I am in my late sixties. I don't think I'm too old for any of the fine ladies here, but I sometimes get self-conscious.

I do know that some ladies have a lower age limit. This I kind of understand, as many young men are quite immature, rambunctious, and overly entitled.

I think her limit is 60.  Basically, each gal has her own comfort level and I'm fine with it.

I don't want some dude dying on me. Just sayin.

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Have the upper age limits. It's always pretty clear in their website. I don't think it's so much you should feel self-conscious about yourself, my oldest friend is 83 and he's AMAZING, but I'm also 37. Some of the younger ladies just don't have any interest entertaining a gentleman that they feel there is too much of a generational gap. And that's perfectly okay, to each their own. No one should ever do something they aren't comfortable with.

I'll be perfectly honest, I don't have any age requirements, but I've found two things to be generally true:

1) The younger crowd indeed can be a bit immature. Not all. I've had some very fun younger dates.

2) Again, not all, but sometimes the older crowd books a 3 hour date and pops a fistful of Viagara and wants to punish my canal the ENTIRE time. It's brutal, lol.

So it does work both ways.  Basically, don't worry about it. Find a lady that is okay with your age that you have chemistry with and have a good time ; )

I've seen very few who have an explicit cut off, but plenty more who instead prefer to take it on a case by case basis. The barely legals will generally have the most disinterest in seeing you (there are exceptions!).

I hope I'm still interested when I'm 83... and interesting..

Thank you..

Some just won't see guys that wear Depends

That may not be age specific however.

I really enjoy men in every decade. If a man is willing to jump through my hoops to meet me, then in my eyes he is a quality man regardless of age. I've had clients from 20's through 70's and I can find something endearing about all of them.
As the saying goes "age ain't nuthin but a number" right?

Sitara Devi

It was 55 but I recently raised it to 60. I gotta tell y'all, I've never had anyone get rude with me because they were too young, but I've had many get all kinds of obnoxious because they were over my age max. So trust me, it's not just the young guys who can be "overly entitled."

Is it fair to say that in another few years it'll be 65?

And in fairness to those who are in nursing homes...will you be offering outcall to them in 10 years?

Ageism is so ugly at times.

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and you'll be fine.  

Some providers might even let you take an afternoon nap and change diapers.

...relating to their personal preferences, be it age, ethnicity, gender...what have you. If you're not their flavor, put them on your own DNS list and move on to the next one.

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but I will always be me, so I'll never be able to book with her.

Hey, it was only fair since I moved into the "26-30" bracket. If for whatever reason I'm still around when I move into the next bracket, I'll bump it again. World keeps a'spinnin'.  

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You're damn right about that.

dont like to meet younger guys...cant hold a conversation, and want to recreate their favorite porno movies. LOL  

I like sensuality, exploring, going with the flow

but a lady who dosen't see stupid people can't be too busy.

I'm joking ,if you didn't know?

Just curious.

And how are you going to be # 116?

Reminds me of someone.

You remind me of someone too.

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Wow...just wow

Are you going to call his "friend" Daddy so they know who is who?

Blech

But I find it creepy and not in a good way!

At your age I would think calling anyone here Dad is creepy.  

As to the debate team...I trust you didn't participate much.  Debaters don't quit.

I simply find calling someone "Dad or Daddy" who isn't your father odd.

But I guess others like it.  That topic has been discussed, and I don't recall many here finding it a turn-on.

Some are OK with Papi...not sure I get that distinction either

I'm sorry you think otherwise

He wasn't on the playground at recess

I would say that "maybe there is hope for him yet" but we all know that simply is NOT true. lol

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broad-minded than many of us guys. Whether they have an upper or lower limit or not.  

I mean, how many times have we seen any woman over 35 condemned as an "OTHFB"? I reckon if we change that last "B" to "Bastard" it works both ways.

Anyway, let everyone choose as they will. It all seems to work out fine. The only disagreements appear to be over whose opinion is the "right" one.

