This is half comment, half survey.  And, I'm not naming any handles or stage names.  But it seems to me there are a fair number of girls in this business who've never done an MFM but have dirty thoughts about it and would love to do it with the right partners.
And when I write it as MFM I mean it as it's fully defined: no sword crossing at all.  I've done it once with a very hot girl and a friend, to fulfill her dream.  She seemed to love it.  I did a brief MFFM with the same dude until his other "date" made a late arrival.
I'm aware of another insanely hot gal from Texas who says she wants the same treatment.  And I just agreed to another such scene with a third girl. I'm not sure I'm all that wild about it because, even if no swords cross, having another hard dick in the room can be, well, distracting to say the least.
So I'm interested to hear from both sexes about whether you've done it, whether or not it appeals to you and if I'm right that more than a few gals have dirty dreams about an MFM.
PS: I'm not interested in hearing about "doubles" with one guy and two girls.  I've done lots of those (one with two Ticas for $80 each) and I get the appeal of that for the guy.  I'm more interested here in how many gals want a true MFM

And of course have fulfil many of my fantasies!! I even did a MFMFF!!

Two friends of mine who were still in college, I had already graduated, were friends with a gal whom we referred to as a "door knob". Door Knob because she was loose and everyone who came in her path got a turn.  

it would have to be MY fantasy, and my fantasy having 2 men would be that they are there for ME, it would have to be MY fantasy.

It would be 2 men "pleasuring" me, not the other way around.

Steph

I've never done a MFM date, but with the right two studs, I would absolutely enjoy!!!!
Recently one of my regulars mentioned his cuckold fantasy and wanting to watch another man have at his woman.  I was considering finding just the right man and inviting him to come fuck me while my client watched.  I know many of the men here would be like, WTF he's paying for someone to get laid while he has to watch, but it's his desire not mine.  So, yes, I would do that FOR him.
 

Count me in for it. I've done many MFMs in real life with lifestyle friends, but none as Sarah. It would be a fab experience, I'm sure!!  

I have zero sexual desire to do a MFM but how that has ANYTHING to do with homophobia is beyond me.

I'm trying to stretch my limits a bit, though I'll never have gay sex or go with a TS.  I did do an experiment in Costa Rica to try fucking while drunk (though not "Leaving Las Vegas" drunk, LOL!).  The girls down there are so cheap, I figured,  "So what if it doesn't work for me, I'm only out $100?"  And it was fine, through I don't make a habit of it.
This will be a more expensive "test," but I've wanted to be with this girl for a while and my buddy says she's incredible.

But my fantasy is mine and that's all Ill say, ok?

Sorry dude... Couldn't resist a jab at you..

MFM!! I am one that loves DP and I also like the feeling of somewhat being dominated by two cocks (or more lol)at one time. It's truly a unique experience like no other IMO
Hugs and kisses
TL

Well honestly from my experience most guys that won't do MFM are homophobic. Some guys are just into one one one.

... but that doesn't mean I lack morals.

I've had some MFM experiences although it was in a BDSM scene.  

Posted By: terrilynn

MFM!! I am one that loves DP and I also like the feeling of somewhat being dominated by two cocks (or more lol)at one time. It's truly a unique experience like no other IMO  
 Hugs and kisses  
 TL

she called me up one day and said that Waldo (or whatever his name was) wants to do a threesome.  I said thanks, but I really like you and I want to make affectionate love, not be in a circus act so Waldo can finally get laid.  In those days I had no negotiating savvy, was just speaking my mind.  Well, Waldo got waylaid and I ended up with a girlfriend.

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Why cant it be just as simple as a sexual turn off or if not that, just no interest in it? I don't see where "fear of homosexuals" plays a part here.  

I am far from a homophobe, but I too have the rule "only one hairy ass in the bed" lol. Having another naked man in the room for me is a giant turnoff to me. It's not homophobic, it's just the way I am wired. I can no more enjoy sex with another man in the bed than a gay guy can enjoy sex with a woman.

