I was having a session with a young lady and we started talking about the state of the hobby and she was saying that some of her girlfriends had stolen her best clients and how she had started doing the same thing.  She said that she actually gets off by taking her competition's clients away from them.  I guess it is away for her to keep score.  I just chalked this up to her being young.  Is this something that is common in the industry?

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Its not like we are under contract. Since most of us have a limited budget we do have to decide one over another. And a lot of guys want variety. I have had a few times where a lady had seen a review abd sent me a PM asking why I saw such n such and not her.

Sometimes it gets downright dangerous.  I know of one case where a provider put something in another provider drink to make her go to sleep.  

They will also talk about how competition is not clean or has a std.

We make up our own minds, thank you.

Now if you mean distilling, that's another matter.  8o

I hate thinking like that it's soooo not a good use of my time!  It probably does happen but if the client is susceptible to that then so be it.  What am I going to do about it???  Sit back and let Karma do her job.

If she is engaging in deceitful tactics to make the clients stop seeing her friends then she shouldn't even call them "friends". Ultimately the client likes what he likes. But from him making a conscientious decision to see someone else over his regular girl, to go to her because this person is actively lying or making stories about the other girls then... that's awful.  

I wouldn't say it's a common thing, or maybe I'm just too naive about the subject.

Or he did mean "stilling" as in "youse is swimmin' wit da fishies now...."

He calls it stilling.

Thanks for the correction Mr. Fisher. I meant Stealing. Just a brain fart on my behalf.😀  I have had ladies refuse to introduce me to friends of theirs when that was the only way I could get in touch with them.  I guess they didn't want me seeing the friend.

Closest I come to this situation is when a provider introduces me to her friend and then trashes her a bit if I start seeing the first one less.

Want to see me more? Up your game

I guess if they're Casino Girls or both working a hotel bar or they're roommates. Otherwise, just how does this work?

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Using drugs such as cocaine.

First of all, stealing clients is BS. The ladies know that guys are going to see other ladies (it's not a committed relationship.  Maybe a business relationship with more benefits). It's going to happen, any lady who thinks otherwise is fooling herself. Any guy who thinks they curry favor with a lady or thinks she gives him top priority is also fooling himself.

why play these games? Meat people,  schedule appointments,  become a regular if both parties agree, respect the rules, and play on. Keep it simple.  

If one wants more territorial rights over the other seek a more committed relationship.  

Peace  
 

As easy as single grapes in a supermarket .
Most of the ladies I regularly see are chill enough to actually recommend other Providers they think I might like

clients imply those hobbyists would choose only to see one provider on a regular basis, rather than many?  In my experience, that is just not the case.  More than a few hobbyists have made it known, that variety is one of the primary benefits of this hobby.

If this is true then, seems like there is really nothing to steal.  Most hobbyists prefer to spend time with a variety of providers rather than only spending time with one.

What is the difference between a regular client who sees one your friends and a regular client being stolen by your friend?

I think it was an ego thing with this particular girl.  I don't think she gave a fuck about the guys.lol. If one of her girlfriends took business from her, she would go after their clients.  She would lower her prices to attract clients away from girlfriends or rivals and then white list and have them do an excellent review to rub it in to the girlfriend to let them know that she is now fucking all of her friends clients once the friend realizes that business is slow.  It's twisted but true.

It is always possible for some people to develop an animosity toward someone else.  In that case out of spite or revenge they might try to poison the well of their enemy.   I think that would be a more likely explanation for such behavior than trying to monopolize a guy by dissing all other providers.   That would mostly be futile if the guy has a mind for variety

If Ford builds a better truck than Chevy, Dodge, etc., they won my business, they didn't steal it.  

If Hyatt provides a better stay experience than Marriott, they won my business, they didn't steal it.

Same with the ladies.  Identify your preferred client base, refine your skills to satisfy that base, market to that base, deliver the best quality experience possible...SUCCESS!  You, too, will WIN lots of business.

Must be in Bizarro World.

Any hookers out there who can't fuck on Coke? Also a rather expensive way to steal a client.

No escorts want to lose money.Clients and escorts not married either.

Just curious do you also get referrals from those you provide recommendations for?

In general I would think it's a tricky area to decide where the line between any two providers might be with regards to "stealing" a client away -- and I suppose what actions are used would be critical to know as well. So I suspect it does happen and that some see it as happening to them while the other just sees it as the ebb and flow of interests. Lastly, I see enough referrals for well respected providers by other providers to make me think there are either some cliques or mutual respect in that community in "stealing" within those groups probably doesn't occur.