For me, the older the better  

Lol jk..
But I prefer 35 and above. Cant deny

I would imagine some men lie about their age, like many women over twenty nine.
 
   Looking at the bright side, hopefully you will live long enough to be happy with  a ninety year  
     old guy.

   At the rate time flies those days are right around the corner.  
   
   
   

it's just YOU. Do you even see how crazy you look? You have no reviews, and me thinks you were not willing to provide work info. so she gave you the ax. BFD. Pick up your chin and go find another escort.

I don't recall who or where right now so can't post names or links. It is definitely rare though. I'm guessing it's not rare that ladies have their limits, but very rare that they are up front about it like you.

She won't see a lot of us either.  So fuckin' what.   Show some self respect.  Really dude.

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More the merrier in the $ realm.

I hope not and so far there are some select ladies who continue to see me at 82 and 11 months. With a DUO set for 83.

I thought I recall reading about local (Chicago) ladies who love older gents. I suspect you can find someone if you ever visit my area. You can look me up too. If you are kind and easy going, you win brownie points with me!

Edit:  If you were 25-30 years old?

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But sleep is likely all those fellas are doing.  Well, maybe they're getting some as well.  Good question...maybe TER can start a poll on that?

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For someone who has expressively stated she would never see me

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I was so desperate I would have fucked anything that was human, willing and female. I had no luck with the ladies until I was 29. So yes I would and I would have been thankful. But I was a desperate virginal looser, so I don't think I count.

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Ask around and learn grasshopp

My wife and I had sex up and until  she got ill when she was 72.  Now I play with women, not girls  who are 29 years old and older. In fact. today, 15 days until my 83rd birthday i Had a great DATY, 69 and CIM with my ATF 29 year old.

I an only assume you have an age limit for reasons that are personal and unique to yourself. Why get an attitude about it. As hot as your pictures and reviews are, you're not the only fish in the sea. If you don't want to see me because of my age, I tip my hat and move on. Giving you a hard time about the age limit is simply challenging your freedom of choice to engage in carnal pleasures based on your own terms.

but I got to agree. I still stay as busy as I chose, but I could make bomb ass money seeing those type.  

What do you think, a stupid fee? I have done that for irritating people and if they are well behaved in our meeting, they lose the fee next time. That's for the border-line ones who pass screening. I am too nice sometimes but have been proven wrong on first impressions via communications.

They have a naughty dog fee at the dog groomers, so ..... I lost a bet on my friend's dog getting the fee again. Quite sad. Had to buy her a chainsaw for her cabin. Sort of weird, but understandable lol. BTW that is NOT cheap. Crap, the dog always had a 80% chance of getting the fee for playing too much. I was setup by that Lab, I tell you!!! See if she gets anymore treats for me!!!

Seriously, to answer the OP... for me, I will not see someone who isn't mature. My friends are all much older than me, and quite frankly, I enjoy hearing stories of how it use to be and the experiences. I am happiest with 48 plus. I just relate better (How I am, I am not that old) plus I am a very nice, understanding, patient person in the hobby. I rarely see under 30 unless they prove themselves as not immature. I want to enjoy and be a total GFE, not PSE or wham bam thank you ma'am.  

Let the record stand, I agreed with Johny, Flack away, I don't mind being spanked.  

I've gotten everything from unattractive begging to verbal abuse for not budging my lower age limit -- certainly not an incentive for me to make an exception!  I haven't heard a peep about the upper, though, past a disappointed sigh.


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If he as ED issues and is on a bucket of vitamin V I would decline V dick is not my friend.  

I work smart, not hard. If everything works and he is in good health, I could care less how old. It is work and not a dating scene.

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You said the other day she refused to see your because you were white, which I know is far from the case. We have seen some of the same white dudes.