Not wanting to have another hard cock in the room is simply a matter of sexual preference.  It says nothing about what one's attitude about gays is, let alone that you hate or fear them.
I'll do an MFM if the lady likes it but won't do gay sex.  It just doesn't appeal to me.  That doesn't make me a homophobe.

Well I'm just speaking from my experience (which is what I said lol

one has to be a man and one has to be a dick?

But that is quite possible with the right men, Steph.  My friend and I did our MFM as a gift to the young lady and while we certainly wanted to have our fun it was at least as much about "pleasuring" her.  I believe we "pleasured" her into several orgasms.  Then we took her to dinner at a fancy club where she devoured a thick, juicy steak to top of all the tube steak she had earlier in the evening.

I want one man who has a dick, not one man who is a dick.

Bring it!  You're there for the lady!  I've done MFM with my wife many times and she loves it.  I don't care how good you think you are in bed, one man will never satisfy a woman the way two guys can.  Do swords bump occasionally?  Sure!  When she's sucking on both of them at the same time or we're giving her a DVP.   If you're worried about the other guy during a MFM then you're doing something wrong.

your you know what.  LOL

If not...aren't they eunichs?

So to answer your question... No, I've never done it and do not have any desire to... to tell you the truth... I'm kind of selfish and want 100% of the gal's attention on me.

Will this one do?

The word homophobic wasn't used but it was implied. I am speaking FROM MY EXPERIENCES. I have done MFMs since I was in my 20s n I can tell you that A LOT of guys are afraid of sword crossing because n I quote "I'm not gay" so yes there are guys out there that are homophobic.

Is he falling down on the job of scouring for men to post on the board?

dozen guy's jacking into her mouth? Unless their being paid to make a video, I don't see the attraction for standing around with 11 other guys jacking. Not homophobic, just don't see the attraction.

I couldn't ever imagine you in a MFM lol you may be a whore but I couldn't see you sharing the hole lol
The Slut

DP definitely takes a lady that loves anal unless is DP in the pussy.

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It's sheer ecstasy, multiple hands and lips and the frenzied stimulation. I'll take it!  

Fist you, micturate on you and make you wear a ball gag while I do it all. Not interested?  Gee what kind of weird phobia do you have?

We all have experiences but extending from that very limited view of the world to any meaningful observation is usually a futile task.  I've done some doubles with ladies who weren't really into it. Does that mean they were homophobic or just didn't get hot for the taste of pussy?  I'm willing to give them the benefit of the doubt rather than to presume a phobia.

ukkake

with a woman who was truly into it. Haven't yet had an invitation, and I would jump at the opportunity. What a great way to push some of my own limits and gain new experiences, and help someone else do the same?  

I don't really even like threesomes where the ladies are "too" into each other. Pig that I am, I want them to be into ME, not each other. If I wanted to simply watch a lesbian show, porn is free. lol

I'd also do it with 2 hobbiests as well.  

In other words, why wouldn't you be proactive and seek it out if the idea excites you?

Lol the words "I'm not gay!" is more than an assumption.

My girls in a threesome could NEVER be TOO into each other. They haven't received that complaint from me yet. Lol

I agree

Just do it

What I am is selfish, and I don't like being a third wheel, which can happen when the ladies are only "bi for pay" and are actually only into each other, but allow a man into their bed if he pays enough.

As I said "I am selfish" and I want nothing less than to be the center of attention during sex, whether that be with one, two, or three different women. Well I will confess, I did once do a foursome with one straight girl, one bi curious and one flat out lesbo. The bi curious girl was a bartender I was dating, the straight girl was a pro, hired for the occasion, and the lesbo was a friend of mine who I was indebted to, having fucked a couple of her GF's, so I repayed the debt by arranging an opportunity to fuck the bartender I was dating. lol

Um I take DP is out of the question then?

But I hold firm on my hourly rate.

"Grossed out and run like hell" or more of a "It's there, so why not?" approach? Lol.

So is the woman your only hindrance, have you discussed this with other guys who are up for it? My dinner conversations have most people falling out of their chairs to catch every word. I've found I'm not normal though, plus I live for reactions from normal everyday people. You can't assume people are mind readers, approach topics gingerly if you're interested. Preferably after you've had a few, so if anything you can blame it on something other than having desires some may consider tabu.

