenge of getting what the rest have not is irresistable.

  FR.

If your profile and reviews state no greek, no hobbyist should be misled and quite frankly I think something such as greek should never be initiated unannounced in any event.  Sounds as though these guys are just trying to get over.  I tend to read the profile and at least 7 or 8 reviews of any provider I'm seeing for the first time.  I also scan through several other reviews for trends (is this provider's scores going up or down?).  What drives me a bit crazy is hobbyists who put something in a profile that they have not tried--whether it's CIM, greek or two-girl, I don't think any reviewer should list the specialty unless they can verify it has been provided.

I believe there's a shortcoming in the review database in that there is only one 'profile page' regardless of how many individual reviews a lady may have had. If she had given bbbj to half her clients and cbj to the other half, it's anybody's guess what would be specified on the single page profile. This holds for anythung on the profile.

Additionally, we hobbyists should give appropriate weight to reviewers who have written many reviews as opposed to those with only one or two (I've noticed a number of suspicious 9 and 10 scores from one or two time reviewers).

If I am thinking about seeing a lady for the first time I would tend to look at her profile and read enough reviews to feel comfortable with the lady and what is on her menu.  Often the profile does not match up with the majority of the lady's reviews.  If I read her last 20 reviews and 19 indicate CBJ and one says BBBJ then I will assume that CBJ is what is really on the menu.  I probably would not read all 8 pages of your reviews.  

Everyone knows YMMV but the ladies can do themselves a favor by making sure that their profiles accurately reflect the menu and that the pricing is current.

I have heard other providers complain about guys attempting to initiate sex without a condom which is not unlike the problem you are experiencing.  I think in some cases you should probably just give these guys the boot.  

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Throughout them all, I randomly pick and choose...Sometimes I pick the ones from members that have interesting names but almost always I pick the ones I recognize.

that sodomy is also BJ so you might not want to say that you don't do any kind of sodomy unless you really don't do BJs

I will also disregard the highest and lowest review and focus on the others...I will often check the reviewers record to see if they are an easy or hard rater. then I will check websites and possibly look for a direct referal fro a provideror hobbist

Also, it's easy to assume that we know about TER, because of course WE do.  But, since unreviewed providers get work, there are obviously guys out there not studying up.

If he hasn't read about you, he doesn't know you don't.  Doesn't mean he should poke first and ask questions later, but he may just be ignorant.

I read every review and look for consistency of ratings, then I average out the highs and lows. Being a gentleman is paramount in these endeavours so I want to know the actual guidelines that are to be followed and at all times respected. Intelligence along with a comfortable situation are as important as looks and performance to me, all this is available within the reviews. For me complete research has always worked, so far every person I've seen has been wonderful.
Be At Peace.

(United States Provider's Manual.)

amazing that a VIP guy, knowing perfectly well that it's off limits, can't control his pecker.  The guy probably doesn't even like Greek himself...it's the fault of your amazing ass.  So please, eat more cheesecake this holiday season!

But seriously folks, I not only read all the reviews and all the pages of your website, if you've got one, but I do a search on the discussion board for all your posts and read those as well.  I like to find out about a ladies sense of humor, and communications skills, as well as if her amazing ass beckons unsuspecting boners.

And then you'll get all these cows and sheep trying to lick you.

I guess there are worse fates.

I'm due for re-smoting in....  Shall we say February?

I believe in doing adequate research.  I read the profile page after doing a search to see how many categories have been exceeded.  Then I'll read at least 5 r 6 reviews to verify general details.  Alphabet soup isn't my cup of tea but reading between the lines ["true GFE", "makes you feel very special"] helps me determine if I'm close to making "the" selection.  I'll also check out other reviews by the reviewers to guage accuracy of ratings.  YMMV but I try to minimize this possibility.

It's just like reading Penthouse letters.  The erotic stories are worth the price of admission alone.

If I am seeing a lady for the first time, I read EVERYTHING about her on this site.  You know what they say, "be prepared....do your homework".  Good luck is the residue of design.