Hello Guys,
I have noticed that the White Lists are looking very empty..
... Just wanted to point out that it makes screening sooooo much quicker when you are collecting your stripes.. Pls ask your Providers to submit Okays; that way I don't have to chase them for referrals, esp when they don't don't play well with others

Friendly reminder to use your Tool.  
Oh, and Happy Thanksgiving!
Alyssa xox

Dang it! and here I thought there would be some tips to improve the performance of my Anaconda... LOL

I also blocked out my whitelist a few years ago.  And stopped writing reviews as well.

Some guys like to have that shown...others like to keep this to themselves.

Sorry that the gals are giving you a hard time on those referrals....but that is one of the reasons I won't publish who I've seen.  Not interested in the drama amongst some of the gals....and even worse, some of the guys  LOL

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and by the new rules on P411 you have to actually ask her to "okay" you before she is allowed to do so.

Guys, don't be bashful about asking for okays, you are actually doing the lady a favor by doing so.

That said, I only ask about one lady a month for an okay. I really don't want hundreds of okays, ten a year or so is enough to make the new ladies I book with feel comfortable in seeing me. I usually pick my favorite new girl that I have seen each month and ask her, and only her for an okay.

I wouldn't have even known about the new rules until I got a couple of messages from Gina alerting me that a provider I had seen wanted to give me an okay, but that because of the new rules she had to wait until I asked. Until then, I think I too had a pretty big gap between okays, not a year, but a good six months.

I think okays are similar to reviews, one a month shows you are active and most likely "safe" one every other day makes you look like a "man whore" not that I am not, but I don't need to look like the P411 version of BeefEater. There are downsides to having too many okays IMO, dozens are great, several hundred or more, not so much. lol

Don't be such an apologist, if you overstep you'll know it, either explicitly or implicitly via no response. That said, I wouldn't ask anyone I haven't seen within the past three months for a reference.

but I just went there and checked my OKs, only to find the last one was over a year old and she's delisted. Better ask for some new ones.

Yes!! That's how I keep having a featured ad. Otherwise it would cost $75. Gentlemen please don't be scared to ask for ok's. I'm also reference friendly ladies!

I'll scratch yours. And you get even more points if you've seen them and give them an ok with the invite.

If you haven't seen them, you can't ok them. If you do, you get kicked off.

Gina is pretty strict, which is a good thing IMO.

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Vocabulary. Also apologetic speaking.

It's one thing to be nice, another thing to be overtly humble. People follow confidence. Constant apologies show weakness.

Much of our strength here in the US is our words more than our size and fists. (And def not dick size lol.)

Rod has a lot of good things to say. I think people may, over time, give him more credit if he eliminates vocab words tht show weakness, and also continually respects.

Another thing I suggest is to not feel the need to owe everyone an explanation. After two posts back and forth, keep it to one sentence and some sarcasm

See that's the thing about reviews. A thousand women really isn't that many, but a thousand reviews??? That is a huge number and makes you worth going after, it also puts off a lot of women who ironically have most likely fucked several thousand different guys in their lives.

Isn't hypocrisy hilarious???

Cossette is another that comes to mind, along with Scoed. All of you had rough starts, but Turdy is unique in the fact that although he is still here, he hasn't appeared to have learned a single thing about how things work here, and it is looking VERY unlikely that he ever will.

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Someone told me he's back in the game.  I don't recall who, or what site he was on but that he was doing the same old shit.

Rod has been given advice here by many.  Problem is, he seems incapable of taking any.

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still had time to eat or sleep.
Beyond that, the problem I had with BE500 was he was basically selling reviews for either free or heavily discounted pussy.

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Maybe a couple a week, which is about the number of new women that I see, and I manage, like you, to make well over a hundred posts on the average week, which has to take at least as much time to do as writing a couple of reviews.

That said, I have to agree that it appeared that getting the BE500 "seal of approval" was paid for one way or another.