That is supposed to make us homophobic! WTF?!

it would be a sexual turn-off for me and for no other reason.  As I later pointed out, that's a matter of sexual preference, not an opinion about gay sex.  
And I'm not gay either, but that doesn't equate to being homophobic.  It's a simple statement of my sexual orientation.  Seems to me what your saying is analogous to claiming that if I say I'm a Caucasian then that makes me anti-Black.

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but I'm not sure that my version of the fantasy would fit well in the P4P realm. "Seeking it out" sort of suggests it is all about me, whereas in my own fantastical version it would be as much about "her".  I see it as more of a "Lady's Choice" dance, with inclusion being a great privilege.  

So what do you think of MFM?

The dynamics would appear some what skewed, if the customer is booking the encounter through you the woman.

Because, for me at least, the girl really has to be into it and want to try it.  I don't even recall whose idea the first MFM I did was.  The one that has yet to happen with the gal from Texas just came up in conversation with her.  The one that may be about to happen sprang from my friend talking with the girl in question.  It will be my first time seeing her, so that's a new wrinkle as well.
If the idea interests you, I'd suggest the next time you're with a gal you'd like to be the recipient, just start chatting with her about what she likes.  In my case she said she'd never done it and the idea turned her on.
And, of course, you have to have another male friend who is comfortable with the scenario and you have to br comfortable with him.

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your snarky comments are generally better than this..

I'm a big fan!

just like the "other doubles" is about me first.  

but I'm not paying for a stunt cock as well.  

Firstly, let me clarify that when you're right next to someone in person, homophobia is pretty easy to spot. There is no doubt in my mind that my two failed attempts at MFM above failed precisely because of homophobia. So there's that.  

Just own what you are and move on already.
The more you talk and defend yourself, is making it worst. Lo

Me LIKEY!!!!

And I can't speak for Jack, only myself. I have no fear of anybody else's hard cock.  It just doesn't turn me on, so having a second one in the same room with me is a bit problematic.  The fact that I"m willing to try it anyway, several times, should make it clear I'm not homophobic. Besides, the other guy is as far from gay as I am. In fact, I think it's hot to see my friend fucking a girl doggy while she's worshipping my cock with her mouth.  And clearly having a great time.  Or vice versa.

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That during a MFM or foursome MFMF, the guys cocks accidently touched during all the action like crossing swords, not a term of intentional interacting with another man.

Steph xoxo

And they were pretty damn hot.  They are combinations of porn-type sex, where you're participating and watching at the same time.

you know, Male-Female-Camel are Camelphobic (as many independent studies have definitively proven), so I guess the same logic must appy to the MFM situation too.

Why can't a man just love pussy without the stupid labels?  
I am man that only wants and love pussy, get over it!
Most men don't want to fuck or let alone share a woman with another man, while they fuck.
You might have a great body with a sexy face, but you are wrong about this one terrilynn.
Let a man love pussy!
This should be a new movement. Lo

a civvie I was hot for, I just MIGHT be willing to go along...
Hell, two years ago I never thought I'd be having sex with random hotties in this P4P world, so you never know what the future holds.

They were co-workers. Decent-looking, interesting people. Unfortunately, it was just multitask central for me...I felt like I was operating mission control. I also got the first and only UTI of my life.

Yeah- that wasn't directed toward you. It was in response to JD's incredulous response. It's clear that you're not homophobic, and that you're open enough to give new things a try. And you've found something super hot for yourself as a result. Now something may not turn you on, but it's clearly not sending you vomiting to the sink either. Meaning that you don't have an irrational fear of other penises in the room with you, nor are you worried that someone might think you're gay. I.e., you're definitely not homophobic.

See, you're specifying things you'd like to do to my body: fisting, urinating, and a little bdsm. (And I'd like to point out that you don't know what I like- maybe all three would be fun.) But let's get back to the discussion at hand: I'm merely saying that homophobia prevents a lot of people from having as much fun as they could be having if it weren't for their irrational fears. That's all. I'm not telling you what you should like. I'm suggesting that ridding oneself of one's irrational fears could open worlds. That's all.  

