Re: The Next Dr. Ciara question

The majority of gentlemen I tried that with usually end up short of breath. LOL THATS how I know they like it.
If I feel or 'hear no response I move on to more 'tender' areas that get that result I'm looking for.
I would like to know what you guys feel about it also. I'm curious just as Ciara.
PLEASE TELL Gentlemen

xoxo
~Diana~

It doesn't excite me, nor does it make me feel weird. I don't get shocked or feel dirty, but the erotica from it is about the same as kissing the back of my hand.

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oh, but to answer your question: I do love it personally...don't know why but the sensation is great for me. Licking and light, stress light, teeth.

Besides, I like having that done to me--just as I like doing it to you!

A bit of gentle work with the tongue is nice, particularly if there is also full body contact while doing it.  

I do feel a little strange about it.  Here is why:  I have a hairy chest.  While the lady is sucking my nipples all I can imagine is the poor woman with a mouth full of hair.  Not a picture you want in your mind while trying to enjoy yourself.  But I just can't bring myself to wax my chest.

Dear Dr. Ciara:
I was wondering why would you have an proclivity for that erogenous zone? Also in you infinite years of service and coital activity as a heterosexual women how would you know what erogenous zones to concentrate on for different client and what information is shared so you know where to go?

with your penchant for nipple play... love it and it's great knowing it gets you off. It's a wonder more providers don't share what gets to them... it's important that you love your work in my opinion and when provider's don't it kills the moment(s) for me. I try to get gone as quickly as possible because there is nothing worse than being someone in a state of self-loathing and fear that they might like the person they are with just enough to say something as simple as, "I hope to see you again soon... I  so liked that way we connected and here's what you did that made it really go well for me.... Simple, huh... too bad, most of us don't have the verbal skills to pull that off and be sincere...

Something I found to work well

for my own enjoyment is, if instead of the lady using her fingers/mouth directly on the nipples, instead use a piece of her lingerie (silk or satin works great) on top, and then use the finger tips to stimulate the nipples. The fabric tends to 'spread' the sensation a bit, which is nice for those of us who find direct touch either too intense, or conversely, not intense enough.

Side note - men can train themselves to get close to an orgasm by stimulating their nipples each day. After a while the become conditioned to joining int he arousal process. This makes sense since some research shows that there is a nerve pathway for women between their clitoris, nipples, and lips (usually the lower one). Stimulating all three simultaneously can be be an intensifier for the ladies.

Way back when . . . I just couldn't imagine somebody being turned on by men's nipples and wanting to suck them-- especially when they're hairy. It wasn't initially pleasurable for me, and it has never been pleasurable as the other way around.

I got over it, but to me it was immediately strange-- and, how do I describe it? I had to let go of something first.

It puts a straight guy in the position of "nursing," and if he can't get that out of his mind, he's not going to be able to do it.

I'm not into it. . . If I had a six-pack abs, and a chiseled chest it might do something for me, but it sort of draws attention to my flaws, so I'm not into it.

-M

there isn't a woman alive

with nipples more sensitive than this mans!

Love to suck, lick and nibble on them..

Like you say, some like it, some love it, others it has no effect and then the "OMG! PLEASE don't do that!!!" types..

I have found a few that are into the extreme far side - clamps, teeth, pinch and twist.. hehehehe

It isn't shock, Dr. C., it's pain.

I had a provider with a well known but under the radar agency in DC do this to me about 5 years ago; she said a prior boyfriend told her it was erogenous for him.  She tried it with me and I went through the roof--better than a BJ and when paired with intercourse, out of this world. She called a man's nipples the 'keys to the kingdom'.

I do get other providers who seem to shy away from touching, and definitely licking or sucking them, even though I keep them 'clean'. Funny, I'd think given a choice of where to put your lips, that nipples would be an easy pick.  Oh, well. Sometimes, I can't come without this extra stimulation.

As with other activities, I think it's about techinque. I had one provider who apparently felt the need to take my nipples with her when she left. OUCH!!!!! I'm sure some of you ladies know how that feels, but like with you, nice soft touching and licking can drive me crazy.