what and what no to do if you want to be an escort's favorite client?
Be courteous.
Be clean including breath.
Be well dressed.
Be on time.
Don't flake on her.
Obey her boundaries.
Bring gifts.
Be a good lover, that is to say, generous.
Be witty.
Look like a Greek god
First of all, I wouldn't try too hard to be an escort's favorite client. Just be respectful of her as a provider... that means respecting both her personal boundaries, and her professional boundaries. It's a courtesy to her, and trust me, she will appreciate that. At the very least, she'll happily welcome you back (assuming that everything else went OK).
I appreciate money/tips/etc, but what really makes someone my favorite is his character and personality, and the way we relate to each other. Is he kind to me? Is he intelligent? Is he a good conversationalist? Is he compassionate? Is he easygoing? Does he have a good sense of humor? Do I have fun when I'm with him? (It goes without saying that he's clean, doesn't trample over my time and business, isn't rough or rude, etc.) Some things that stress me out would be (not in any particular order): texting or emailing me to chat, not gracefully letting me leave when I start to make those 'getting ready to go' noises, forgetting that I have a personal life and trying to 'buy' me by pushing the limits of what I'm willing to offer (i.e. trying to convert me to a de-facto sugar baby). I've known my favorites for quite some time. I trust them... they've been good to me over a period of years, and I know they don't want to date or marry me. They appreciate my service and company, and they show it by their behavior toward me (not necessarily money). For instance, I got the best relationship advice of my entire life from a 70-year-old client. He cared enough to say what he knew I needed to hear (it wasn't what I wanted to hear. But he was SO right I couldn't ignore him). When someone tells me flat-out that he REALLY wants to be my favorite client, I always feel like he wants to wrangle some concessions out of me... timewise, or even emotionally. It comes across as presumptuous and/or manipulative, and can actually be kind of creepy
I agree 100% with all of this, well-put!
Simply put, be a considerate, kind person. Respect boundaries. If we enjoy our time together, we'll naturally want to see each other again, and a relationship between us will naturally develop.
Someone who reads my blog prior meeting me. Simple, doesn't cost money, and it helps you knowing me better. Showing interest in the intellectual side as much as the physical is such a turn on for me.
Or is angling to be more than just a "client"
I have had a more than a few providers where I became a lot more than their "favorite client" but I certainly didn't come here to ask how it's done. First rule of being a john, "Don't be creepy", well maybe that is rule number two, right after "wash your ass" loland I suppose my advice goes double for those who enjoy a tongue up their ass.
As for me, I've had it done on more than a couple of occasions and I'll put it this way. I found it a "surprisingly pleasant" experience, but not one I would go out of my way to receive.-- Modified on 8/11/2016 4:15:07 PM
Be clean including breath.
Be well dressed.
Be on time.
Don't flake on her.
Obey her boundaries.
Those are most of the musts.
Some nice to haves:
Tip.
Bring gifts.
Be a good lover, that is to say, generous.
Be witty.
Look like a Greek god. Fish,
Regarding your last line, I used to look like a damned Greek god.... Now I look like a goddam Greek.
I see many here again talking about sex workers and how to be pleasant to sex workers.
Yet OP brought up amazing question - how to make woman to want you beyond of your money. Is not what all men want to know? I What makes you the best lover - a woman.Find the right woman to connect and share. Even for short period of time as one evening. That takes a man.
-- Modified on 8/11/2016 2:58:07 PM
Can that greek god be Hephaestus
Be clean including breath.
Be well dressed.
Be on time.
Don't flake on her.
Obey her boundaries.
Those are most of the musts.
Some nice to haves:
Tip.
Bring gifts.
Be a good lover, that is to say, generous.
Be witty.
Look like a Greek god.
He was a sure fire thing.
The Golden Rule is a must...treat me like a human should be treated and I'll treat you the same. Don't talk bad or gossip about other humans, particularly others in the hobby. This is a total turn off for me. Show up sober and showered. Be on time or let me know if you're going to be late or need to cancel. I understand life gets in the way sometimes.
Looks have nothing to do with it. Money has nothing to do with it. I don't sell my dignity and self respect and those things don't leave during a session. If I can't first be treated with respect, no amount of money or looks will get a meeting with me. I've never seen a gentleman so ugly I didn't want to see him. If you look at the beauty in each person, you'll see more beauty. A man who knows how to be a gentleman is more attractive than anyone else to me. I don't do anything I don't enjoy. If I'm turned off by you, I don't see you. I have a very rich gentleman on my "NO" list that contacts me almost every week, offering me more and more money to see him. Money is all he has to offer and he feels he's somehow more powerful, attractive and an exception to the rules for having it. He's confused to why I won't see him. I won't see him because money is all he has.
My favorites are pretty cool guys :
Well placed $0.02 . I think you are right on the dime.
I appreciate money/tips/etc, but what really makes someone my favorite is his character and personality, and the way we relate to each other. Is he kind to me? Is he intelligent? Is he a good conversationalist? Is he compassionate? Is he easygoing? Does he have a good sense of humor? Do I have fun when I'm with him?
(It goes without saying that he's clean, doesn't trample over my time and business, isn't rough or rude, etc.)
Some things that stress me out would be (not in any particular order): texting or emailing me to chat, not gracefully letting me leave when I start to make those 'getting ready to go' noises, forgetting that I have a personal life and trying to 'buy' me by pushing the limits of what I'm willing to offer (i.e. trying to convert me to a de-facto sugar baby).
I've known my favorites for quite some time. I trust them... they've been good to me over a period of years, and I know they don't want to date or marry me. They appreciate my service and company, and they show it by their behavior toward me (not necessarily money). For instance, I got the best relationship advice of my entire life from a 70-year-old client. He cared enough to say what he knew I needed to hear (it wasn't what I wanted to hear. But he was SO right I couldn't ignore him).
When someone tells me flat-out that he REALLY wants to be my favorite client, I always feel like he wants to wrangle some concessions out of me... timewise, or even emotionally. It comes across as presumptuous and/or manipulative, and can actually be kind of creepy.
If you look at the beauty in each person, you'll see more beauty.
especially from the ladies.
Muchas Gracias!!The $$ got you time with her...now what? Be yourself, be clean, be showered, be dressed nicely. Don't overdo the cologne (if in doubt, skip it). If there is conversation, be interested in her and her life. Don't judge, don't monopolize, don't brag. Know her boundaries, and respect them. Have a sense of humor.
Oh, and one last thing....if she allows it - good DATY FTW. LOL.