I have a question men. When you are looking through various provider sites and I know that there are many, what is it that makes you take the leap? What makes you want to see her? Is it her looks, her body, her mind? What is it that does it for you?
Legs and attitude... after doing my homework I try to make a final decision based upon attitude, which includes her sense of humor, sense of responsibility, etc... a lot is based on email replies and brief phone conversations if it goes that far.
Thankfully the hobby's pretext of casual, no-strings wild-ass sex allows for and gives full license to making an initial choice by visual stimuli alone. The contact phase can prove a very accurate determination of the level of professionalism I can expect. The speed of returns on e-mails or call backs along with their content is usually a good indicator of common courtesy as well as a precursor to the ladies personality. Finally after my libido has been stimulated by her pictures, issues of general respect, common courtesy and business savvy have been established and her personalty has shown in our communications it's off to enjoy all forms of human sexual relations.
Looks and body. Personality and mind can only be a factor after I meet the lady in person. So many of the ladies' web sites are too similar, count the times words like "elegant," "discerning," "good conversationalist," "GFE" etc etc etc are used. I mean no disrespect to anyone, I realize many ladies work hard on their websites, but it's difficult to choose just from those. Looks, bodies, those are easier. However, I recently had an experience that actually goes against everything I've said so far: I made a date with a provider based on her photos, had several e-mail exchanges, online chats, even phone calls with her before meeting and she sounded fun, had a good sense of humor, was articulate, and ... turned out to be waaaaay heavier than her photos showed and not very clean to boot. On the other hand, I've had extremely good luck with all of the ladies a certain agency has sent me to. OK, to end this ... Looks are first, still, because there are certain body types that excite me less than others. And sometimes there is that certain something in the web site that intrigues me, and I'm sure that something is different for everyone so in the end I guess I really don;t have much of an nswer at all, Tig.
Is there anything on your website that leads me to believe that you have an interesting personality that you can carry on an intelligent conversation? Perhaps a sense of humor?
Do your reviews tell me that I will enjoy myself, and is what is written between the lines tell me that indeed you have personality and intelligence?
Finally, does any other information attract me to you? Such as your posts, and a few others here, like Megatha and Emma, I find particularly interesting and sometimes humorous. Finding you to be a real person through chat or posts is a great way to build the anticipation.
Perhaps I am different, but as a nice, laid back intelligent person myself, I seek the same during the brief few hours that we will get to spend together. It makes it so much more memorable as well as a great encounter. But overall, I want to know that my time and money are well spent (as well as me!)
Certainly not the first time I have answered this question on the boards, as it has been asked before.
It's the smile for me. I have never dated a lady that was not smiling in her gallery of inticement. There is something about the smile that hooks me or the lack of it will totally turn me off. No matter the ratings, the explicitness, or anything, without the smile I won't look much further.
Then its onto courtesy, professional approach to her business, promptness in email and returning phone calls, and then that all important phone call while I invision her smile. JUST ME
"You're big, fat and ugly". Hmmmm I could be. Or perhaps I'm just average looking or maybe even spectacular in every sense of the word. he he
But seriously, I have reviews here, and if you were going to be in my area you would have read them and contacted me if I were your type. And who knows, maybe we have met. Afterall you're using an alias too.
Quote: " "You're big, fat and ugly". Hmmmm I could be."
Sorry to disagree, but no ma'am. There is no way that that an intelligent, witty, kind and thoughtful person could ever be ugly. Someone that possess those qualities can only be spectacular, no matter their physical build or appearance. _________________________________________________ Now, as to the identity of Miss Megatha... I think you guys are going about this all wrong. You know her aproximate location, but from there you investigate it wrong. Your course of action to unveil the mysterious Miss Megatha should come from her name. This is a mystery...so you have to take the clues she gives and work from there.
We already know she is in the eastern US, that she is intelligent, and witty...so what else can we glean from her posts? Most obvious is that she is a sadist. Now you may be asking how I come to this conclusion, quite simple really. She posts with an alias and charms the minds of the members here, who then have no way of finding this cryptical creature that has captured their imaginations...if that ain't sadistic...I don't know what is.
Then there is the name again, a mystery fan herself, and well read...so what you have to do is go to the reviews, go to the Eastern US reaviews and look for a sadist, whose location is near a library, and perhaps a train station (no one named after the author of "Murder on the Orient Express" coulkd stay away from a train station), the reviews should also mention that the lady had a lot of mystery books, she would have pets named "Tommy" and "Tuppence"...she would ask her clients to call her "Jane" or "Miss Marple", would refer to her orgasms as "The 'little' Death on the Nile" and when the reviewer would leave instead of saying "goodbye" she would say, "And Then There Were None".