Performance anxiety, I've experienced that. Don't think I'd label it homophobia only because there's no way the subject would ever be broached let alone have two naked men in a room sporting wood. It is ignorance and generally the ones effected show their interest by protesting too much. Some people's worst fear is that they may enjoy something they aren't supposed to, as deemed by our uptight society. Male on male interactions aren't going anywhere. Hopefully we can all be a bit more accepting to each other's choices when it comes to what turns you on.

Posted By: SoftlySarah

Firstly, let me clarify that when you're right next to someone in person, homophobia is pretty easy to spot. There is no doubt in my mind that my two failed attempts at MFM above failed precisely because of homophobia. So there's that.  
   

Posted By: JackDunphy

Being homophobic is a choice made from ignorance.

   
 A fear is a fear- not a choice. Often, fears are irrational, based on ignorance or misapprehensions. But fears aren't conscious choices.  
   
 "Main Entry: ho·mo·pho·bia  
 Pronunciation: \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\  
 Function: noun  
 Date: 1969  
 :  irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals  
 — ho·mo·pho·bic  \-ˈfō-bik\ adjective"  
   

Posted By: JackDunphy

Not wanting to have MFM sex is outside of my control and thus isn't a choice for me.

 Ok- so maybe it's not your thing- I don't have any problem with that. But an aversion to another cock in the room could definitely be considered a fear. Here's a great little bit on the origin of the word "homophobia", which I think applies to most naysayers here:  
   
 "The word homophobia first appeared in print in an article written for the May 23, 1969, edition of the American pornographic magazine Screw, in which the word was used to refer to heterosexual men's fear that others might think they are gay.[11]"  
 Herek, Gregory (April 2004). "Beyond "Homophobia": Thinking about sexual prejudice and stigma in the twenty-first century". Sexuality Research and Social Policy (Springer) 1 (2): 6–24. doi:10.1525/srsp.2004.1.2.6.  
 http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homophobia  
   
 I'm certainly not insisting anyone should do anything they're uncomfortable with. I'm just saying that as with most prejudices, one cuts onesself off from a lot of fun and delicious experiences by either having a closed mind or allowing an irrational fear based on ignorant assumptions to rule one's [sex] life.

The men were co-workers of each other. They were clients of an agency I worked for. NOT my co-workers.

GFY really. I didn't say all men n stop twisting my words. I will say this about a few here, you all sure like to start shit over another dick

Just hang out with us at the Cocal pool bar and we'll interview willing candidates

though I do get the question of intent.  That's also why MFM is distinguished from MMF, the latter of which signifies intentional sexual interplay between the males.

My fear of other peni is completely rational, lol! But it is limited to erect ones pointed in my direction.

Terrilynn this was what you said yesterday and I was not twisting your words:

Please don't make him angry.  He may harm himself.

Eunichs have no balls.

And you two ladies can get it on and he can play with the other one.  Just make it clear he can't touch you. Nah, stick to FFF, then there won;t be a sad guy sitting there holding his dick...lol

Get that thing away from me. I can't see too many guys saying "It's there , so why not"?

I have had 2 female providers at the same time, which quickly devolved to one greedy one and one who wasn't into it.  While I am hetero and have no interest in gay sex I also would have no objection to being in the same room, or the same girl with another guy.  Swords crossing by accident is an occupational hazard, but I definitely wouldn't aim for it as a goal.
One at each end as shown in the OP picture would be fine.

On the very slim chance that you can get me drunk enough to go along with this, be my guest.

I do feel obligated to warn you that last Thanksgiving I ran up a $700 bar tab at the CoCal without having a bite to eat, ended up with two chicas who's ages put together wasn't close to any of ours, and still ended up throwing out the one I didn't find hot enough, and I bet you even the one I threw out would get 8's or even 9's on TER.

So, I am game if you two are, but I warn you, I am not THAT easy to take advantage of.  I may have no morals, but I do have standards lol

So don't try and put other people into it.  


