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Hobbyists and Providers I need some advice..............................
numbnuts11 4234 reads
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I am a single guy and there is this lady provider, who is leaving the business soon and wants to see me privately. She has told me that she's not looking for a husband (divorced from first) just a sexbuddy. To be honest I have never met a woman as horny as her. Her 1 hr sessions with me sometimes extend for 2-3hrs (free time). She says from a sexual standpoint we are a perfect match.

I have a 1hr session with her for 9pm and she has cleared her schedule for the rest of the evening. Question, have any of you guys experienced this and how should would you handle this.

Ladies, what's going on and what should I do.

blakkromeo2g2375 reads

You have something that she wants. We guys want to believe it's just our irresistable dicks (stop laughing ladies), but it's likely to be something else---call me a cynic. Maybe you've got money, a nice house---I don't know. But I doubt that it's just the sex. A provider who's leaving the business but loves sex...smells fishy (no pun intended). Remember the old saying, bro: There's a sucker born every minute.

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SweetTina2607 reads

I have a provider regular who I see often. He always takes 2 hours and I end up spending about three hours or more with him. He is married, has kids almost the same age as I am. I spend that extra time with him because I like being intimate with him. I love the way he sucks my breasts and eats me. His touch is amazing and I find myself getting wet thinking about being with him. He does the same and I get off seeing his soaked underwear because he says I thought about you the whole way over here and he creamed himself. His kiss is awesome and I love his laugh. I don't want him to leave his wife. That's the last thing I want. In fact I stopped seeing him for three months because his wife may have known about me. I don't want anyone's husband, well not permanently. lol He is very well off. He has his own business, boats, cars, a beautiful house, etc but I don't want that. I just like f*cking him. I love how he makes my body feel. He married his wife right out of high school and said that she hasn't had sex with him in years and he resorted to porn but desperately missed a body to be with so he found me totally by accident (long story). I taught him how to properly eat me because he had no idea how to do it. He told me I was the first woman to come in his mouth. After that it was on! I think this guy should go for it. In this business I knew girls who caught VD from a client when the condom broke. On the California board there is a provider who caught chlamidiya from a client orally. This business is very risky. I love sex but I am aware of those things happening and that (God forbid) it can happen to me. I don't think she is full of bunk. Perhaps this hobbyist makes me feel as good as my guy does and she doesn't want to lose it. BTW I am not in love with my client. Any guy who spends two hours with his face buried in my muff and will do anything for my pleasure, you don't get rid of. ;)

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blakkromeo2g3939 reads

would you give up your job just to be with him if you could? If so, what would he have to provide, beides sex, to make it worth quitting?

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SweetTina3552 reads

She says she is leaving the business anyway. It seems there is another line of word she wants to do. Good sex is good sex and she wants to keep doing it with him. I don't see a problem with it.

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blakkromeo2g2286 reads

"You can't make a whore into a housewife."

Take it for what it's worth to you, but I think you know I'm right. You ladies provide a fantasy--a transaction--and when you try to legitamize this into a relationship, the foundation is weak and so is the relationship it's built on. Inevitably, the sex will become less scintillating and all that will be left is the shell of who they are...and he or she will go a-hunting again for something new. Happens more often than not.

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Gag_Me4740 reads

That's exactly it. Sometimes it's all about the sex and nothing else. She simply wants to keep fucking him.

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coinage1410 reads

There are always the times that you will find a person that you simply have sexual chemistry with. Your fortunate. Just dont let her move in with you or start buying her extrevagant gifts.

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bodhisattva3691 reads

Freely relinqusih yourself and you will have your answer.

what's the saying don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

If you like this woman and you are mature enough to handle a purely sexual relationship, try it out.

Has it happened to me? who the hell cares, it's happinging to you.

What does it mean? nothing! take it purely at face value.

The only down side is if you two make it mean something and you are not on the same page. ie you still hobby and she wants it to be exclusive or vise-versa.

Have fun, be safe and enjoy the wild ride.

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1woody3037 reads

I haven't been that lucky in years. Just be honest with each other and be a true friend. That is all you can do. She has to be responsible for her own happiness.

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PeterPickle3369 reads

don't look a gift horse in the mouth. If you enjoy spending time with her, or even if you just enjoy banging her, may as well run with it.  

I'd suggest you don't throw caution to the wind though, nothing in life is free.

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SilkShaft3188 reads

I am intrigued by your circumstance.

Would like to follow as this plays out.  Please consider PM-ing if you would rather not post developments.

Peace.
Silk

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Jadie2724 reads

Just don’t confuse great sex with anything but that. Also when one moves from a non-exclusive relationship to an exclusive relationship the parameters and expectation of each other will change.  So all that glitters may just be fools gold. But you never know until you try.

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random1333471 reads

could possibly ask this question seriously.

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sunraider2786 reads

Numbnuts, you are one of the luckiest SOBs on the face of the earth.

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