I have seen a provider semi-regularly who offers me DATY. Although I find the offer extremely enticing & I enjoy DATY immensely, I prefer to abstain in the provider/hobby relationship.
How do you say "no thanks" without coming off rude? I don't want to appear unappreciative or give her the impression I find her or the act unappealing -- finding the right words is just a bit awkward for me. Thanks
I have seen a provider semi-regularly who offers me DATY. Although I find the offer extremely enticing & I enjoy DATY immensely, I prefer to abstain in the provider/hobby relationship.
How do you say "no thanks" without coming off rude? I don't want to appear unappreciative or give her the impression I find her or the act unappealing -- finding the right words is just a bit awkward for me.
As long as you do not say anything about it, she will not know -- and that will be an obstacle to you receiving the best experience you can from her. Remember, we are here to make sure that happens!
My underwear has never come off. His choice, he just wanted to do other stuff. I wouldn't take it personally if someone didn't want to go down on me, trust me, I have a long list that only want to go down on me. LOL! So it all balances out I guess. I don't understand the providers that follow a script or require certain activities, it's his time that he paid for, use it how he wants. But if you just want to stick it in without any foreplay, not even touching, kissing, and rubbing, then ouch, need the lube. LOL
Saw a George Clooney movie The American that had a similar scene with him and an Italian prostitute who wanted him to DATY. He said something like, "I pay to get pleasure, not to give it." Of course they fall in love and the movie kinda sucked, but ...
Posted By: sfpearldiver
I have seen a provider semi-regularly who offers me DATY. Although I find the offer extremely enticing & I enjoy DATY immensely, I prefer to abstain in the provider/hobby relationship.
How do you say "no thanks" without coming off rude? I don't want to appear unappreciative or give her the impression I find her or the act unappealing -- finding the right words is just a bit awkward for me.
....well even though I love good DATY if the guy doesn't want to do it I won't bug him about it and respect his wishes. Just like even though I prefer to give bbbj I will give a cbj if he requests it. I won't fuss about his preferences.
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