The lady of my dreams in every aspect of appearance, body build, etc, totally surpasses any woman I have ever seen in person or photo's. Many many high def photos show this. She is on a short trip from the opposite coast.

I generally spend between $550 to $650 for 90 minutes. Her rates start at $1,200 for 120 minutes. I'm good for one shot these days.  

If I do this I figure it means I'm an addict and am disappearing down the rabbit hole. If I do not do this I figure I will regret it 4ever.  

What say you, comrades and lassies?

I will not bite you I promise.

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You say you're good for "one shot".  So you really can't think of what to do with 2 hours? Take a bath together. Rub each other with lotion/oil/ whipped cream/ whatever. Share a bottle of wine. Spend a half hour of goal free stimulation to the sensitive areas. Take a tantra class and learn some technique. A yoni massage can last 45 minutes and is a journey for both partners. Experience "edging". Wow. So much to do, so much to learn, so much unexplored inner galaxy.  

I've paid $400/hr and I have paid $1000/hr and everything in-between.
Doesn't matter to me as long as it's within my budget and I want to be with her.
The money alone doesn't determine if you are an addict. It's a part of it, but not the only factor.

Definitely not.

I have a very broad physical appearance preference doorway.  I put more importance on personality, attitude, honesty, cleanliness, and a genuine tangible enjoyment of sex as the most important criteria.  

There are soooo many lovely ladies who check my boxes, I would never pay "double" based on physical appearance.  I would rather see a favorite friend at the "regular" rate and give her a VERY nice gift, instead.

I doubt very seriously you will regret skiping the lady you are referring to beyond your next excellent date.  

With all that said, make yourself happy.  Whatever that means to you, go for it!

PEACE!!!

it will be worth it. Attraction/physical appearance is only half of the whole experience.

It's not really much more than what you're already paying so... go for it.

I would never think it's worth $1,200 but it's your money and if this is your life dream maybe it's worth that much to you. So have at it rather than regret it 4ever

Really well said young lady.

If it's some kind of a fantasy dream, go for it. I just hope she looks as good in person.

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I know some absolutely stunning providers who also have the non-physical attributes I appreciate, and at very reasonable rates. There is one provider who lives 1000 miles from me whose rate is about 25% more than what I normally pay for a "10" provider, but if she ever visits my area or I visit hers I'll gladly pay that extra as I think she has the most perfect body I've ever seen. Yeah, shallow I know, but you only go around once in life.

I know a guy who pays his ex wife $12,000 a month in alimony and she's pushing 60 and they haven't had sex in 10 years.  Uhh.. Pay the tariff and enjoy yourself (DUHH).

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But I am just your run-of-the-mill lady monger

But I'm not you! What difference does it make what I would do?  
If you can afford it and if you think you will regret not doing it, then go for it.

Good luck finding the "girl of my dreams" providing when she could make much more as a trophy wife of some old rich dude.

I'd say that answers the question.

Doing something special for yourself doesn't mean you are an addict.

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TS is not a lady unless he's fully transformed and has "it" inside out...

doesn't mean your a bad person, right?   lol

If you have the $$$$, why not. If you don't have the money, why not? Perhaps you'd rather buy new tires.

I just met two bucket list ladies with much higher rates than I ever spent in my 10 years. Not $1k, but now I'm  
in lust for the last time

It's all in the heart and mind, isn't it?

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C'mon dude, we're not talking $1 million Indecent Proposal territory! Twelve hundred is peanuts for a "once in a lifetime" - I could've afforded that from flipping burgers back in high school.  

The real danger you face is being disappointed by your outsized expectations. Beware.

Exactly. My worst disappointments were finding out that the 1K+ girls were no prettier or better in bed than the "going rate" girls of 3-500. Still, as long as you can afford it you should try it and see for yourself.

She would be at the top of my "Bucket List".  Can't figure it out but she drives me crazy. Yes, I would pay whatever she wanted.

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I'd happily pay 1.2k or more for a date with my dream girl from the opposite coast, but 2 hours would go by in a flash.
I would want to spend more time just chilling and getting to know her.

and then the crash, then searching for the next wave.......

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but I don't drool over pictures of the "perfect body" either, nor do I believe that great pics deserve double the donation, but that's just me.  

I will say that "regretting forever" a decision not to book a hooker is not something I can even in the least bit find myself relating to, but once again, that's just me, and $1,200 is hardly a fortune. I will say that having to ask the board for permission, or at least for our opinions, is a sign the OP knows the folly in what he is doing, "chasing the dragon" so to speak, but it's not like blowing twelve hundred bucks for someone who is unlikely to meet his overblown expectations is going to ruin his life. I do predict he is going to feel just a wee bit foolish when reality fails to equal the fantasy of just how great this woman is going to be.

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You're looking to fulfill a bucket list item and have a unique experience. If you keep trying to recreate that experience with every subsequent P4P encounter, then you have a problem.

I would pay a lot more to be with MS TER AUG 2015. Probably pay more even if she did not win.  She just has that "look" I could not resist.

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Dreams do come true - how about putting your money where your mouth is?

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Depends on your definition of a lady. Many things can mean one is not a lady...for example, saying stupid shit just to be hurtful.