Pretty girl...I know she's a ho because of her reviews.  "I slammed two fingers up her ass and came all over her face.  What a site (sic)to behold!"  "I shoved it up her ass and slapped her when she moaned."  "I pounded her pussy and cummed real good (sic)."   Well, that's the way it goes.  She is nothing but a meat fantasy, no different from the liver into which Phillip Roth masturbated and which was served for dinner by his mom.

Except, except, except.  I know her story.  I know she's a throw-away kid whose parents and siblings know about her provider life and think she deserves it.  "Tough love", don't you know.  I know that she has internalized their judgment.  Like another throw-away kid I knew and loved, she is flirting with suicide or murder.  She is incrediby open.  She'll tell you anything about her needs, which are always financial.  She has come to understand herself as nothing but a rent-a-pussy.  She is sliding down a razor blade and can't get off.  Aint that sexy?

Some women on this site are whole and healthy and altogether beautiful.  Others are badly hurt.  Be kind.  Be generous.  Celebrate the encounter or mourn it, but see who you are with.    

-- Modified on 9/23/2004 3:00:13 PM

You're guess is as good as ours.

I think there are as many reasons that people participate in this hobby as there are hobbiest.

I would guess that a good portion of the ladies have been treated as the review infers. I would also guess there are as many stories behind these ladies lives too.

This is a deep topic and I could go into tremendous personal detail about how I am and the such, but I think you said it all. "Be kind.  Be generous."  

In the end we are all whole and beautiful. Life happens and that all it is, something that happens. It only means anything if you make it.

"Celebrate the encounter or mourn it, but see who you are with".

He's telling the guys to SEE who they are with instead of seeing her as "a piece of meat".

Nothing wrong with a reminder like this.  Good advice for life in general, including outside the "hobby".

I think that this is just about the most tragic thing I've read on these boards.

To anyone who doesn't get it, I think it's suggesting that you should look beyond the transaction and look at the person.  Just because there's a fee doesn't mean you should treat someone with disrespect.  This girl can't love or respect herself because no one else does.  She doesn't value herself beyond the financial because she is only capable of relating to herself in terms of monetary value.  

I suppose it comes down to this:  would you like to see a loved one treated in that way?  We're all connected in some way, shape or form.

~A~

You are exactly right.  Thanks for getting it.