If the gentlemen and ladies we see only wanted to enjoy one person in life, we wouldn't have this wonderful profession    
This is not just a business but it is also a sisterhood.  Jealousy is toxic and doesn't belong in P4P.
Let's all play together and enjoy one anothers company to the fullest potential.  The sexual freedom is amazing!
 A king sized bed can fit alot of sexy people   Just sayin

thing like "stealing clients" what a joke and unprofessional.  
I encourage my clients to meet my friends... because I know those ladies encourage theirs to see me. It's a circle.
There's no such a thing as a client being jealous for a written review and for a girl seen new people. LOL  
Some people are really weird and should be in different places than this website

Very well said!    
XOXO
TL

There is no such thing as "my" client. Clients come, clients go.  

I've seen some of my friends' clients, they've seen some of mine.  

What goes around, comes around.

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If this is how she acts, conducts business, and treats others sounds like it's time to delete her number and move on to more professional ladies. Many out there who know how to properly handle their business, treat their clients, and collaborate with other ladies in the business.  

Instead of stealing network and help one another.

Don't believe Dave. This is the second drug related post he has made and AGAIN...he was 100% wrong.  

Coke is an upper, a stimulant and does everything BUT put you to sleep.  

Dave just talks to hear himself talk, like his first post that mirrors his usual...."I know a guy" "This provider told me" and of course his best one...."this one time a band camp".  

Variety IS the spice of life too! Not to mention,  majority of the gentlemen I know are already married lol
XOXO
TL

You can't really steal a client unless you do it in a shady way. Like threatening them. If a client wants to see another provider and have fun with that provider, they should. And they will. I've gladly let go of clients who were so scared of another provider, that they said they couldn't see me anymore. Or said "shhh don't tell her! She'll get upset."  

Who wants to see someone like that? Sorry I'm not in the mood to nip someone's balls. I'll just go get another client. lol. Take them. Please.

On another note - I have refrained from seeing certain people after doing duo's together, or moved on due to mutual clients with duo partners or other friends when the relations got too close and awkward. Especially if it was hers first. This is a game for some though, and some people like power. Like in the 48 laws of power.  

I have had a couple duo partners who were totally cool and we shared joyfully though, and still do. lol!  

Sometimes It's too awkward. Nothing to do with who they're seeing, but I do part ways with the client if another woman getting in the middle of my 'ehem "affairs" with someone when I am alone with them.

But to "steal" a client - sounds like the client needs to stop being a little pussy and see who they want to see. That's not attractive in my opinion. Sorry.

That sounds like false success and delusion to think every dick wants you and only you. lol! (not you as in OP, you as in the example story provider.)

Anyway, I digress. lol

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Looks like your provider has evolved lol!!

You sure you want to keep going back to her? That's pretty fucked up.  

I'd be concerned as to why the other lady she's "stealing clients" from still hangs out with her. Where there's smoke, there's fire. And I guarantee you, the woman treats that friend like shit in person.

I think both of those women are unhealthy - IF the other woman / provider is still friends with her. Yikes that's fucked up. lol!

And one let her guard down as a result. The bad one slipped something into her drink, that is how she passed out. Shoes and hair was stolen lol, in additions to client(s).

what kind of booze the client becomes after the stilling?

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That's where Dave lives. Have you seen his other posts?

I don't think it's about the guy being a pussy or letting someone dictate to him who he can fuck, more like him trying to avoid the drama and problems that may come his way.  I like getting my dick wet just as much as the next guy but not enough to get caught up in a bunch of drama.  Sometimes you don't know that they are psycho chicks until you have fucked them a few times.Lol  No, I am no longer seeing her.  One and done.      

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unless for some estrange miracle we fall in love and get married and live "pretty woman" after ever after... by him seeing other girls... there's no happy ending anyways LOL  

getting feelings involved in this is a scary thing... scary thing, it could happen but both parties must be in agreement with it.  

I've never had even a hint of sexual freedom. They always make me pay!!!

You've been bringing this situation up since July on two different boards. That's fine and dandy, you do you, but you're still feasting lol.  

It is definitely perplexing, so I get why of course.  -- Modified on 10/28/2016 10:03:32 AM

The ladies do so much better when they share their clients, and a threesome guarantees repeat visits from said client, for both of the providers involved.  Then everyone wins.

Johns can hardly be "stolen" they don't belong to anyone but the John's wife and if he's seeing hookers you can see how well that is working out for the wife too.

and Court, did you just call a guy a "little pussy" right here on the board? That sounds more like something I would do, I wonder if I am starting to rub off on you? lol

No, I did not call "him" a pussy. He has moved on - at least from the two ladies - but some I say that to, (indirectly,) if they're pestering me that they can't see me instead of booking another date.

What do they want me to do about it? Start a fight with the girl and stick up for them? No thanks. lol

...watching "REALITY" TV.

Well of course....THAT's what happened.

Always seems to change with you Dave when you are proven wrong.

Another "this one time at band camp moment sponsored by....DaveMogal.  

Or better yet....under his other screen name?  

Those are equally bizarre.....and worthless.

Probably put a page or two of your posts in her drink.....that would put anyone to sleep.