I have debated this with myself every time I travel. I must admit I'm guilty of doing so with people that have given me the ok to do so, and people who I feel comfortably enough to let them know. What's the consensus from both providers and hobbyists on this topic?

Sending s group message where all of your regulars can see each other's contact information.

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If she are an amazing provider who showed me the best time of my life then I would love to hear from you.

If our last time was good I would like to hear from her.

If she is awful then I would be annoyed

I don't think there is any 'guilty' here.   Once we put ourselves into each other's worlds as two people who enjoy each other's company, it seems totally natural and normal to me -- in fact, is someone I am fond of was coming my way and she didn't tell me it would be kinda disappointing.

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If we hit it off I'll ask if they want me to save there number and let them know when I'm in town . I love to send nude selfies to my regulars . Sometimes guy say no or he'll contact me ect I don't ever get offended lol

I was always very pleased and flattered to received a clearly personal note with a phrase or line that let me know it was a unique note to me.

an individual message.  Although that may be an inconvenience to you individual messages will help prevent inadvertent disclosure of other people's private information.

if you tipped once in awhile.  

 
Just kidding, Dr. Joe.  It was too good of a setup to pass up the punch line.

One provider who I have seen a few times over the years since 2009 or so has me on one of those mass emails, I normally delete them as soon as I receive them, they just seem so impersonal.  Another provider that I saw 4 or 5 months ago sends me personal texts whenever she is in my AO, I respond to those.  So I would have to say for me I'd rather receive a personal text or email, I'm more likely to RSVP the request.  Everyone wants to feel some type of special.

They would not be texting me if we did not have a good time.

ladies who let me know when they are passing through or staying for a few nights. I make every effort to get away to see them.

It's not a high pressure sales thing or anything. I'm aware some guys like variety, some will be out of town etc but I do send a quick email about 3 weeks before I arrive in a town only because I might only get to that place once a year or something and wouldn't want someone to miss out because they weren't looking for my advert. Obviously if someone has specified it's too dangerous to contact them for discretion reasons then I won't

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i have had many a lady let me know when she's coming to my town.  sometimes i can see her, sometimes not, but it's always nice to be remembered.

If it is someone you have seen before when traveling to his city, go ahead and send the message that you'll be there.  It doesn't bother me, and would appreciate it if it was from a lady that I wanted to see again.

The worst that can happen is for the recipient to delete the message.

you can call me up for a date, any old time!

We have open lines of communication.  If she is visiting and wants to let me know, I appreciate the gesture.  More than likely, I would respond with a proposal to see her.  This has occurred many times with my lady friends, and almost always results in a positive outcome for us both.  

My take is that are handling this correctly.  If he told you it's cool to stay in touch, probably OK

You're more than welcome to call me, text me, email me, send a letter, Facebook message me, tweet me, Myspace message me to let me know. Just don't send me a message on TER cause I don't have VIP and I probably won't read it until it's too late

Otherwise I don't.

With special girls.. I will usually keep track of their schedule... but sometimes I need a little push.

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I just recently experienced this type of text.  If it was personalized I would have reacted differently but contained the usual terms of endearment of "hunny," "babe" and sexy..

Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy getting them especially in the middle of a crazy day at work when I take a minute to check my messages

D.

Escorts promoting texts.emails.newsletters.

just so you know i have friends that i have known for 15 years or more and i use terms of endearment when i talk to them  

My thought is if they see you on two separate visits, send them an email letting them know ahead of time for the next one, letting them also know to tell you if you'd prefer not to send pre-visit emails in the future...

I've sent email to other providers in the past, letting them know I had just missed them (saw their ad on the last day or otherwise missed them during a visit) and would love for them to email me if they come back for another visit.  I don't remember getting a single email form any of them when they came to visit again... it seems like a real missed marketing opportunity.

It sounds awful  😢

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