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Third time NOT the charm
squatdog 3 Reviews 4545 reads
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After two wonderful experiences with the same provider, I was pretty much ripped off on experience number three. Have others had this experience? And should I post another review that contradicts my original positive one?

Everyone can have a bad day, and you have a history of wonderful experiences.  I'd give her a chance, unless you are so mad you never want to see her again.  By the way, what do you mean by "pretty much ripped off"?  what happened?

Malcolm SEX2439 reads

Why don't he just empty his bank account and hand it all to her?

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

Did she even offer to "make it up to him"?

Why should he have to make the effort. It is her business and her reputation. Why does it always fall on the guy to make thinkgs right?

Post the review.

BILL183562229 reads

I seriously doubt a good provider would want to rip off a regular.

Hmmm... ripped you off? Well, I went out once with a provider off the clock and then paid for a two hour session to follow. Problem: We had too good a time and let's say our normal routine was not achieved. Did I feel ripped off? No, but she wanted more because I spent a couple of hours past our agreed time (no activity). So needless to say, she and I don't hang out any more. Familiarity can and often does breed contempt and shit happens. Try for a patch up, but if she doesn't meet you half way, say next.

CelticLass2951 reads

Questions: How is it you got ripped off? You seem pretty vague on this statement. It is hard to make a blanket determination when all we get from this post is  

""After two wonderful experiences with the same provider, I was pretty much ripped off on experience number three.""

DId she take your money and not deliver what she advertises? Did she get a deposit and not show up? Did she talk the whole time???? There has to be a bit more information before anyone cn give you a fair and well thought out answer.

Now the 1 Answer:

If she did any of the above than yes absolutely you should review her again. You should REVIEW THE EXPERIENCE. Let the guys know that this was the 3rd time you saw her and it was below par to your other experiences. That way the guys can read, let their big heads kick into overdrive, and make a somewhat informed desicion on their own.

The Scolding:

The next time you have a bad experience with someone you have seen before, be an adult and call her on it at the time. There may be a very good reason it didn't go well and either one of you could be to blame. I am all for getting feedback from the board, but at least let her explain her side and go from there. It saves a lot of trouble and heartache at the end.

:)

Why is it so many guys can't/won't be an adult and talk about a problem with the lady in question. I've seen this type of rant on the boards alot, even been on the wrong end of it, where the guys has some problem (real or imagined) and instead of talking to the lady involved they immediately run to the board to cry about their experience. If there are is a history of wonderful experiences and good reviews then the benefit of the doubt is ALWAYS in order. I'm begining to recognize just who the wise posters are on this board. I appreciate your insight CL

Re all the questions on what specifically happened when I said I felt "pretty much ripped off." My first two experiences with said provider were wonderful GFE experiences consisting of DFK, DATY, BBBJ and FS in a variety of positions. Multiple pops the second time and probably would have the first time as well but I wasn't  up to it.

Time number three consisted of rushed BBBJ while half clothed. At the time, I didn't object too strenuosly since I considered this a warm-up to the rest of the hour. After the BBBJ, she excused herself to the bathroom and--to my surprise--came out fully dressed a few minutes later. She was ready to go after 15 minutes.

And yes, I did protest. I told her this wasn't right and that repeat business didn't seem to matter to her--both at this moment as in the future. All I got back was a "sorry and there is someone waiting for me in the car." I told her this was just really "crummy" and if she couldn't spend the time with me she should have told me up front.

I had left her donation in an envelope on the desk (three bills) and said "there's your donation, see you." I didn't see the point in making more of a stink by trying to negotiate.

And, oh yes, she was two hours late. She had actually been late before, but never to that degree.

Whether this constitutes the definition of "pretty much ripped off" or not is probably a matter of opinion. But it certainly described how I felt.

Based on the fact that our second time together was one of my best experiences ever with a provider, I actually was expecting to write another review in which I upgraded my original ratings and comments.

Maybe, your rave review of that provider made her extremely busy, and you experienced a bi-product of that. I've had a similar situation in the past and I am now hesitent to submit rave reviews...

Chill out and move on.

BILL183562869 reads

and that was her answer to your protest. Please write a new review. You were ripped off, Please PM me with name, I never want to see this bitch

CelticLass3063 reads

write another review that you were ripped off. 15 minutes is NOT a full hour, I don't care what time zone you are livin in.

Late, services NOT rendered and "someone is waiting for me" is not an excuse. AT that point I would have paid for the 15 minutes and called it a day.

Write your review based on this experience. She should have canceled and set some time for another day. All she has done is made herself look bad.

I hope you didn't think my post was too bitchy. With the facts as you have stated them I now understand why you felt ripped off, because I am sorry to say....You Were..:(

~V

coolchilad2462 reads

I used to see some provider very often but noticed that the Quality of her service and attitude had significantly deteriorated after, maybe, my forth visit. She avoided DFK with me by all means, wanted me to finish as quickly as possible, stood up and started cleaning shit in the room as soon as I was done and never came back to the bed. I am like "hello..? do you see me?". I talked to her about it and gave her a chance but the attitude got actually worse. Obviously, I do not see her anymore.

Yes, we should submit a revied review when things like this surface. I am going to do that for this particular provider soon.

It could be argued that a review is a description of what the average hobbyist might expect during a first date with an escort. Under that assumption, your third date with the escort in question may not have any relevance (at least to the average hobbyist - to you it was very relevant and I sympathize with you.)

And yes, this happened to me once. Like Celtic Lass suggested, ask her about it. Or just move on.

horny242534 reads

and is planning on seeing her again. Perhaps she's gotten tired of the business and the only thing that's keeping her in it is just the money. If I have seen her before, I certainly would want to read the second review by this gentleman.

You saw the same lady more than once? Whatever for? Have you been through all of them already?

Who's in line? Are they cute? Do they travel? Do any of them know I'm totally bald? Most think I'm kidding about that... but then I show up... and they all have that look... you know, the look that says "Ewwww! He wasn't kidding about that whole bald thing..."

During my first two meetings with the lady, I saw that she was rough around the edges but ignored that in favor of the positive. The third visit left me not wanting to ever see her again anywhere. One lesson that I learned over again is to go with my gut. If there are a couple of negatives, do not ignore them.


They won't spring the rip off until the second or third session.

Review it that way if you are certain it was her intention to rip you off, and not just a bad day.  A bad day is not a rip off.

horny241513 reads

you another day. Not giving a full hour when one pays for it is not a bad day; it borders on a rip-off.

-- Modified on 8/8/2005 10:39:33 PM

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