Does your wife know you do this?

 
Why do clients ask that question?

eofm!

She's in the closet holding the camera   who knows why people ask stupid questions?

she is a provider, who I am dating.

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Yes, he insists I pay my half of the bills.

Clients want to hear you say thay you don't have a BF.

How's he always hanging around, playing video games, smoking blunts and trying to squeeze his next pair of Air Jordan's from you. We don't know if you don't tell us....

Then it would seem that you're new or naive and then it's a you issue. So what would you expect them to ask? Me, I wouldn't ask but that's me. Learn to skirt around that part of your life. Also, you'd be very surprised at how some women just tend to open up...Yeah the Air Jordan and blunts was alittle hard....lol

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I used to see...  her SO would call her between appts.  Often she would have me stay for company after play time was over...  & she'd shush me...   sometimes he'd bring her lunch...   I think he had a factory job & was not a bum.

Seriously. It makes roughly the same difference.

As in who really gives a shit?

That said, with date 3 or 4 it usually comes up. LOL

Just small talk. It's harmless.  

Ya know.... Now that we've taken our relationship to the next level!

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She fucks guys for a living. Seems like a completely pointless questions.

40/60 she has a GF at home anyway...

Maybe they are hoping to become that boyfriend and get freebies.

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The client might be trying to gage his or her drama risks or this may be a sly way for them to know your relationship status.  He may be interested in you beyond the hobby.  I have had providers ask me if I had a girlfriend or if I visited providers a lot.Lol

it would be okay to ask them if she knows he fucks around with hookers. I really do not want to hear a guy downing his wife while he is lying and cheating on her.  

I can handle the lying and cheating but not the wife bashing..that crosses a line for me.

Being a provider gives me the freedom to have these wonderful Boyfriends without worrying about a real BF!!

Agreed. SO's are off limits. I don't bash mine and she don't talk about hers. I just change the subject, sometimes rather pointedly.

i love this endeavor... all the girls i screw love to hear about all the other girls i screw!

I think we all dream of being the boyfriend or the husband of a provider because most of us have enjoyed the company of most of the providers we have met.  The fantasy is there, but where would our heads be?  I am not jealous, but would it bother me if my SO was providing as long as we still could share sex and intimacy?  I think it would be fine, but what is the reality, hence the question when we are with an exceptionally appealing provider: Does she have a boyfriend, is he OK, are they OK?
I would not ask that though I know two of my ATFs had boyfriends who became finances, and then husbands.  At last information (many years ago but a number of years after their marriages) they were happy and doing well.  
It is a rude question that I would never ask, but it comes from finding the provider we  are with so appealing  that it leads us to wonder.

I usually stay clear of ladies with B/F or S/O , they have the habit of putting your lady friend in a bad mood, no 1. In addition they can add a level of a unsafe conditions, you know he is sleeping around and probably not using protection when he comes home? Thirdly you never know where he is hiding? Personally have witnessed all the above!

Wasn't she already full from OMG FIXINGS?

Hey Julia,
I don't invade the privacy of the providers that I see.  That is one of the things that they like about me.  I think sometimes it bothers them that I don't ask about their personal life.Lol  I do think that it is important to gage the potential for drama when you are meeting a lady for the first time.  I have had experiences in the past where the boyfriend was jealous and caused problems with the lady that I was seeing.  You just want to cover your back.Lol  The same goes for providers being concerned about psycho girlfriends or wives of the Johns.

I am not dating a provider but if I did, I would be more concerned for her safety meeting a freak alone in hotel ! Or having some nut stalk her. Those would be some of my concerns.

Oh, right.  You're gonna ask her.  And she'll tell you the truth.  Right.  Or do you stalk them?

Clients probably don't engage in the hobby as often as a majority of the providers do so it raises the question of how one spends their time all day and what types of conversations occur outside this world that start with "How'd your day go?" or "What did you do today..."

I certainly think it's an odd question to ask unless you've got some level of relationship beyond a first visit. It might also be one of those questions the love-struck newbies ask as a round about way of asking if you're seeing someone

Not so, provider can enjoy what ever she wants, and most do! However in my case for many reasons my SO is no threat to anyone. So IMO I am not going to let a providers unknown b/f or s/o be a potential risk for me.  I have actually known several of this type and have witnessed unsafe acts, especially at private swinger gatherings. So for me I chose to not repeat with providers in risky relationship of which most don't last.

You clearly have no experience in the hobby life style if you don't how this info comes out after 2 or 3 sessions without asking! Just flash some real wads of Benjamin's!!

And you don't even know why!  And I "clearly have no experience in this hobby life style?" Pot/Kettle/Black much.
Lawdy, will someone please take poor Sherlock to school?

If a trick is intrusive enough to ask personal questions he gets "my personal life is off limits thank you" from me. If he continues, he is blocked and never seen again.  

Flash all the money you want McFries , it will not give you access to my private life.

OK, Sherlock, I'll spill.  My real name is Suzy Cumzalot.  You could look it up.  Oh, and you can believe me when I say you are my first of the day, too! LULZ!

not to make light of your response, julia, but our so putting us in a bad mood is usually the reason we come to see you girls!

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In my case, I have long been fascinated with sex workers.  And I admire them.  And I minored in psychology in college, so I'm one of those people who wants to know "what makes you tick."  That being said, I don't barge into a first appointment with someone and start "the interview."  In the case of my ATF, I shared a lot of personal info with her, while asking light and non-invasive questions.  As our chemistry and trust deepened over time, she volunteered more info and answered more personal questions.  I suspect that at least some of the clients who ask "annoying" questions are just curious and/or genuinely interested in you as a person, not just a cum receptacle.

Not a question I would ask.  Not my business.  However if I were to ask it is probably because I am a nosy SOB