For those of you who have them, are you happy with the new additions? For those who don't have them, do you want them?
Though I don't have a vote in the matter, I think that you are all beautiful enough without having to go under the knife.
I am thrilled with mine. I love big tits and now I got them. Going topless at the beach and braless everywhere else is great. I hate bra by the way. They are so restricting. They are like a torture device. Getting them gave me a better self confidence and has made me more daring and adventuous. I would have never flashed anybody before but I like doing it and I feel so sexy now. It's amazing what plastic bags and saline can do for ya!
i'm not into the cookie cutter stripper look. plus i hear it's extremely painful to have done...
What's good if the ladies like their inplants and the men don't. After all, breasts are sex icon for men to appreciate, not ladies unless they only engage in masturbation.
This is the problem that many ladies do it for themselves without asking men's opinion. Women care more about the size of their breasts more than men the same way men care about the size of their penis. I like small and big breasts, even sagging ones, as long as they are natural. Inplants only look great to me but a turn off in bed when I touch them. When I screen my providers, my first criterion is to make sure they do not have inplants. I have stopped seeing a couple of my ATF because they upgraded their boops with silicon.
My body is ALL mine. While I may choose to share it with others on a temporary basis, it will *always* belong to me. I don't need men to validate my beauty. I know I'm beautiful. Really, I'm so sad for you thinking we must obtain approval and permission before altering our bodies. Please give women more respect than that.
I am totally expecting strong reactions from ladies when I posted my first response. Boobs are ladies sacred body part and they are none of men's business! True, but 99% of plastic surgeons are men who evaluate and operate on women. And what do you gain by improving your sex appeal if the men in bed don't like your upgrade? Actresses and celibrities who make their living by appearance don't care as they only need to look good on camera. Providers need to go to bed with men and if their clients don't like their touch, there will be negative impact in the biz. Wife and GF have to go to bed with their men too. If the upgrade only please them but not their men in bed, is it worth the cost?
Ok, I'm messing with you. I still like the fake ones too, but something happened recently that made me think (Hmmm....What a strange concept!!!!!)
I read a review for one of my favorite ladies and found that she had a brand new Boob Job. This girl had the firmest, most beautiful A cups, and in no way did she need fake ones. I can't imagine why she would do it.
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If I support a woman being responsible for her body, I have to suport her option to alter herself even in a situation like yours. However, I would have agreed with you. I had an ex-GF go from soft minorly sagging large B's/small C's to firm DD's, and it profoundly affected my physical appreciation of her body. I wish that small or "imperfect" (note the quotes...not my feelings) breasts were celebrated more in our culture.
I have never undertstood why changing shape in that area would make someone feel better about themselves. This isn't a criticism...I just have never understood it. If the woman is fairly healthy in the rest of her physical appearance, then this is her natural expression of her physical being. Again, I support a woman's right to alter it, but that natural expression of herself is unique and is formed from the basic material that gave her life. It would be like my lamenting that I am 5'7" instead of 6'2", or that I have a receding hairline instead of a full head of hair, or that I have chest hair instead of looking like The Governator. Sure, it would be nice, and it IS possible to do things like this, but I have always been at peace with me as me, warts and all, and have always felt that way about women I have known. This is how the universe made me, and the beauty of it is in loving my uniqueness and experiencing the appreciation that anyone else has for me. I know there is more pressure on women to look beautiful than men...I just wish our culture had broader definitons of what "beauty" is.
Check out the Sunday's Philadelphia Inquirer tomorrow, www.phillynews.com, (we received the session on Saturday), there is an article on teens breast implants. Thanks for TV plastic sugery shows, between 2002 and 2003, there was a jump from 3872 to 11,326 cases of breast implants for teens 18 and under. "It's a big boost to some girls' self esteem. It's becoming quite the graduation gift: It's cheaper than a car..." In 2004 alone, according to the article, 247,000 women got breast implants. A non-profit group has become so concerned about the trend that it created an info site for those who are contemplating implants.
Porn star and actresses are popularizing implants because they make their living by appearance. It makes sense for them because the benifit outweighs the risks in their profession. But I am sorry to see more providers getting implants today in the belief that they will get more clients. Wronnnnnnnnng! They will lose a substantial percentage of clients like myself who resent implants. Why do I have to spend high price to fondle a pair of perfect looking bowling balls?
but a culture's feelings and beliefs start with the individuals in that culture.With media telling all men and women that a skinny, blonde haired, blueeyed, fake DD boobed girl in tight, revealing clothing is the ONLY thing that is beautiful, it would take a lot of men such as yourself to start educating the masses otherwise. Yes, MSD, it really is too bad that our culture doesn't have a "broader" definition of beauty. Maybe, you'll start changing minds or opening eyes.....
I have breast implants and I'm verry happy with them. If, a lady wants them, then she should get them. She just needs to get a good DR. Very important! I have seen a lot of bad boob jobs and I'm very thankful, that mine look and feel natural. Most, of my guys can't tell a difference.
love to see you if you provide.
Neither have I, but I haven't felt 'em all. Ladies? Who's next?
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How much time do you spend "WATCHING" television as compared to turning the dials? A good boob job usually means "perfect" looking breasts that look great in (or out)of anything. Since men are "visual" in nature I fail to see why so much is made of enhanced breasts not feeling 100% natural. The time spent actually fondling and sucking on a womans breast during sex is probably 5 to 7 minutes(if that)The other 23.9 hours of the day is spent looking at how attractive the breasts appear in OR out of clothes.
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Not e girl says:
Most, of my guys can't tell a difference.
I beg to differ but most guys can tell the difference.
I'm interested in getting a referral to your very good doc...