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But that could prove expensive.

j/k

Yea I know what I said..Um do you?? I did say MOST guys NOT ALL. I am not arguing with you over MY EXPERIENCES about dicks OR homophobia. I am however highly allergic to stupid people. You need to learn how to read before you say I am dead wrong about MY EXPERIENCES.  
THANKS for saying I look good I GUESS.
Take care

Or the straight men? Are you bi-confused HT? lol

I shall preface this with NOT ALL LESBIANS, but many love to be fucked but just not have a man attached to it, as in a dildo and not a real penis. I guess it is who or what is attached to the phallic object that makes the difference to some.

This is what I said in my first comment to you:

And now your moment of Zen -eom-

I guess a way to compare would be imagining a nice juicy pussy that is very fuckable, but it is attached to a guy. Now THAT would send most straight guys (and lesbians too) screaming into the night.

This is NOT when the "stupid part" of him comes in. He is one giant "stupid part" with no "non stupid parts" to use as contrast. lol

He is one of those posters that are more fun to "talk about" than "talk to" Talking about him and lobbing an occasional insult can be slightly entertaining and unlike "talking to" him, you don't feel dumber for the experience.

N you know what they say about stupid people too?
Thanks for letting us all know all your knowledge about dicks
And damn I only thought I was a professional slut lmao!!

Having an "aversion" to something and a "fear" of something are not remotely the same. Aversion means to dislike something and "fear" means to be scared of it.

I will let you assume and keep making yourself feel better, but I know the truth! Lol
So I like it when people talk smack and it's all fun on my end.
Also my experience comes from my own personal dick and in this hobby.  
If you took a poll, most men would agree with me.
We are all sluts, since we are in this hobby.
The difference is I only want and fuck pussy and you probably go both ways.

What if we were to claim that gay people let their irrational fear of pussy interfere with having a healthy and happy sex life? Can you imagine the outrage from the gay community over such a narrow minded statement? Well, I don't see any thing the least bit different about what you are trying to say here.

I am not wired to enjoy being naked with another man in a sexual situation, I don't want to do a gang bang. a MFM, a MMF or anything else sexual with another man, Why can't an "open minded" woman like you accept that fact without trying to label those of us that feel that way. It really appears like you are even more narrow minded than those that you are attempting to chastise.

ok heres where the stupid part of you comes in

My OP was from MY EXPERIENCE jackass

When I want a woman I want all of it, the smell of her hair, the texture of her skin, the way a woman kisses (so different from a man...sorry guys, better than a man), not a pussy attached to a big hairy, male smelling body. I can get that any day of the week.

She looks hot as hell and he's really attracted to her, wants to fuck her.  Then her schlong pops out and he runs screaming into the night with his hair on fire.

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I never said someone who isn't wired a certain way is unhealthy. I just said that the more open minded one is the more pleasures await. Jeeze!  

I've done 3 MFM's with 3 different girls and 2 different guys.  It was great sex all around for everyone. The best one was with my ATF as it was extra exciting to see her being pleasured by another guy.  The connection I had with her just heightened the sex and the thrill.  As for no crossing swords, the guys agreed ahead of time that would not be happening and we told the lady involved.  Not a big deal really.

I completely agree. What a fucktard beyond belief!! Lol like I don't know about cock, MFM, Gangbangs or anything of a slut nature ROTFLMFA!!! BWAHAHA!!!  
Sluts unite lol!!!

Me and a friend of mine did a session with the Provider I'm seeing. I asked her if she was good with it and she said Great. No problem. We've seen her twice together. He finished in a cover with her. I finished BBFSCIP with her. She really enjoyed it since she doesn't do this very often. Been looking for another friend to go with me to see her. So far no luck.

The visuals are hot but I'm nervous about crossing swords and being shown up by someone studlier so my fantasy ends up being Me on one end and Me on the other end of a hot F: Me-F-Me.  I get the best of both worlds

Never happened in my MFM Session. When my friend was on one side with her, I was on the other side. Then we swtiched sides. At no point did we ever cross swords.