Come on guys that shouldn't be tough to find...get your little grey cells working. *smirk*
But if you'd excuse me, I've gotta go back to work and make $ so I can see Agatha Christie some day.
Meanwhile, I'd see if I can get a freudian slip from her. She did say that Coochmeister had corresponded with her. So how 'bout it, Cooch? It shouldn't be difficult for you. Tell us.
...Orlando. Megatha lives in or around New York, judging from her posting pattern. That I may have corresponded with Megatha doesn't narrow it down very much, since I've corresponded with lots of people. Also, I don't remember whether it was Megatha or Tig I was supposed to know via correspondence. I think Karrie told me this. Anyone with any clues? BESIDES Web Terrorist, that is....
You're a very smart gal to pick up all these clues!
But sadist? Yikes! lol
I will admit to being a tease and a huge flirt and sometimes I am unstoppable especially if I get an audience (be it here or on a "date" or even a civvie man that I meet). I just love attention (one of my many faults) and sometimes I just can't help myself. But it's all in good fun and I would never intentionally hurt someone, so I hope no one is ever offended by my playfulness. Because that's all it is: a diversion from my day, a chance to laugh, and sometimes I even get great advice reading these boards.
Sometimes when I'm at work (my day job) and it's slow I hop online and read the posts and a few months ago started answering some of them with "Megatha" and not my provider name. And not for any good reason other then wanting to remain even more anonymous. I'm still pretty new to all of this and I find this whole world intriguing because it's so unlike the rest of my ultra conservative life.
I generally prefer longer dates so if all she's got going for her is her appearance and her personality sucks. God bless me. I've got to think of something else to do with her when we're not having sex.
Looks has to come first for the initial attraction. A smile is part of the looks. You can also tell a lot about a lady from reading her posts, e-mails and sometimes her website. Her reviews give you a good idea of performance and willingness to enjoy the other's company. There are many truely lovely ladies here on TER. Be safe and enjoy.
I'll even overlook physical activities that I usually insist on if the heart and soul seem to be aligned in a special way.
I consider myself blessed that I love women of all shapes and sizes. I don't have a hair color fetish or insist on a boobie size. I like BBW and Stick Chicks. I love the differences. Most of all I like the spirit. Even intelligence plays second fiddle to the spirit. (I think we've all met amazingly bright people who are as dull as dishwater.)
On the website: I drool over any or all photos and proceed directly back to the home page and start my clue gathering: It's not like I have a check list but what I notice is: Did she write it herself? (If she has to have someone else write for her she either isn't in charge of her own business, feels inadequate in her ability to express herself or perhaps she can't speak English very well... and therefore will be unable to talk dirty to me.)
Is what she's written articulate? (Complete sentences are a turn on for me, I confess, but more important than that is what she's communicating. This is an opportunity for her to express herself to me. Does she spend her time and space telling me a bunch of rules and gifts she'd like to obtain? I fast forward commercials at home...I do it here as well.
Part of this includes her links...where does she want me to go? Is it a cool erotic fiction site? Or just links to escort malls she's required to post. Again, this is an opportunity to express herself...does she take advantage of it?
Probably my biggest thing is humor. Does the woman have humor? Can she laugh? Does she have joy? (this kinda goes into emotional stability which isn't always necessary, mind you, but it's nice to know if it's a mild case or a basket case.)
After contact there's a whole new batch of things.
I want to be sure that the lady is sincere about liking what she does and wanting to please, offers a reasonable rate, and is not likely to be cold or a ripoff. I try to detect about her personality and friendliness. That established, I consider my physical preferences. As long as she is natural and not unattractive, she doesn't have to be a glamor beauty.
You don't even know the floodgate you opened by saying "you want them both". When a man tells me that, it's like turning on a faucet in my panties. If I am ever fortunate enough to meet you, just look at me and say, I want you. I hope you survive.
I didn't know telling you I liked you was a character flaw. My name is because of my best and biggest feature. I start big up top and then get smaller as you go down which is quite ironic as the situation is usually that it gets bigger as I go down.
...wish. I've gone so far as to look at all the Eros girls from Tampa-Orlando who appear to have big ole titties, to see if any one of them might give a hint of being you. My impression is that they ALL look more than acceptable....
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My name is because of my best and biggest feature. I start big up top and then get smaller as you go down which is quite ironic as the situation is usually that it gets bigger as I go down.