IMO---I love women who have gone to the effort to get them. However, it's a rare find for me when I run into a pair that have been done to my "tastes". I have known two (4 ?) where they were executed very well---natural feeling--looking--very suckable.
Other's? Have met a few that think their "jobs" are just great--and IMO they weren't (were they validating their expenditure?)
Bottom line---I don't think that women get the male infatuation with breasts--I should'a be a plastic surgeon---I'd make 'em all "perfect"
There is the much louded and desired by many idea of implants for there is something of an objectification of that particular part of the ladies anatomy. If the lady chooses to do so for herself ultimatly that is her choice.
Next is the camp that says natural big or small again her choice.
Personaly I fall in a 3rd catagory that I do not think I have seen mentioned on the boards before. 9 yrs ago I could not buy a bra unless I had it custom made. I chose to change that thus now I have nice little perky boobs that are a border between c and d cups. That was after 2/3 of each was removed. Yes there was pain involved. Yes there is a small amount of scarring still though as of yet the hobbiests I have seen never said anything to me or in my reviews if he even noticed it in fact I think that is checked off as natural. The only other problem I have had is for a long time there was one area on my left breast where the skin was not sensitive to touch but as of late it is quite sensitive. Would I do it again? Most definatly yes. I am more comfortable, I can now buy clothes off the rack that actualy fit both in chest and shoulders etc including sexy lingere (believe me those custom made bras were not even close to attractive)
All in all as I stated in subject line ultimately it should be the individual ladies choice. If she is interested in either type of surgery I would recomend that she talk to as large a variety of other ladies whom have had such surgery first and investigate both the pro s and cons. Make sure you know all possible commplications etc. Then look inside herself and her reasons for wanting the surgery. Make sure of the decision one way or the other for what is best for the lady not what others think.
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women as well as for men.
Big mistake to think that women get boob jobs so that they can appeal more to men.
A lot of women get boob jobs because they did not have nurturing mothers, and are in a sense "mothering" themselves by having larger breasts. Nothing wrong at all with this. I say if a woman wants to get a boob job for herself for wahtever reason, it's her damn business, and no man's - including her SO.
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Some can be natural touching, but majority I experienced feel like rock or water filled plastic bags (saline) which are turn off to me. I heard that super nice boob job would cost 20 to 30 grants versus a few grants for the cheap job.
Also, I found that ladies who have inplants feel uncomfortable having their breasts squeezed, but natural breasts don't have the problem. I guess there must be sensitive feeling after the surgery.
I am a breast man who love to fondle and suck breasts. If a provider told me that her inplants can only be look at but limit my ability to fondle them, it's an unfullfilling session to me. Therefore, when I screen my providers, I'll make sure they do not have inplants not only because I hate their touch, but I don't want to be told off limit to fondling their breasts.
I feel the same way you do TG. I would be very disappointed if I couldn’t fondle and suck on a provider’s breasts.
I’m not against boob jobs, but I much prefer soft and pliable rather than rock hard breasts. Some women get implants that are way too big for their frames. They are easy to spot because the oversized implants stretch the skin taut creating well-defined lines. It doesn’t look or feel natural.
If women would consider going with smaller implants with the goal of firming up sagging breasts I personally think it would be much more appealing to hobbyists. Bigger is not always better. Every time I see inappropriate implants on an otherwise gorgeous woman, I just think to myself what a shame. I still appreciate her beauty, but she could be so much more perfect. The thing is, no one would ever tell her she made a mistake. I know I wouldn’t.
I agree I just wanted a bigger rack!!
Naughtiness
Kadi
My dear, you certainly succeeded at that!
would you still get an enhancement? Would there be a point?
If you were alone in the world, no, you wouldn't care about your appearance at all.
Like it or not, genetics and our culture condition men and women to try to look attractive to the other sex.
There are tribes in Africe where women put these ugly plates in their lips to elongate their lower lips to attract husbands. I bet those ladies think they look hot (I'm serious!)
In America, men and women of course don't like lip plates, but we're conditioned to think "attractive" women have a pretty face, weight-proportional figure, and breasts big enough to put your hands around.
I love my implants--it was a great decision for me. Now I fill out my bikini, and when I take my clothes off I get admiring looks and comments from the guys. Yes, they're a bit more firm than they used to be, but I'd never go back.
I was worried where you were heading with this until I read
your fourth sentence.
Just what we didn't need...another acronym LPBJ
Cheers!
So can fake tits in America. I say if some form of enhancement works for both parties (in both countries), then don't knock it. Those in other countries may be thinking the same about us western women: oversized boobs=small brains.
Large/small/not at all....a woman is much more then the size of her tits.
I've known large busted woman that were not worth a d**n in bed and woman that were flat as a bean pole that would rock my world and everything in it!
The sum total of a woman is more what is behind the breast and between the ears.....not found elsewhere. It is her heart/soul and her mind....and her ability to use her mind to present her mate with the total package that makes her HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
If a woman chooses to have an augmentation...that is her decision...but I hope she did not do it thinking that it would make her more/less attractive to me. I enjoy all woman....just wish that I could really 'enjoy' them all.........grin......
Ladies, your thoughts on this??????
I'm a big breast person, i love boobs...lol Although i think some woman look great with their inhancements, I often think about having mine done. Not so much to have them enlarged but to have them a little firmer. So yes i often think about it but then again I really dont get any complaints about my breasts, which makes me feel pretty good.
To me your unaltered natural breasts are a work of art. You already have a Breast Appearance profile of “Super Nice” w/o implants. When your breast profile gets to droopy then maybe you might consider enhancements. Until then, allow us to enjoy them in their all-natural form. Pretty please with sugar on top?