I started this thread on another board a few nights ago and got some interesting replies so i thought i'd bring it to a larger forum and see what happens with it.
Original post from other board:
"OK, i read the "what do you find sexy" thread earlier tonight on my way out the door, and for some reason it got me thinking for the rest of the night about what would be the one thing in life that i enjoy more then anything else.
What's the one thing in life that makes you feel whole and fulfilled like nothing else can?
For me, it's holding a sleeping woman in my arms. There's just something about knowing that another person, another human being feels comfortable enough with you to allow themselves to drift off into what is basically a helpless state wrapped in your arms. All defenses turned off. All guard let down. Even if only for a short period of time.
It's a feeling that no drug could ever come close to matching. No amount of money could ever replace it or ever be able to buy it. It truely is the Ultimate High. I've found only one other thing in life that comes close to it, but close is still only almost there.
Yeah, yeah, i know. I'm just a hopeless romantic at heart. Oh well..... "
-- Modified on 6/9/2004 12:18:36 PM
I of course held her close afterwards assuring her it was a beautiful thing! Beyond that, my new 95-inch 102hp/107ftlb top end is a real rush!
ahhhh Snowblind, you didn't want strictly romantic occurances did ya?
No bb, whatever it is, it is.
Dammit, i can't stop laughing now!
fliped over. I loved that. She's ten now and is taller than me.
To me, holding a newborn baby (espcially your own) is the most amazing thing. New life is definitely a miracle. And babies are 100% dependant on you for survival. There is no greater love that that of a parent toward their child. And the love starts just by seeing the precious little baby.
The biggest thrill for me was with my 3rd daughter when the doctor stepped aside and let me deliver the baby!
That was a great post. I do agree falling asleep in a guys arms. That is after we have made love or did the deed till my body is so limp, but then I wake up to go "P"
I definitely agree with you on the pleasures of a gorgeous woman falling asleep in your arms. But..... A few weeks ago something happened to me that just took my life into another level.
I took my 5yo son to a mini camping trip just to get him used to the idea of outdoors and roughin' it. We went to this campground close to Avalon, which is just one level below Hilton as far as amenities. Anyway, the kid was miserable the whole time. I tried everything short of doing hand stands (I think I even did that) and he still looked board and unhappy. I brought him back feeling like a complete failure. As soon as I opened his seat belt, he looked at me and said, "You're the best daddy in the whole world" and gave me a hug. I could not believe my ears. You never know what goes on in their little heads. Apparently, the next day he was trying to sell me as the best Smores Maker between all of his friends' dads.
-- Modified on 6/9/2004 6:27:58 PM
Yep- When I got back from a trip and both kids just wanted to jump on Daddy and give him big hugs--- pretty cool!
I DO love my kids, even tho' I am strict with them.
Also seeing the light go on when I am coaching them at T-ball is cool. My little girl finally realized that running full speed would get her on base every time! I beamed almost as wide as she did!
I agree with you also on having a gorgeous woman falling asleep in your arms or snuggling with you and just talking.
But I think I reached my ultimate high when I recently had a doubles session and one of the girls reached climaxed and just watching her shake, moaning and thrashing about was amazing. Her pleasure subsided my pleasure, Her pleasure was satisfying enough. I've seen girls have climaxes but I could never honestly tell if they were real or fake but without a shadow of doubt I know this one was very real.
Be it dancing through the pucker bushes in the desert or going for broke on a twisty mountain highway motorcycles have always given me a thrill that after 35 years I've yet tire of.
Riding over the Alps of Switzerland an into Italy, then going on and riding through France, Spain, and Germany. Once in a life time experience.
OING WHITE WIDOW IN AMSTERDAM-2000 (420!)Gazing into the Northern Lights and seeing the purple haze
Agreed. Been riding for 29 years now and in it's own right it's a feeling like no other. especially at night. One of the few things i can do where i can finally let go of all the shit in life and become one with myself again.
Like the saying goes.......... If i have to explain, you wouldn't understand.
Currently number 3 on my list. Somedays number 2.
Modified because i'm not built to be up at 4 in the morning!! Isn't this still last night????
-- Modified on 6/10/2004 2:19:56 AM
He asked what our ultimate high is? Its everybody's own personal experience. To some people its what they have experienced while in the hobby. To others its things thats happened to them in their personal life. To others it could be work related.
No kidding Free...I play in the dirt and street. Both are a huge rush. Even with the hazards on the road, I still love it. Ive had to lay it down twice on the road because people can't judge distance of a motorcycle. I better stop here, I could ramble about this forever. OH....an even bigger rush? MeganR on the back of my ride...
...with delight is my ultimate high in the hobby.....
My Ultimate high, is a provider that can't take her hads off of me, makes me feel like I am the center of her world. who does BBBJCIM-NSNQ keeps me wrapped up in her arms the whole time, and then gets me excited all again and gently wispers in my ear "I want you in my ass" and procedes to go at it like she has a 7 year itch to scratch......
and then if I haven't had a stoke yet a clean up and even more more BBJ to get me excited again into a CG alternating between slow and genteal to fast and furious.
When I have that I have a stupid grin on my dace for hours afterwards.
For me nothing has been beter than that.
the Northern Lights, but unfortunately I missed out on the the haze. However, I was quite lucky and had an enjoyable experience with a somewhat rare White Russian.
Fun times indeed!!!
Thought of another high point in my life- one I treasure
Running back down court after a bucket hearing:
"You better get on that guy- White boy be lightin' you UPPPP!!!"
That and :
"Who has that guy? He's Killing us?!!!"
Happened just the two times- but I loved it and love relating it. I have no skills and little athleticism, so I was just in a groove on those ocasions, but the memories are great and have to suffice when I am being abused by some real player on a court, the usual case.
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Riding a motorcycle, feeling free, while the Northern Lights fill the sky in Amsterdam with your ATF's arms around your waist until you pull off and make jizz come out of her nose and she falls asleep in your arms where you dream you're playing with your kids.
Sounds like TER paradise!
GF went down on me in a hot-air balloon over Monterey, CA near PB Golf course at sunset. I had just watched a guy hit a hole in one (not sure of the hole, but a par 3). Getting it whacked off at altitude is not a bad way to go out.
GUZ, you are not long for this hobby dude. You are a sucker for love so I bet you are the guy I will be reading about that lost his home, money, wife, kids etc. because like the Home Shopping Network, he got so additcted, he stopped going to work, pawned his lost dollar, the kids inheritance to feed his habit. Baby, pay for your hour, go home happy, and jack off on Sunday when you run out of excuses to leave the house. Life is great, but your killing us with your "love" stories.
Ultimate high......
Just going with it, xxxxxploring and having my touch, my mouth make a man swooooooooooooooooon.
Laughter and being comfortable with one another makes it even more fun!