Have you had a session with MacDaddy? You should, he has some serious attitude. LOL

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You forgot to put empty spaces between your commas!  It's like you're no longer the same QUAD I used to know... :

Thank you Robbin

still not mature.
And, yeah, I know...pot=kettle=black.  But I've always been proudly immature.

40, has major personality problems, meltdowns and is out of touch with reality? That's your shoe is, wear it. You can have yet another handle and not have your reviews linked, but it's still you.

But I do have to admit, having a handle that sounds like babbling baby talk seems fitting.

Typing slow.  

  If I keep up my previous pace, before I realize it tomorrow will be  next year , the day after is ten years from now , and that dizzy blonde will be mocked by a new  over the hill gang .  
  Feel better now     ?  

I saw one on here that was visiting within driving distance, but had an age limit of 55....being 59, I messaged her and asked if her age limit was hard and fast...her reply..."That's why it's there"...pretty rude and I think I saved some money.

Actually 117 and 118. Blonde Brunette tag team. It was epic. Read all about it. Soon my lonely little stalker.

how do you plan on digging out all those poor people out of the rubbles when the rubbles get heavier? lol

Unless their goal is to annoy me, in which case that's a great way to do it.

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You're starting to scare me. Please stop.

Just think about it logically for one second: why would someone go to the trouble of putting their rules in writing if they were just going to contradict them every time someone asked them to make an exception? Let's say a lady had a rate of $600/hr, and an potential client only had $500 to spend. So that client contacts her and says "I have $500...is your posted rate of $600 a hard and fast rule?" Why on earth would she put $600 in her ads if she'd be willing to take $500?

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The wording is a little snarky.  Something like, "Yes, sorry" would have been better.

For blatantly ignoring her limit, thinking somehow you were so special she would alter it. And her reply was not out of line. Imagine what she might think...Hmmm he wants to push that limit, what other limits will he ignore once one-on-one. She dodged you!

Yes, I get it all the time being a "massage" provider. They ask if I do FS/GFE when it's right there in my ad and my reviews that I do not. There's no way a number is going to pop up on my screen and you're going to be the one that I decide to change what I offer. I only run my ads where it's appropriate for the service I offer, so it really is a nuisance and shows exactly who they are when they pull that. I guess it's a good thing though because you can realize they're boundary pushers from the very start. Also wasting my time by not reading my ad just lets me know you're fishing for anyone who will answer and probably have no clue as to what I offer, I really rather not work on people like that. So yes, very rude and the provider had every right to respond as she saw fit.  

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Tobi, you must get a ton of shit for that. Are there times when you regret having it in writing? Personally, I'd rather see a provider's "rules" in writing. Otherwise we have to read through several reviews to see if there is a common thread and that can be painful ...

BTW see if you can get the that hippie boarder chick into a good shop ... see needs more ink

Why would you go out with two gay guys? Where are your reviews btw? Do they like snails?

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Someone sure hit a little touchy here no?

You'd expect her to say sorry? Why should she apologize for sticking to her own, clearly-stated boundaries?  

When someone asks me to make an exception to my rules just for them (be it age restrictions, rates, screening requirements, physical boundaries, etc), they're basically saying that they won't take my word in terms of my personal boundaries and that they'll attempt to bend my rules to suit them. It's presumptuous and disrespectful.

And at least we know with you the melt-downs have been very, very public and right on this very board.
So there's that.

Every time I mention it she claims it never happened or she doesn't remember.  Early Onset Alzheimers, perhaps?

she might have engaged in a dialog that would end in "yes."  And even if not, many girls have restrictions they are willing to bend for someone who comes across as someone they'd click with.  You don't need to be abrupt or pushy,  The opposite in fact.

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Me? I'm having a ball with life as much as I can these days. And I'm SO not a grandmother you ignorant slut!

London, you introduced yourself to me as the "infamous" London Rayne ... I'm starting to get it now. You also called me a  "dumb ass" ... I got that one right away.

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upon further review........you may just have something there.  I guess I was just wasting her time.  

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