When I ask, they are usually taken aback and say to finish on their tits.

You should let the provider know before meeting them what you are looking for~

Shaye

ps (If you ever get to Philly...look me up)

I guess I all ready know the answer to my question: different strokes for different folks.  But for me the actual finish is a physical sensation only.  I love a long slow build up; lots of foreplay bringing me to the edge and holding over and over.  That seems to make the pop the most intense.  

I like to finish BBBJCIM the most because the sensation of bareback is superior to anything with cover and, of course, that is because uncovered vaginal sex is not even up for debate.  The last thing I want to do as I approach orgasm is pull out.  Now I don't make a big deal of it if the lady doesn't do CIM but lets me get right to the edge then finishs me with one or two real wet HJ strokes, but the best is to finish in the soft, warm and wet place preferably deep.

I suppose the thrill of a facial is a visual thing, but I can't get too into looking where it went at that moment.  Also if there is any real time lapse there it seems to me to be parallel to coitus interuptus.  

Comments....

I most definitely agree. There is nothing better(other than
BBFS,but not going there)than a good BBBJTCCIMNQNS. I have
a provider that literally lifts me off the bed with her abilities to bring me up and over the edge. I'm usually
a quivering mass of putty by the time she is through with me.

As far as pulling out,I don't mind since I'm already covered.
Yanking the cover off and giving a pearl necklace,or even
a facial for that matter,has it's visual aspects...sure.
What I enjoy, is their cute little comments after your
release. Some of them are priceless.    

If a lady takes 10 minutes or longer "putting on their face" they're not usually real eager to re-do it.

and really enjoy it. It is included in my PSE rate.

name "Diamond".

Thanks

I offer it, I like the eye to eye gaze. But you must ask for this, best not sprung on a gal, or a dude in 3" heels, unless of course you are offering 10 mill.

I think you really need to move to Sunny California.

Get it in my eyes... not only does it burn for hours afterwards, but the eyes are a port of entry into the bloodstream. (Lots of people don't know that!) You know it's easier to catch a cold via your EYES than via your mouth? Who'd've thunk it?

Anyways, all else is fair game. Bring it on baby!

Hugs*
Tamara

in LA 31st JAN - 6th FEB. I plan on returning frequently. I have posted twice on the LA boards.

I know men love it cuz it makes them feel they're emulating what they see in porno movies. Personally, it's on my menu, tho I don't get many requests for it..

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Now I know, just ask for a facial!

Reiamond, are you reviewed in TER? Can't find you by doing "Search reviews" and searching by the

Diamond is fantastic. Go to my review of her and you will see what she allows.

Shaye, I think you forget how much more open you (and several other providers here on the board) are to discussing this kind of thing than the average provider.

There are a lot of things that you can ask about, and if they're not offered, she'll just say "no" and it's no big deal.  But there are other things that you have to be more careful about.  Sometimes you ask for something, and not only is the answer "no," but you can tell by the expression on her face that she's really turned off just by your asking.  Facials are definitely in that category, so you gotta understand the gal pretty well before you even ask.

I thought a lot of providers offered that - maybe I was a bit naive. I offer them and have no problem with it.

Maybe just asking after you have been screened and verified?

Hugs,

Vanessa Sue

Guess I'm weird, but I think facials are cool.   Then again this comes from someone that would like to try american bukake someday and have like 6-10 guys around me masturbating and then come all over me.
I'm not afraid of the mess, and I can always wash my face and put on fresh makeup.
Seeing or feeling a guy relase his cum kinda turns me on and let's me know that I got him there to that point of satisfaction.