Do providers really use a blacklist or is this just escort internet lore?

a DNS list, and often network their list with other providers.  Several ways to get on a list.  The most common are:

Of course there is a blacklist, besides the NBL, and personal DNS lists, there are loads of other ways the girls communicate with each other about bad actors, guys want BBFSCIP and who want to pay with milk and diapers instead of cold hard cash. But there is no way they are going to tell you all their secrets.

The blacklists have helped me avoid at least 3 situations in which my life might've been legitimately at risk had I not used them. So I swear by it! There's too many crazy people with bad intentions out there.

If you think Providers don't talk amongst themselves you're sadly mistaken.  
I have blocked and blacklisted quite a few folks, but the ones who really piss me  
off I tend to share their info amongst other providers. And if I'm really heated, I will
take the time out of my schedule to alert the every provider in the state and the surrounding ones too.  

As to a  provider black list,  
my favorite philosophy is:
If I  haven't been told, then it's none of my  business.

"If you don't know by now ... don't mess with it!"

You can be smart, but not necessarily knowledgeable. Many people impute knowledge to those who are intelligent.  Not always true.  Wisdom, on the other hand, comes with age and experience.  Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit, not a vegetable.  Wisdom is knowing not to put it in your fruit salad.  

There are a couple more that are somewhat more reputable than the NBL, though they also pick up tainted listings from it.  Black lists do perform a legitimate function, but like much else in this world they are badly misused.  To me, the only reason to put a guy on a black list is if he robs, refuses to pay, assaults, stalks or harasses girls.  Black listing for time wasters or poor hygiene is bullshit, especially if real, personal information is revealed.  These latter transgressions are what DNS lists are for. But many girls don't know the difference.

You say ladies talk amongst themselves.  Maybe this explains why I keep getting random text from established ladies telling me that they are coming to my town and asking me if I would like to meet with them.  I was aware of the said ladies/lady but never contacted them and I wondered how they got my number.  Maybe another provider had shared my number and  info with them.

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Have abused it's use, both ladies and believe it or not guys have put others guys on there, like there's some Guido grease ball bullshit going on.They'll take their beef to that level. Oh,and I'm listed on the NBL...It hasn't hurt me, so fuck her ass.

They don't want either one.  When its anatomical, one is preferred, the other is not, but most providers will make do.

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I doubt it... Most ladies are stingy with their gentlemen

why don't you ask them?

I stand by what I wrote.  Black lists are the ultimate sanction and should be used only for the most severe crimes.  Perhaps if you learned to screen better you wouldn't be plagued by "habitual time wasters, NCNS and last-minute cancellers."  Or maybe you have this problem when your dates look up your posting history here and see what a BSC, aging, angry creature you are.
And where exactly in my post did I "pretend" like I "live in our world?"
Sounds like you've been taking too many steroids again.
Nice marketing though.  Now all the guys know you abuse the black lists.  No doubt they will be beating a path AWAY from your door.

And to the shock of absolutely no one, JLS chimes in with her anti-male and angry response.

...threatening to write a bad review if the provider doesn't do something nasty you want, e.g. bbfs, is another good way to get your ticket to the BL.

I don't live in your world, but I do live in a world where providers NCNS me, string me along, and waste my time. I have a solution, which is not to contact them again. I don't go around town blabbing about them.

Safety is always the first rule. If anyone fucks with your time and money, a provider can and should rightfully blacklist. Always remember that there's always more clients coming her way. Providers: stay positive and keep your head held high and the right kind of clients will come. Clients: be a true gentleman and a class act. We always appreciate meeting the good guys in this business! Bad boys go to clubs, drop ridiculous cash on bottle service and go home with their dicks in their hands. Blacklisted boys just probably can never get laid EVER since they fucked over a sure thing.  

Uwhy are you asking?! Are tou worried that you are blacklisted for a reason?!  
As long as you behave like a truly gentleman, you shouldn't haveto worey.

I'm just sayin'

You are the Cheetah of hookers! LOL

Your first two paragraphs are completely at odds with what you said in your first response to me.
Your third paragraph is totally without any basis, as I never said I had a problem with women cancelling on me.  That has almost never happened. Where in the world did you conjure that one up?
Your fourth paragraph is the funniest of all.  I never said hookers shouldn't talk among themselves about guys who have issues that don't rise to the level of a BL.  If you think I said anything like that, you have a serious problem with reading comprehension.
So let me say it again: Black Lists should only be used for the serious offenses I listed in my OP.  For lesser offenses like NCNS, bad hygiene, etc., there are other means like a DNS list and back channel.
Get it now?
I remain skeptical.

You have also proven, without a doubt, you have severe reading comprehension issues.
Congrats.

An extensive one at that!

I thought it was a fashion, or perhaps fashion and hygiene, issue...

While I agree that is quite deserving of inclusion on a BL is it really something different from Abusive?

Yes. Abusive is something like ghetto gagging a provider for an entire 90 minute date, or some other physically or psychologically abhorrent behavior IMO.  

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This is a tough business. I might be in the scrub class but I think I've been around long enough say everyone gets cancelled on. I don't bother with a deposit. If I'm in a good mood and the dude has a good excuse, he might get a chance but for the most part, I keep it busy and stay open for a real good client to land on my pretty little lap and forget about the jerk of the week.  

Or is it all a troll act?

Yes, there's several "blacklisting" sites that do exist and many providers utilize these sites. I only use them as part of my screening process. I personally have never had to blacklist anyone (thank God). LOL.

Exactly!!!

And you are on all the reputable ones, under your various names.

I don't think Julia/Corrine/GallopingGourmet is stupid, nor do I believe she has reading comprehension issues. I think she has honesty issues.

Now that we have that out in the open, I guess other business people who have clients that flake out on them should attempt to ruin their flaky customers lives too.

if there's a NCNC as long as the person take care of the cancelation fee... it should not be an issue and should not be on that list

When you get cancelled on, it's only your orgasm that is lost. When we get canceled on, for some of us it is taking away from our children financially.  That is a huge difference.