It was nice to see some of you respond to some earlier posts, but I would like to hear what you really think about this topic. In an earlier post, I wrote: "The absolute truth is that most women who suspect that their SOs are tipping out, have there coffee on the side too... If you live in the most civilized places and whether the burbs or the city, you see clandestine meetings in mall parking lots all the time. Many of these SOs are having same sex relationships, what people now refer to as the "down-low"... If you hobbyists think your wives and SOs are not finding relief in one of these forms, then me thinks you might be sucking on the pipe; the glass dick you hear referenced in the movies. At 37, I have had more married "strange" that I care to admit. The thing I like about it most is that it is very often very satisfying "grudge" pussy,aand she uses your credit card to pay for lunch. Wake up and smell the coffee guys. While yours may be eating bon-bons and watching the soaps, Cindy is getting drilled by me or having her salad tossed by Mary."