Over the years many of the gals that I've befriended have lamented the various gifts some of YOU dudes (aka mangina...err gentlemen callers) have given my gal pals.

At one session I was asked if I was going to watch the game. I said I'm not into following football nor do I own a TV. She invited me over to watch it on hers. I arrived with a 12 pack and she reciprocated by picking up the tab for the pizza. So that was kind of a gift and a regift. But I'm sure if you grill her she'll tell you all about it. I'm still not a football fan, but it was a nice time.

Never even opened in many cases. These gals always watching their weight.  

The best gift IMO is a book. Those I always enjoy and rarely ever return/regift....

Fucker..... Its Fannie Mae.. Yes I am a little PUI -e-

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I can't fathom the psychology behind gifting a mistress weather she be a stripper, provider, or civilian.  

Mostly it is candies the gal doesn't want on account of trying to control their weight.

So guys, if it's all the same to you:  Chocolate covered cherries and please no caramels.

Question is which do you enjoy most, the liquid or cream filled centers?

Do you feel  foolish exiting the hotel with all the flowers the dumbasses leave?

...providers?  The ones you befriend are "gals" but the others are just "hookers," right?

Is there a better way to make a buck?  

I guess you've not gotten any regifts....is that about right?

...GaG.  It's a good technique - refer to "a few (non-existent) gal pals that know (me)" without mentioning their names.  Never let facts stand in the way of spreading rumors.

And a guy who brags about accepting regifts as well as negotiating a provider's fee is the epitome of cheap.

Guys I have seen and have proven to be really good guys are clients,  the rest are johns or tricks.

Many of those gal pals of mine just like to chat...break bread and have fun with dudes like me, GaG, Nick, Pan, DA, JackDunphy to just name a few.

It's the dudes that seem to not get what this gig is about have the hardest time accepting that "we" are just people.

Gonna seem kinda weird though, but I'm sure she'll understand and appreciate that she won't have to change the engraving before regifting.  So congrats!  And no need to thank me with a personalized email; laughing at your original post was enough.

I would appreciate that  

We get rid of one Fidiot and five more pop up in his place.  (Or have we?)

...takes pride in getting so close to providers that they become 'gal pals' which makes him a mangina, as in - "They like me, they really like me!"  You still keep guys at arm's-length by calling them 'clients.'

First off maybe you can name names?  Who are the "we" got rid of Fidiot?  Are you suggesting that you somehow got him banned?  Talk about a ego!  LOL

You also need to make up your mind.  On one hand you berate me for using terms of degradation and allude to being a misogynist.  Now here you do a complete 180 and suggest I'm a mangina.

Donkeys ears I went home with a bonsai the lady didn't want. But that was years ago. A new pastime for me. The tree eventually died. I was going to bury it, but...you know...it was just a tree. A dead little tree. Which reminds of other pertinent musings I  could ramble on about in whimsical digression, but I won't. I'll just ask if you ever in your life had a gal pal who wasn't a "hooker" as you say. I know I have. They're old now, and no longer so exciting. Ailments and pans. Need things done for them. Rides to and from hospitals. Thank God for the 10 or 12 years He gives a few women each generation. Ever had anybody like that in your life? Just wondering. Bet a lot of the guys here missed that aspect of life completely. Wives don't count.

You've professed to know posters here.  Guess you really have no idea what the person behind the post is really all about.

Some guys have great taste and others well it is the thought that counts but you won't see me wearing any of it.  To be perfectly frank, I would prefer a tip if they are going to buy shit I can't use or wear. I think the gifts seem way more personal and more girlfriendish to them but they have no idea of my style.  

Funny as hell...

Steph

More like insulted that you would think any of us are dumb enough to believe your BS.  Sure re-gifting happens and not just in Hobbyland.  Its still considered cheap, but has become slightly more acceptable.  Your post makes it seem like you and your "gal pals" somehow own the concept.  

...if after all the gifts we hobbyists have given to providers, how many ever reciprocated and gave us a gift in return.

One provider I saw a few years ago opened her fridge and offered me a drink and it was jam packed with beer, wine, wine coolers, etc.  there was also a shelf with a full bar with everything from a dozen types of vodka to whiskey, gin, scotch, etc, etc.  when I remarked upon it, she said: I don't drink, this is all gifts from guys.  Take anything you want, I need more room anyway.  I left with a smile, a great session under my belt and a Bottle of Johhny Walker Blue Label.

If I bring a gift, it's only alcohol to share. If she doesn't imbibe, then I'm happy to finish it off myself during the date!

Of course I'm not bitter he says before banging out a 6 para screed in retort. Too funny.  

I was replying to a four paragraph post and added commentary.  I get that you lack the ability to process more than two or three words at a time, but do try to keep up there, honcho.

Ok, will do. Thanks for the help. You're always top notch in that regard. Thanks again!