I spent some time tonight reading reviews on the low end of the scale, just for comparison. Oh my god are there some low life thieves out there. More often than not the stories end with the guy getting the worst of it. Mainly because he's already given the money and wants to salvage some sort of good time by at least finishing. Every so often though I read one where the guy's pride was more valuable and he would stand up to the upseller, the bait and switcher, the terrible attitude provider, etc.
I'm wondering if there are more stories out there like this and how people salvaged there pride and saved their money. Certain stories involved drivers or "bodyguards". In these situations, I personally would pay as little as I could and just leave. I wouldn't want to think of someone getting physical or pulling a weapon. Let alone tracking you down after the fact and causing trouble.
But in the absence of a direct threat like that, how can you safely reject a escort? She can still cause trouble for you if she desires. "Her man" may not be there, be he may still exist. What are people's experience of just how far these rip off artists are willing to go to get your money?
I can see upsellers as easy to deal with in a way. Some money they already have for showing up, but when they start to upsell you decline and ask them to leave, easy. Granted it sucks that they get any money, but again I am not going to try to physically regain money I've already given her.
Any stories out there of good ways to deal with these women? I have been very lucky and only had a few truly bad experiences. It sure would have been nice to be armed with some knowledge before hand so I knew how to deal with the situation.
I don't think this is a newbie question either. A newbie is gonna get ripped off, period. He just doesn't have the experience with what's what, and he is thinking with his small head. I think it takes the experience of an vet hobbyist to deal with this well. A skill based in your ability to tell the little head to shut up and think with the big one.
As a provider, this "rip-off" shit really frustrates me. There is this stigma placed on Eros providers that they are not as accurate as RS2K providers. As a provider, I pay more to advertise on Eros than RS2K. But, I know that my Eros clients have very likely been disappointed at least once. It really pisses me off and here is why: I give a false name and thats fine; but if a client gives a name other than what is on his ID, I can have him black-balled, no ?'s asked. Who are these girls that are advertising inaccuratly? I recieve $500 per hour. and I hold my clients in a very high regard. I may make $500 per hour, but they pay it. Who's time is more valueable? How dare providers waste their time with false advertising? We charge more than doctors, more than lawyers, and we do it tax free; the least we can do is be honest.
Don't have to be a vet, just know that if a bad arrangement becomes apparent, just get out. My very first session a few years ago turned out to be a bait-and-switch. I had done my research and decided on a very well reviewed and expensive provider with an agency. Confirmed a few times with agency to make sure I would see the right provider. When I showed up at incall, the woman who answered the door was not the provider I expected...not even close. I never set foot inside but said, "Bait-and-switch, no thanks", and I walked away before she could say anything and hoped she wouldn't follow me down the hall.
Very early into my internet hobbying experience I was the victom of an agency bait & switch. The young naive asian girl(I was expecting a tall busty blond) they sent to my door desperately sought to convinced me to let her stay. Taking pity dispite the agency B&S game I let her in. Once in she requested me to pay up front. I told her after we were naked and in bed she would see the cash. Frustrated at my stubbornness she gave in. Naked and in bed with her envelope now in her purse she began an up-sell routine. I got up as if to get more cash but grabbed her purse instead, removed my envelope containing the donation and took $20.00 from it and gave it to her teling her to get dressed and hit the road. She quickly left and then her agency called me to inform me that they were sending her driver to collect the ballance of the money. I told them that I don't scare that easily. They threatened to call the police on me and I said "Make my day" and hung up. They continued to call repeatedly so I disconnected the phones from the wall and went to sleep.
If any agency owners or their employees wonder why o'l FreedomRider sees ONLY independents.......Need I say more?
FR.
Arranged to see a hot asian with pretty good reviews -- this was years ago -- who advertised GFE for 2.5. Showed up at her incall place: she was hot, indeed. Massage was so-so, then she started a HJ -- and when she put the oil on the little head, I knew things were going south...
Now, I immediately said, uh, isn't that going to taste yucky, which led her to indicate that a hj was all she had on the menu.... I pointed out that 250 (years ago) was way out of line for a hj and reminded her that her ad said GFE.... I said, trying to ad some levity to the situation, that a hj might be GFE if you're in the 8th or 9th grade, but in the real world GFE meant bbbj and fs... She was not amused.... I said, well, just give me my money back and I will leave. She was less amused....
She said, "you are almost finished, anyway...." Now, I had been there about 25 minutes, 20 of which was spent on a so-so massage and five or less on a half-hearted hj.... I told the young lady I was not leaving without my money. We then called the agency who said they were going to send somebody over to straighten things out -- in a threatening tone.
I told them, I will be taking a nap....wake me up when he gets here....
Five minutes later, nobody is there. The phone rings.... The girl answers, and then talks to the agency.... I get 200 back and leave...
Happy ending, but was it the wise thing to do? I did not think anybody was coming over, and if he had, I would have just left. The apt was up-scale and the girl clean and intelligent -- just a rip off artist, not a skank ROB-ho....
MA