If a hobbyist had reservations about seeing you over weight/age/anything, would you rather just not see him or would rather have him address those questions via PM prior to a meet? I know that questions like that can really get things off to a bad start but in many cases it can end well for both parties if addressed up front.

If you know her age and her weight (which pics and good ads will show you) don't you already have your answer about whether you want to see her?

It's a great way to insult her and start things off on a big negative.  And besides, who says she's going to tell you the truth?
Why not back channel with some of the guys who reviewed her recently.  Or just move on.  Lots of fish in the sea.

You could ask if her age is honest and are her images a very good representation of what you will be meeting and she could answer yes to both but you still won't know for sure until you get there.

Here's the thing, this could go either way if a hooker wanted to ask a few questions of a hobbyist before accepting the appointment. I would have no issue either way. Just don't be a dick about it and realize that you might get shut down and never see her.

At first I thought you were concerned about your own weight, age, etc.; but my brethren took it as you having concerns over her physique.

In any case, as regards the first possibility, do not say anything to her along those lines.  It will create strain, as you point out.  If her photos and looks scores are enough to make you question, then move on to another gal.  You can also PM people who have recently seen her and ask.

As to the latter case, yes, go ahead and ask if she has an issue, but it is s rare provider who won't see a guy over his looks.

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I've been lobbying to have BMI (body mass index) added to the TER Profile for a long time.  :-

Good one but that can also be lied about. Unless you have her current undoctored weight, and her height, she can tell you its 21 and you'd think you are going to meet miss Hottie McHotterson.

I'd warn them not to lie because I bring a luggage scale and I'm prepared to use it.  I also bring an 8" ruler in my shorts to measure the height of the girls I see.  I've met quite a few Amazons that way: 6', 6'8", 7'4" ..